Manalim
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| | Wednesday, July 09, 2003 - 8:29 pm: | 
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hi,
ekda amhi maitrini ashach gappa marat hoto and that time everybody was thinking about taking chance. tar asach vishay nighala ki mul kashal havit? tar most of the maitrini che mhanane hote ki "i don't know the exact reason why i want childeren but i want it because thats the way it should be".
kahi janana vatte ki mhatarpani konitari have. pan apan kharach ashi apeksha thevu shakto ka? jar aplya aai-baba ni ashi apeksha thevli astil tar tyani aplyala itkya dur pardeshat pathavalech naste karan ata tyana mhatarpani javal koni nahi. ani jari tyanchi tashi apeksha asel tari aplytale kiti jan ti kharya arthane puri karu shaku?
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Yogibear
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| | Wednesday, July 09, 2003 - 8:48 pm: |
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Manalim: "ani jari tyanchi tashi apeksha asel tari aplytale kiti jan ti kharya arthane puri karu shaku" <<< mauLat AXaI Apoxaa hI maulaaM kDuna jaast p`maaNaat Asato AaiNa bahutÝXaI maMDLI Aapaplyaa prInao tI Apoxaa
puNa- krt Asatat.
mauL p`XNa maula ka hivatÆ
(acao ]<ar p`%yaokasaazI vaogavaogaLo Asau Xakto pNa kahI mau#ya karNao AXaI Asau Xakitla :
AapNa sagaLo kuTuMba pwitt jagatÜ tovha Aaplaa vaMXa sauÉ rhavaa va kÜNaItrI AaplyaanaMtr Aaplyaa kuTuMbaaca
representative Asaavaa hI cCa. tsaoca maulaalaa / maulaIlaa janma doNao AaiNa %yaaMcao saaMgaÜpna krNao (at ek vaogaLaca AnauBava / AanaMd AsatÜ. puvaI-cyaa kaLI jaI QaarNaa hÜtI kI maulao maÜzI JaalaI kI mhatrpNaI AaplaI kazI mhNauna
AaQaar doitla hI Baavanaa Aaja sauQQaa tovhQaIca laagaU hÜto Asao maalaa vaaTto.
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Mahesh
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| | Thursday, July 10, 2003 - 7:06 am: |
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yaaca savaa-t p`aqaimak ]<ar Asa Aaho kI vaMXasaat%yaa saazI maulao hÜNao AavaXyak Aaho. yaoqao vaMXa
mhNajao maanava vaMXa yaa Aqaa-nao mhNatÜ Aho.
p`%yaok p`aNyaaMcyaa vaMXaa saazI inasagaa-nao kolaolaI hI saÜya Aaho.
Aata maaNausa bauiwmaana Aaho mhNaUna tÜ zrvaU XaktÜ Ap%ya hvao kI nakÜÊ pNa [tr p`aNaI Asaa ivacaar kÉ
Xakt naahIt.
maulao Aijabaat nakÜt ho zrvaNao malaa trI inasagaa-cyaa ivarÜQaI vat-na vaaTt.
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Nvgole
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| | Thursday, July 10, 2003 - 9:03 am: |
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maulao nasatIla tr AayauYya hotuhIna hÜla. ja,ra Ap%yahIna maaNsaaMkDo baGaavao. naMtrca Ap%ya AsaNyaacyaa
garjaoivaYayaI baÜlaavao ho ]<ama.
narond`
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S_ravi
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| | Thursday, July 10, 2003 - 2:36 pm: |
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maulao AsaNao ikMvaa hÜNao ho naOsaiga-k Aaho. manauYyap`aNaI jaada huYaar AsalyaamauLo (a ivaYayaavar
cacaa- hÜto Aaho. maulat\ manauYya kLpanao rahtÜ AaiNa kLp vaaZNyaacao maaQyama mhNajao maula hÜNao.
maulao AsaavaIt karNa %yaamauLo AaplyaalaahI Kup gaÜYTIMkDo baGaNyaacaa navaa dRiYTkÜna imaLtÜ. tsaoca
maulao AsalyaamauLo maaNaUsa samajautdarÊ XaaMt hÜNyaasa madt hÜto.
bahuQaa hI cacaa- baayakaMcyaat jaast hÜto karNa Aajakalacyaa badlalaolyaa krIArcya knsaoPTmauLo. maulaaMsaazI
Vavaa laagaNaara vaoL AaiNa pOsao yaamauLo AXaI cacaa- hÜt rahto Asao malaa vaaTto.
