Wakdya
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| Wednesday, April 21, 2004 - 5:40 am: |
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maulaacaI Aa%map`itYza ha %yaaMcyaa hataLNaItIla ek kLIcaa mau_a Asatܲ %yaaMcyaa Aa%map`itYzosaÊ AaMjaaravao
gaÜMjaaravao tr laagatoÊ pNa %yaacaI maa~a iktI p`maaNaat ina kÜNa%yaa ]i_YTa saMdBaa-t yaacaa tÜla raKNao
palakaMcyaa dRYTInao AavaXyak Asato² maulaaMpuZo Aaplyaa manaasa jasao yaola tsao vaagauna caalat naahI tr AaplaI p`%yaok ÌtI jaaiNavapuva-kÊ
samajauna ]majauna kolaolaI prMtu naaTkIya na vaaTlaI pahIjao² saÜPpo kÉna saaMgaayacao Jaalyaasa eKaVa
sauMdr mauilacyaa vaa maulaacyaa puZo puZo krtanaa vaa kayaa-layaat vairYzaMpuQao vaavartanaa AapNa jaovhDo
Baanaavar AsatÜÊ Kro tr maulaaMsamaÜr vaavartanaa %yaa poxaahI jaast Baanaavar AsaNao garjaocao AsatoÊ
ina naomako toca ivasarlao jaato vaa %yaacaI jaaiNavaca nasato² palakaMcaI p`%yaok ÌtIÊ Xabd lahana maula
AnausarIt Asato² %yaavar p`itiËyaa zrvaIt Asato² ha %yaacyaa maanaisak jaDNaGaDNaIcaa kalaKMD AsatÜ jyaacyaavar
%yaacao puZcao sava- AayauYya baotlao jaaNaar Asato² tovha palakaMnaI A%yaMt pna sahja pNao saavaQaanata
baaLgaayalaa laagato² Asao Aaplao maaJao mat baro ka²
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Wakdya
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| Wednesday, April 21, 2004 - 6:02 am: |
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poXavaaÊ mauLatÊ kovaL tÜMDAÜLK vaa vyavaharat saMpk- Aalaa mhNajao tÜ ima~ vaa maO~INa Asao malaa Apoixat naahI²
Kro ima~ maaNasaacyaa dÜnhI hatacyaa baÜTavar maÜjaNyaayaovhDo doiKla imaLt naahIt² pNa AsaÜÊ ivaYaya
Asaa Aaho kI maaNausa ima~aMcyaa XaÜQaat jaatÜ kI ima~ AapÜAap imaLtat ho jyaacaa %yaacyaa AayauYyaacyaa
saapoxa Asato² kahIhI Jaalao trI ima~ vaa maOtINa AsaNyaacaI garja hI Baavainak samaaQaanaakrta jaast
Asato² vyaavaharIk ADcaNaIMcyaa kaLat Qaavauna yaoNao yaovhDoca mayaa-dIt kaya- Apoixalao jaat naahIÊ
tr jyaa Baavainak garjaa Asatat %yaa Kro tr palakaMnaI p`qama puáyaa kolyaa pahIjaot. dusaáyaa Xabdat
mhNajaoÊ maulaasa yaovhDa ivaXvaasa palakaMba_la vaaTlaa pahIjao kI jao kahI %yaacyaa manaat Aaho %yaa
ba_la tÜ palakaMXaI saMvaad saaQau Xakola² kahI ]paya imaLu XaktIla² pNa hÜto kayaÊ vyaavaharIk jagaat
palak Aapaplyaa jagaNyaat yaovhDo gak- Asatat kI maulaaMnaa ekTopNa Kayalaa ]ztoÊ ina itqauna %yaa baalyaavasqaotca
baa( jagaat maO~ Baavanaotuna BaavanaIk AaQaar XaÜQaNyaacaI halacaala sauÉ hÜto² saMgat caaMgalaI imaLalaI
