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Shripalk Thursday, July 31, 2003 - 9:56 am:      'Hindu-Varna' system and various castes and sub-castes might have been introduced in the society to mainly streamline the societal day to day functions. But slowly it was made quite rigid for marriage and other social functions. May be for selfish purpose, the origin of this system-concept was put in God's mouth, to bring un-challanged acceptability; as Lord Krishna tells in Geeta that it is He who has created this system! In my opinion no God will create such divisive system. The fact remains that this system is one of the big blots in the Hindu religion. The present religious leaders like Shanakaracharyas, and all other so called VHPs etc. should slowly remove this system. There is no doubt that in highly educated society and where economic independence is achieved, inter-caste/inter-religion marriages are taking place. Success of the marriage, in my opinion, has nothing to do with the same caste marriage or the inter-caste. It is more of understanding each others rights and requirements and giving the due respect to each other. Slowly I think this is happening, particularly for the boys and girls going to USA for higher studies and getting good jobs there.

Maddy Sunday, December 11, 2005 - 4:10 am:      Hi i am new to this forum.when two people each other caste i no bar. But at same time girl should understand that she should be ready to accept culture of that home.Boy should be help her.At that intercaste marrige will be good.bcoz they have to prove that whatever partener thaey have choose is best than whatever their parent selected

Manuswini Monday, December 12, 2005 - 7:28 pm:      हे काय एथे english मधे लिहिता आहात माझ एक मत love-marriage has completly different angle मग ते मोठ्या बहिणीने, भावाने काय केले ते एका वाक्यात अस सान्गु शकतो प्यार हुवा गधी से तो परी क्या चीज़ आहे बाकी arranged असेल तर सगळीच बनियागिरी करवी लागते बनियागिरी म्हणजे तोलुन मोजुन मापुन वगैरे. आणी कशाला कितपत महत्व हा ज्याचा त्याचा प्रश्न आहे,असतो आणि असावा बहुतेक what he/she believes in I guess, how she/he has been braught up ,his beliefs काय म्हण्ता मड्ली मी म्हण्ते ते बरोबर का नाहे एवाना कोणाच लग्न झाल असत नुसती चर्चा करत बसण्यापेक्षा

Bee Tuesday, December 13, 2005 - 7:07 am:      lol मनुस्विनी! Arrange marriage बद्दलची लेण देण एकदम पटली बघ.. पण असे होत नाही आपल्याकडे ज्याची लायकी असते मागण्याची तो संमजसपणे एकही पै घेत नाही, ज्याची लायकी नसते तो ढीगानी मागतो. तरी मराठी लोकांमधे हे प्रमाण खूप कमी आहे. माझ्या एका रूमीने सहा महिन्यांचा पगार advance मधे मागून वरदक्षिणेची बरोबरी केली होती. पटले का

Manuswini Tuesday, December 13, 2005 - 6:04 pm:      बी मी पैशाच्या आणि देवाण घेवाण वस्तुची नाही बोलत आहे एथे. मी म्हणत होते की तोलुन मोजुन मापुन म्हणजे की मुलगा, मुलगी कशी दिसते, काय शिकली, family background कसा आहे, कमवती आहे का वगैरे वगैरे आणि मी यात चुकिचे आहे किन्वा असे असु नये वगैरे काहे म्हणत नाही हा नाहीतर उगाच एथे V&C सुरु होईल

Champak Tuesday, December 13, 2005 - 8:38 pm:      मनःस्विनी, हा v & c bb च आहे ग तु तुझे विचार अगदी परखड पणे मांड!

Bee Wednesday, December 14, 2005 - 1:25 am:      मनुस्विनि, तुझी देवाण घेवाणाची परिभाषा इतकी स्वच्छ आहे हे माहिती नव्हते मला. अरे चंपक, आजकाल v & c च्या बीबीवर V & C ची मज्जा येत नाही. म्हणून नको त्या बीबीवर V & C करायचा..

Maudee Tuesday, March 07, 2006 - 10:41 am:      what is V&C exactly

Moodi Tuesday, March 07, 2006 - 10:43 am:      जे या बीबीचे नाव आहे तेच views & comments .