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Manalim
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| | Thursday, July 10, 2003 - 3:56 pm: |
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mazya mate pratyekala konavarti tari manapasun kahhi apeksha na thevata prem karnyachi emotional need aste. ani lahan mule khup niragas aslyane ti garaj paripurn karne sahaj shakya aste.
baki mhatarpanachi kathi kinva manav vansha pudhe chalu rahava vaigere hyala far arth nahi ase mala vatte.
apan mule janmala ghalto ti apli emotional bhuk bhagvnyasathi tyamule to apla swarth asto. jya khasta kadhto tya mule aplya life la kahitari goal milto ani te sarv tras apan enjoy karto tyamule tyanchya kadun kahi apeksha tevnyachi farshi garaj nahi, karan apan he sagle indirectly aplyasathich kelele aste.
ajun tari manav vansh nahisa vaigere hot nahi ahe tyamule each and every person che te reason asnyache kahich karan nahi. ani jar mul na hou dene he nisargachya against asel tar devachya krupene jevdhe hotil tevdhe hou dya na.
mul astil tar life beautiful vatte that's true. pan ti nastil tar life meaningless nakkich hot nahi. pratyekane chakori baddh life jagle pahije ase compulsion karnyachi kahich garaj nahi.
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Mahesh
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| | Thursday, July 10, 2003 - 4:25 pm: |
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Manali : Tumachya mhananyatala ha mudda manya ahe ki emotional need asate vagaire. Pan tumhi he satya nakaru shakat nahi ki ya madhe nisargacha vansh satatya ha mul hetu ahe. Off course sarvanna mule hotat ase nahi.
Mi pudhe jaun ek mudda mandanyache dharishty karu icchito.
<<ani jar mul na hou dene he nisargachya against asel tar devachya krupene jevdhe hotil tevdhe hou dya na.>>
Majh mhanan ahe ki he khar ahe. As zal tari kahi harkat nahiye. Karan nisarg ha almighty ahe. Jevadhe prani ya jagat ahet tevadhyanna survive karane kinva garaj bhasali tar nasht karane ha nisargacha nehemicha udyog ahe. Arthat ha vishay ya board var vadhavan uchit honar nahi tyamule mi yavar pudhe kahi lihit nahi.
Board creator and moderator, jar he likhan vishayala sodun vatat asel tar please ignore/delete it.
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Manya
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| | Friday, July 11, 2003 - 12:16 pm: |
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Mahesh I strongly agree with you, (post dated 10 july 3.06 am)
As a part of this nature and long lasting process of evolution we (all living organism,) need to propagate their gene pools. No one is immortal, there fore only way to keep our existence on this planet is by passing on our genes to next generation. We do receive lot from Mother Nature and the only task which nature asks us (to all living organism) to do is to grow and reproduce ( this is purely at scientific level and considering all living organisms).
As Mahesh mentioned being highly evolved and with the advantage of recent medical science technology we can decide whether to reproduce or not but -----intentionally not to reproduce---- is against the nature (same as to overproduce or making clones!!).
But considering the population rise and individual capacity to raise child one could control this. Still I wouldnt be in favor of not having child, as at the scientific level it means breaking a chain of that is breaking the rule of gene propagation there is much more scientific view on this
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Mahesh
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| | Monday, July 21, 2003 - 4:24 pm: |
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Are he kay mul kashala havit ? mhananare kuthe gele ? ki tyanna ha board kashala hava as tar vatal nahi na ? Dive ghya...
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Mruda
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| | Saturday, April 16, 2005 - 9:46 am: |
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Mula hawich asa sur ka lawalay sarwanni...? Lagna karun fakta companions mhanun ...mula na hota ...rahana kay gair ahe? Jyacha tyacha ha drushtikon ahe na ki tyanna aayushya kasa haway? Kunala watat asu shakata ki amuk amuk goshti karayachya ahet mala so mala kuthlihi jawabdari nakoy....pan mi ekta/ ekti nai rahu shakat...mala kunachya tari sathichi garaj ahe....tar lagna karun mul na hou dena kay gair nahi....asa mala watata. Ani asa watnare lok khup kami asatil so manav wanshala yatun kai niksan hoil asa watat nai.