tr baroca Anyaqaa....² tovha palakaMnaIcaÊ AgadI gaLopDu nasalao trI palyaaMXaI maO~It ApoxaIt Asalaolyaa prspr ivaXvaasaacao
naato mau_mahuna ]Baarlao pahIjao² var maO~Icyaa naa%yaacaa Aqa- malaa Asaa laavaavaasaa vaaTlaa Aaho²

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Peshawa
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| Wednesday, April 21, 2004 - 7:11 am: |
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vaakD\yaaÊ palak ikithI javaL ³Baavainak´ trI ima~ to ima~ca AaiNa palak to palakca... dusarI baaba hI kI maulaaMXaI %yaaMcyaa [tko hÜ}na saMvaad saaQaNao hI baaba vaogaLI AaNaI %yaaMcyaa vayaacao
AsaNao hI baaba vaogaLI² psp-r ivaXvaasa Ô> maO~Itca AsatÜ kovaL maO~ImauLo saaQalaa jaatÜ ho pTt naahI. plakanaIca ima~ Asaavao zÜsa karNa Va. maulaacao vyai>ma%vaa AÜLKNao %yaacaa yaÜgya Aadr yaÜgya %yaa
vayaat raKNao vaogaLo... AaiNa maOi~ krNao vaogaLo² palak hI jaagaaca vaogaL\yaa ]i_Xza saaiz Aaho AaiNa ima~ hI vaogaL\yaa² gallat krNyaat kaih merit idsat naahI ³tumacaa AnauBava Aaho mhNauna tuimh mhNata to jaast sayaui>k Asaola pNa pTt naahI´
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Wakdya
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| Wednesday, April 21, 2004 - 7:40 am: |
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poXavaaÊ palyaaMnaa zraivak vayaat Aa baap yaa naa%yaatIla naOsagaI-k AÜZIbarÜbarca jaaiNavapuva-k maO~IcaI
javaLIkdoiKla AnauBavau doNao ho BaivaYyaat to to palya palakaMcao sahkarI banaNyaacyaa dRYTInao AavaXyak
Asato² Anyaqaa baáyaacadaÊ maulagaI AaXaI vaa maulagaa baapaXaI spQaa- kÉ laagalyaacao dRYya GaraGaratUna
idsato² BaivaYyaat kuTuMba ek~ naaMdto zovaayacao Asaola tr ho krNao AavaXyak Aaho ina maulaacyaa payaalaa
baapacaI caPpla Aalyaavar ekdma maI tuJaa ima~ Asao mhNauna sauÉ hÜt naahI tr palyaacyaa baalyaavasqaopasaunaca
kNaakNaanao Anya maayaa vaa%salya kt-vya yaa naa%yaaMcyaa jaÜDInaoca maO~Icao naato pNa ]Baaravao laagato²
samavayask ima~aMbarÜbar dMgaamastI KoL hasya ivanaÜd ho p`kar jasao hÜtat tsao palakaMbarÜbar tovhD\yaaca
Épat to hÜtIla Asao naahIÊ vaa tsaoca to Asaavaot hI ApoxaahI ÔÜla Aaho² maa~ ima~ ho samavayaskca Asau
Xaktat ho gaRihtkca maULat cauk Aaho² ima~ vaa maOi~Na jaast vayaacao vaa lahana vayaacao Asau XaktatÊ
Ô> sava-saaQaarNatÁ samavayask ima~ XaÜQaNao ina jaÜDNao ho tulanaonao saÜpo Asalyaanao ina jao saÜpo
to AaQaI krNyaakDo sava-saamaanyatÁ manauYyaacaa kla AsalyaanaoÊ samavayask ima~ jaast jaÜDlao Aahot Asao
sagaLIkDo idsato²
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Wakdya