Maudee Tuesday, March 07, 2006 - 10:53 am:      Antar jatiy wiwah yashswi hone athwa na hone he poornapane tya gharatlya mansanchya waicharik prgalbhtewar awlambun aahe. Ani he doghahi kadchya lokani lagnaghatikepasun lakshat thavave. Maza swatahacha aantarjatiy wiwah aahe ani lagnala warsha zale aahe. Gelya warshbharat aamchya gharat kadhihi caste wishyee bolane zalele nahi....tyamule katu shabd yet nahit konakadunach ani paryayane watawaran gadhul hot nahi. Shivay swajatiy lagna kele tari mulga ani mulgi doghanahi adjustment karavich lagte.....mazya mate tar antar jatiy wiwah kelyawar kami adjustment karavi lagte. Mi asa clearly mhanu shakte jeva mi mazya kahi bahininchya sansarashi compare karte. Tya sarvani swajatiy wiwah kele aahet.

Marathi_mulaga Friday, March 24, 2006 - 11:29 am:      मी या डिस्कशन मध्ये नविन आहे. सर्वान्ना नमस्कार. आपल्या इतिहासात बरेच आन्तर्जातिय विवाह झालेले आहेत. माझ्या मते आन्तर्जातिय विवाहामुळेच आपल्या समाजातील जे काही डिफ़रन्सीस आहेत ते कमी होतील. जातिविषयक दरी कमी होइल.

Dha Friday, March 24, 2006 - 8:01 pm:      Hi! mi ithe navin ahe.Mala Maudiche mhanane agadi patate.Antarjitiy vivah aso ki swajatiy ekmekana samajun gheunach sansar sukhacha hoto. Aani ata baryach pramanat lokanche vichar prgalbh hot ahet.mi swataha Aantarjatiy vivah karnar ahe. ani mazya aai-vadilan itkech tyachehi aai-vadil samajutdar ahet.jat vegali ahe hyacha kuthech gavgava nahi. & kadhi virodh hi nahi.

Chhakuli Tuesday, March 28, 2006 - 4:08 am:      Hello friends i am new 2 hitguj.i will like 2 xpree my views.i am example of interreligion love marriage. i belive that there will be no issue if both respect each other traditions.i know that the teachings of all religion is same but the way to teach it is different.u all must agree this point.i wll give example.so there wll be no disagreements if a hindu boy marry a muslim girl they come all 2gether from different environment.So the points like preparing food or even puja can be a issue. So whoever really can appreciate other religion only there marriage can be successful.

Alpana Monday, May 01, 2006 - 3:48 pm:      hi.. i am new here..pan vishay intersting watala..aadhi devnagrimadhye lihayacha try kela...pan jara awghad watayala lagala mhaun he.. next time nakki devnagari wapren.. i really agree with chakuli...i have seen many examples...and almost all couples are happyly married from last 20-25 years... i have seen couples who had inter-religion/ intercaste love marriages ..few of them never belirved in religion or caste as such..but i have also seen a couple who followed their respective religion and respected others religion also...they celibrate festivals from both religions...and their children also do same.. i have also seen a couple who had arranged intercaste marriage almost 20 yrs back...both had totally different social background..the girl was from well educated hindutvawadi CKP familly..and boy from a 96 k maratha familly...uneducated farmer familly...with socialist thinking...student activist...girl's father liked the boy..though he never agreed with most of his views..and he took initiative...another thing to mention is ..girl was very good looking smart with a job while the boy had avg looks..no smartness..and no permanant job either...but yeah his smartness always showed when he expressed his views..when he talked abt politics...political sciences.. they lived happylly till last yr..when he passed away with cancer... i agree with maudee....here though social background was different ..it suceeded becoz of both famillies and offcourse maturity of the couple

Bombayviking Monday, June 19, 2006 - 8:37 pm:      tase 96 K marathyaanaana politics madhale jaraa jaasatch samajate... ;) mee dekhil tyaanchyaatalaach ek aahe ...