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Papalet
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| | Saturday, April 16, 2005 - 5:21 pm: |
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kaya pNa ivaYaya Aaho Æ yaavar Aata kuNaItrI maanasaÜpcaar t&anao baÜlaayacaI garja vaaTto. laÜksaM#yaa
kmaI krayacaa Kasaa ]paya ArÜgyamaM~\yaanaa kLvaayalaa hvaa. kuNaIhI AaiNa iktIhI yaa ivaYayaavar baÜlalao
trI inasaga- qaaMbaNaar naahI. AtI AaQauinaktocaa pgaDa idsatÜ .AaNaKI kaya Æ
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Mala lagna houn almost paach varsha zali ahet ani atta tari mule nako ahet. Mule havi asnyachi mala hi kahi possible karne vattat (non-exhaustive, non-exclusive list):
- belonging: a desire for one's own family
- creativity: to introduce our personal version of 'good' into the world, someone we can mould
- companionship: because kids can be fun when they are growing up and good friends after they grow up
- experience: to have one of life's major experiences
- insurance: to have someone (hopefully reliable) to care for us once we cannot care for ourselves
- fantasy: to one day live vicariously through our children
- inertia
- programming: biological clock and need for propogation
- assimilation: social pressure; to fit in; to conform
- diversion: to maintain or salvage a relationship
- protection: fear of social isolation as other in our age group have kids and we feel like we are "dropping out", since younger folks will not want to hang out with us as we age w/o kids (since people generally prefer to hang out with those similar to them, not too far apart in age / social status etc)
- boredom: lack of hobbies or interests outside of work & tv
- existential angst: to fill a void in our own life; due to a lack of "meaning" from work, friends and other pursuits that society permits and encourages
Some of these reasons (perhaps the first four to six) may be viewed as 'positive' while some may be viewed as 'negative'.
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maulaaMkDUna mhtarpNaacaI kazI mhNauna Apoxaa zovaNao ho yaÜgya naahI Asao malaa vaaTto...
maulaaMnaa vaaZvaavaM.. maÜzo kravaM.. AaiNa naMtr GarT\yaatUna %yaalaa ijaqao ]DUna jaavaosao vaaTto
itqao jaavaUna Vavao.. mhNaavao Aata tuca tuJao pMK baLkT kr..
pNa Aqaa-t Asao krNao mhNajao saMbaQa tÜDNao navho... pNa paXahI AavaLU nayaot..
AaiNa eKaValaa maulaM nakÜ Asaola tr %yaacaahI Aadr kravaa.. ha jarI inasaga-inayama Asalaa trI ekaca
p`jaatIcaI Barmasaaz vaaZ JaalaI tr inasaga- saMtulana ibaGaDto ho hI ittkoca Kro. [tr p`aNyaaMnaa tovhZa
ivacaar krNyaacaI kuvat naahI. inadana maaNasaanao trI yaacaa ivacaar kravaa.
jagaat evhZI kÜT\yaaMnaI laÜkM Aahot.. %yaat naahI Ajauna kahI hajaarÜMcaI Bar pDlaI tr kaya ibaGaDtoÆÆ
AaiNa vaMXa tÜ kaya Gao]na basalaat.. Aaplyaa pOkI iktI jaNaaMnaa %yaacyaa Kapr pNajaÜbaaMcao naava AaiNa
[ithasa maaiht AahoÆÆÆ
pNa s~IyaaMcyaa baabatI ha KUp BaavanaIk p`Xna AsaU XaktÜ.. maula maÜz hÜt Asatanaa %yaacyaavar Anaok
gaÜYTIMcaa p`Baava pDt AsatÜ.. kahI maulao vaaT maagaa-laa laagatat.. tovha palak pXcaatapnao tU janmaalaa
naahI Aalaa Asata / AsatI tr barM JaalaM AsatM AsaohI mhNatatca naaÆÆ
pNa ho sava- kaihhI Asalao trIÊ laÜkM kaya mhNatIla / GaracyaaMcaa Aaga`h / Aaplyaa ima~ - maOi~NaIMnaa maulaM JaalaI.. AaplyaahI hvaIt.. AXaI Anaok karNao.. tsaoca var Aijatnao idlaolaI bahUtaMXaI
karNao laagaU Aahot.