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| Wednesday, April 21, 2004 - 8:01 am: |
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palakaMcaI palyaabarÜbarcaI maO~I Ajauna eka karNaanao AavaXyak Aaho² sava-saaQaarNatÁ drvaoLosa palak
Aaplao matÊ [cCa AakaMxaaÊ iXastÊ iXaxaNaÊ inayamaÊ p`omaacaa AiQakar vagaOro palyaavar laadt Asatat²
itqao palyaalaa sahsaa ivacaar krNyaasa vaa inaNa-ya GaoNyaasa ksalaaca vaava nasatܲ trIhI palyaalaa
%yaa baabaI laadlyaa jaat Aahot Asao Baasaolaca AsaohI naahI² pNa kQaItrI palya ina palak yaaMcyaat ApoxaaMcao
AÜJao na baaLgata jaÜ inarpoxa manamaÜkLa saMvaad vhayalaa pahIjaoÊ ivacaaraMcao Aadana p`dana vhayalaa
hvaoÊ jyaatunaca palyaacaI inaNa-ya GaoNyaacyaa xamatolaa KtpaNaI imaLNaar AsatoÊ %yaa sausaMvaadalaa
vaa ÌtIlaa saÜPyaa BaaYaot maO~Icao Ép maanalao Aaho Asao malaa vaaTto² baabaa roÊ ha XabdcCla Aaho² p`%yaxa ]dahrNaatuna Kro tr jaast sahja saaMgata yaola pNa maaJao AnauBava
ho Anaka^mana Asalyaanao ina Anya karNaaMmauLo malaa [qao maaMDta yaoNaar naahIt² Ô> yaovhDoca saaMgau
XaktÜ kI Aaja maaJyaa maulaaMcyaa barÜbarcyaa vaagaNyaasaMbaMQaI maI ivacaar krtÜ tovha manaat maaJyaabarÜbar
maaJao palak ksao vaagalao %yaacaI tulanaa jaÉr hÜto ina %yaavaoLosa to jasao vaagalao %yaa poxaa jara
tsao vaagalao Asato tr ha ivacaar Aazvauna maI maaJyaa palyaaMXaI maaJao vaagaNao jyaa jyaa baabatIt sauQaaÉna
GaotÜÊ tovha to dusaro itsaro kahI nasaunaÊ %yaasa maO~IpuNa- saMbaMQa vaa sausaMvaad vaa ima~%vaacao
naato Asaoca naava Vavaosao vaaTto² baGaa bauvaa pTto Aaho ka²
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Wakdya
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| Wednesday, April 21, 2004 - 8:09 am: |
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ina pTt nasaola tr Ìpyaa maO~I yaa Xabdatuna Apoixat Asalaolyaa sava- CTaMcao vaNa-na kÉna samajaavauna
saaMgaa² kdaicat ima~ vaa maO~INa mhNajao kÜNaÊ kaÊ ksaoÊ kovha yaa kkarI p`EnaaMcaI ]<aroca malaa
Avagat nasatIlaÊ ikMvaa malaa jao Avagat Aaho %yaapoxaa AjaunahI kahI vaogaLo tumhalaa maahIt Asaola²
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Gurudasb
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| Wednesday, April 21, 2004 - 8:29 am: |
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ek caaMgalaa bb sauÉ Jaalaa Aaho.maI ek caar generations saaxaIdar Aaho.kaLacyaa Qaava%yaa gatIbarÜbarca samaajaat hÜNaaro badla yaaMcaa p`%yaok vya>Icyaa GaDNyaat
maÜza sahBaaga AsatÜÊ ih ek tarovarcaI ksart Aaho.sagaLIkDuna tÜla naIT saaMBaaLlaa gaolaa paihjao.