%yaamaULo maula hvaM kI nakÜ ha jyaacaa %yaacaa vaOya>Ik p`Xna Aaho.. inadana AapNa purÜgaamaI Qamaa-tIla
AahÜt mhNauna ho Xa@ya trI Aaho.. kÜNaI ihMdUMcaI saM#yaa kmaI hÜla Asaa ihMdU - mauslaIma rMga doNyaacaahI p`ya%na krola yaalaa..
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Kaukhan
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| | Thursday, May 12, 2005 - 4:10 pm: |
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vartI sagaL\yaaMnaI kaya mhTlaM Aaho to maI naMtr vaacaona. I have this to say though:
I wasn't very keen on having or not having a child but the moment my child was born was the defining moment of my life. It is perfectly okay to want or not want children. And frankly, all this debate is rendered meaningless when one stops being a fence-sitter. Sort of Aqa-XaUnya Baasao maja ha ...
I am reminded of this song everytime I play with my toddler. Knowing what my father was or wasn't for me and knowing what I want to be or am not for my toddler, this song is the closest to what I feel. To that extent, child is indeed the father of man.
http://www.eric-clapton.co.uk/ecla/lyrics/my-fathers-eyes.html
Maybe this will add a dimension to your debate but you will have to read the lyrics for that.
Apologies for the digression.
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.. maula hvaItca²²... karNa yaa maulaatunaca BaavaI maanasaÜpcaart& GaDtIla..
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Nirnay
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| | Friday, June 03, 2005 - 8:54 pm: |
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maUla ka nakÜt Æ ya PrXNaaca ]<ar kÜiNa XaÜQalaya ka ÆÆÆÆÆÆÆÆÆ
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Ninavi
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| | Monday, June 06, 2005 - 12:00 pm: |
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maulaM nakÜ maga laaD kaya navaáyaacao krayacao Æ AapNa tr baabaa BarpUr laaD krayalaa imaLavaot mhNaUna
maUla janmaalaa GaatlaM.
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sahI javaaba inanaavaI. 
dIp maulaaMnaa maÜzM kravaM AaiNa saÜDUna VavaM ho pTlaM. pNa tsaM mhNaNaM saÜpM AaiNa krNaM AvaGaD.
pMcavaIsa vaYa-M %yaaMcyaa p`%yaok gaÜYTIt jaIva gauMtvat jaayacaM AaiNa maga eko idvaXaI sagaLo BaavabaMQa
switch off krayacao ho bahutokaMnaa Xa@ya hÜt nahI.
KrMtr Aa<aapsaUna maanaisak tyaarI kolaI tr Aaplyaa ipZIlaa mhatarpNa yaopya-Mt ho jamaU Xakola naahI
kaÆ
AaiNa frk pDtÜca. Qamaa-cao saÜDUna do. inarxarÊADaNaIÊ jyaaMcao svatÁ Kayacao vaaMQao Asao laÜk BaaraBaar
maulaM janmaalaa Gaalat rhatat. AaiNa sauiXaixatÊ jao Aaplyaa maulaaMnaa Annavas~inavaaáyaasakT AjaunahI
baroca kahI do} Xaktat %yaaMnaI maulaaMbaabat kaTksar krayacaI. maga p`%yaok vaoLI puZcyaa ipZIt sausaMskairt
p`jaocaI saM#yaa kmaI hÜt jaaNaar naahI kaÆ eka saudRZ samaajaasaazI sauiXaixat laÜkaMnaI ha ivacaar krayalaaca
hvaa.
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Bee
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| | Tuesday, June 07, 2005 - 3:01 am: |
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Sanghmitra, Bravo!
war Nirnay hyannee wicharale mule ka nakot. ithe kunala hya prashnache uttar deta yeil ka? kharach wichar karanyasarakhee baab aahe.
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Ninavi
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| | Tuesday, June 07, 2005 - 12:59 pm: |
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baIÊ
malaa svatÁlaa maUla hvaMca hÜtM AaiNa %yaalaa vaaZvaNyaaprta dusara AanaMd naaihyao. pNa eKaValaa vaa
eKadIlaa tsaM vaaTt nasaola tr maI to AgadI samajaU Xakto. karNa maUla yaa jagaat AaNaNaMÊ vaaZvaNaMÊ
[%yaadI ho ek maÜzM kama AaiNa jabaabadarI Aaho. jaÜpya-nt AaplyaakDo gaRhÌ%ya AaiNa Aqaa-ja-na yaacaI
EamaivaBaagaNaI s~I AaiNa puÉYaaMcyaat JaalaI hÜtIÊ tÜpya-Mt lagna krayalaaca hvaM kaÊ maUla janmaalaa
Gaalaayalaaca hvaM ka Asao p`Xna inarqa-k hÜto. pNa baayaka krIAirsT Jaalyaavar %yaa EamaivaBaagaNaIt
inamaa-Na Jaalaolaa AsamatÜla saavarayalaa puÉYa ³dUdO-vaanao AjaUnahI´ tyaar hÜt naahIt hI vastuisqatI
Aaho. AaiNa s~IlaahI caUla AaiNa maUla yaaMcyaapilakDo kahI AanaMdinaQaanaM Aahot yaacaahI XaÜQa laagalaaya.
pNa ho sagaLM krayalaa itnao vaoL kuzUna AaNaayacaa Æ %yaat ibacaarIcaM jaOivak GaD\yaaL pLt AsatM.
AayauYyaatlaI jaI vaYa-M itcyaa krIArcaI AaiNa CMdaMcaI iXaKMrM AsaU XaktatÊ tIca Ap%yap`PtIcaI savaa-iQak
xamata AsalaolaI vaYa-M Asatat. %yaamauLo itlaa ha inaNa-yaacaa AiQakar hvaaca. naahI ka Æ
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inanaavaI iktI Cana mau_osaUd ilaihlaM Aahosa tU. vastuisqatI AgadI AXaIca Aaho. pNa AsaM hÜ}na ksaM caalaola
gaMÆ KrM tr Aajakala s~Inao AayauYyaatlaI paca vaYa-M pUNa- baalasaMgaÜpnaasaazI idlaI trI naIT hÜla
sagaLM. hllaI paca vaYaa-McaI JaalaI kIca maulaM iktI busy hÜtat. maga Aa AaiNa vaDIla dÜGaaMnaI qaÜDa qaÜDa vaoL kaZlaa kI basa. AaiNa baakI AQaI- jabaabadarI
nasatIla Gaot pNa pÜraMsaazI vaoL kaZayalaa hllaIcao puÉYa AgadI tyaar Asatat.
AaiNa [tr AanaMdinaQaanaaMsaarKM baalasaMgaÜpna hohI ek Aahoca kI. pNa %yaacaM saamaaijak AaiNa kÝTuMibak
pressure yaayalaa kI maIca ka mhNaUnaÆ ikMvaa malaa nakÜ Asaola trÆ Asao p`Xna sau$ hÜtat.
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Ninavi
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| | Tuesday, June 07, 2005 - 5:25 pm: |
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saMGaima~aÊ
gaMmatca Aaho. tU ilaihlaolaa maaga-ca naomaka maI inavaDlaa hÜta. maI maaJaa maulagaa paca vaYaa-caa
hÜpya-Mt kama saÜDUna pUNa- vaoL baalasaMgaÜpna krt hÜto. gaolyaa vaYaI-pasaUna kama ³saa^FTvaoAr´ punha
sau$ kolaM. baakI sagaLM AayauYyaat puZo kovhahI savaDInao krta yaotMÊ pNa maUla hÜNaM AaiNa %yaacaM baaLpNaÊ
baalalaIlaa AnauBavaNaM yaacaI vaoL ekda TLlaI kI maga kXaanaMca prt imaLvata yaot naahI Asaa maaJaa %yaamaagao
ivacaar hÜta. AaiNa to saUK maI paca vaYa- AgadI manasaÜ> BaÜgalaM.
maga punha vak-fÜsa-maQao iXartanaa jara navyaanao QaDpD kravaI laagalaIÊ pNa [T vaa^ja Aa^la vaqa- [T.
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Bee
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| | Wednesday, June 08, 2005 - 2:09 am: |
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inanaavaIÊ tuJao dÜnhI pÜYT Cana Aahot. dÜna AavaXyak gaÜYTIMmaQao samanvaya saaQata yaona mah<vaaca
AsatM. prvaaca naaTkacyaa talaimat ivaYaya inaGaalaa hÜta. sauiXaixat is~yaaMnaI maulaaMsaazI GarI basaUna
Aaplao career saÜDUna Vavao AaiNa maulao maÜzI JaalaIt kI career maQao punha iXarayalaa hvao tovaZo skill sets nasatat. baraca kaL maagao gaolaolaa AsatÜ. punha tÜ ]%saah nasatÜ. toMvha caUla AaiNa maUla [tkoca kaya
krayalaa ]rto. mhNaUna mhNatÜ AahoÊ maula AaiNa career (a dÜnhI maQao jyaa sauiXaixat is~yaa samanvaya saaQatatÊ jyaaMnaa navaáyaakDUna madt imaLto %yaaMcao
Kroca kÝtuk kravaoXao vaaTto. maula hÜ] doNao hI saMsaaracaI sauKI kuTumbaacaI garja Asato. tsaoca iXaklyaanaMtr
kahItrI kravao Asao vaaTNao hI doKIla %yaa vya>Icyaa dRYTIkÜnaatUna mah<vaacao Asato.
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Sashal
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| | Saturday, July 23, 2005 - 6:00 pm: |
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inanaavaIÊ tuJaM June 07 1:25 pm caM post KUp AavaDlaM ..
Aajacyaa jagaat maaNasaaMcaI Ôar gadI- Aaho .. ikmaana Baartasaar#yaa doXaat trI .. %yaamauLo maUla janmaalaa
GaalaUna %yaacaM pirpUNa- saMgaÜpna krta yaola AaiNa puZo maÜz hÜ}na samaajaat value addition hÜNaar yaacaI Ka~I Asaola trca maUla janmaalaa GaalaavaM AsaM maaJaM mat Aaho ..
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doXaacaI vaaZtI AabaadI caa kÜNaI ivacaar krto ka jaovha jyaalaa svatacao maUla hvao AsatoÆ
evaZo mahana kÜNaI Aahot ka qaoÆ
kI
Aamhalaa maUla nakÜya karNa laÜ@saMn#yaa vaaZlaI Aaho mhNauna....
sava-saamaanya maaNasaalaa svatacao maUla ho bahutok hvao³ca´ Asato.
ikittir laÜk baryaca KTpTI XaovaT\pya-nt krtat for any mdeical reasons they are not able to have it their own kid..and finally they resort to have 'adoption' . very few are 'big' hearted' I feel in this process.
adoptio after all is individual choice.
jaÜ krtÜ %yaalaca maihit ...specially thorugh emotional angle.
Asao vairla mahana³AabaadI vaaQaola´vagaOro´ ivacaar AMmalaat AaNaNao AaiNa baÜlaNao (a dÜna gaÜstI
Aahot.
to ikit easy ka complicated ho jaÜ ktÜ- %yaalaaca maahIt.
krNaaro kmaI Aahot Asao naahI pNa AaplaI Cayaa³maUla´ ho savaa-naaca AvaDto.
cau. Bau. Va. Gyaa. }
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Nitesham
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| | Sunday, January 01, 2006 - 6:21 pm: |
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At last I got the thing I am searching for. God is great.I am thinking in this direction last so many years but afraid of speaking out.Today I got the outlet where people think exactly as I think. I express my gratitude to this site & the blog creater.I want to submit my painfull feelings. No body has supported me for having such thoughts.I am searching for such person who will support my thoughts.Waiting for such a long time.I got the place where I can express myself & get my thoughts acknowleded. I will read out all post carefully & submit my post in details.Thanks everybody for contributing their thoughts.Bye.
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