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ek saMvaad maulagaa... baabaa Ê tumhalaa tumacaI kmpnaI iktI pgaar doto Æ baabaa....saaz hjaar Épyao maihnaa.. maulagaa....mhNajao idvasaalaa iktIÆ baabaa.....dÜna hjaar Épyao maulagaa....mhNajao tasaalaa iktIÆ baabaa.....samaja 84 Épyao ² kahI idvasaanaI.... maulagaa.... baabaa tumacaI kmpnaI tumhalaa dr tasaalaa iktI pOsao doto mhNaalaa hÜtatÆ baabaa...... saumaaro 84 Épyao. pNa karo bauvaaÆ maulagaa.....¤hat puZo k$na¥ kahI naahI Ê maaJyaa Ka}cyaa pOXaatUna jamavalaot. purosao va far naahIt 42 ca Épyao Aahot. tumacaa AQaa- tasa malaa Vala Æ Æ Æ
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Saee
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 5:21 am: |
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hUDÊ AgadI AgadI KrMya. AgadI AXaIca AaiNa koivalavaaNaI isqatI p`%yaxaat Aaho. maaJaa mauMbacaa AaQaIcaa baa^sa p`caMD A^@TIvh hÜtaÊ nauktaca tÜ dusaáyaa kMpnaIt gaolaa. Xainavaar
rivavaarIÊ p`%yaok sau+Icyaa idvaXaI tÜ Aa^ifsamaQao AsaNaarca iXavaaya saar#yaa TUsa-. maMd Aavaajaat
baÜlaNao AaiNa p`caMD kama kÉnahI hsatmauK caohra. puNa- 5 vaYaa-t maI %yaalaa kQaIhI icaDlaola ikMvaa
%yaacaa Aavaaja caZlaolaa eoklaa naahI. AaQaIca tÜ [vhoMT\sa AaiNa janarla A^iD\manacaa puNa- eXaIyaap^kcaa
psaara baGaayacaa AaiNa %yaacaI to DÜMgar hataLNyaacaI sahjata baGauna %yaalaa kMpnaInao kahI Ajauna navaIna
jabaabadaáyaa Taklyaa. hI paXva-BaUmaI maI ka saaMgatoya to kLolaca puZo. tr naahI mhNaNa ha svaBaavaca
nasalyaamauLo AaiNa navaIna gaÜYTI iXakNyaapasauna tyaarI AsalyaamauLo GarasaazI tÜ jaÜ kahI ]rlaasaurlaa
vaoL do} Xakt hÜta tÜhI donaasaa Jaalaa. yaaca drmyaana ek idvasa kamaainaima<a maI ecaAÜlaa gaolao Asatanaa %yaacyaa GarI jaayacaI vaoL AalaI.
samaÜr %yaacaI 5 vaYaa-caI CÜTI pÜrgaI AaiNa %yaacao vaiDla basalao hÜto. tÜ Aat gaolyaabarÜbar itnao
malaa ivacaarlaÊ tu maaJyaa D^Dalaa [tkM kama ka krayalaa laavatosaÆ tÜ GarI pNa yaot naahI lavakr²² maI
hbaklaoca²² ivansaIna itlaa saaMigatla hÜt kI malaa maaJaa baa^sa Kup kama saangatÜ to krayalaa malaa
qaaMbaava laagatÊ itcyaasamaÜr itcyaa D^Dacyaa Aa^ifsamaQalaI maI pihlaIca vya>I gaolao hÜto AaiNa
itcyaa kuvatIp`maaNao itnao maI mhNajaoca %yaacaI baa^sa Asa samajauna itcaI kOifyat maaMDlaI hÜtI. ho
[tkM Acaanak GaDla kI maI itcyaa p`Xnaalaa ]<arca do} Xaklao naahI. mhNajao maI AaiNa %yaacyaa vaiDlaaMnaI
kahItrI qaaturmaatur saaMigatla itlaa AaiNa vaoL inaBaavalaI pNa naMtr malaa itcaa tÜ p`Xna [tka CLt raihlaa
kI Garabaahor pDlyaa pDlyaa maI ivansaIlaa kLkLIna saaMigatla kI Aro Asa kÉ nakÜ. itlaa purosaa vaoL do.
tuJyaa hataKalaI laÜk AahotÊ sagaLM tuca krNyaacaI garja Aaho kaÆ saudOvaanao tÜ Aamha sagaL\yaaMXaIca
Kup Cana saMvaad krayacaa %yaamauLo maI ho %yaalaa inadana pÜcavau trI Xaklao. puZo %yaalaaca sagaLM Asa(
Jaalyaanao maihnyaaBaratca tÜ baahor pDlaa AaiNa tÜ [tkM kama krt hÜta kI KrMtr %yaacyaa jaagaI javaLjavaL
2 to 3 maaNasaaMcaI garja hÜtI pNa p`%yaxaat maa~ itqao kMpnaInao kÜNaahI navaIna maaNasaalaa na Gaota
Aaho %yaaca laÜkaMmaQao %yaacyaa kamaaMcaI ivaBaagaNaI kolaI AaiNa AaXcaya- mhNajao tI kamaM Aaja AgadI
sahja smaUqalaI sauÉ Aahot² mhNajao ivansaI naahI tr kMpnaIcaM kahIhI ADlaolaM naahI²²² yaacaaca Aqa-
tÜ jaÜ kahI jaastIcaa vaoL kMpnaIsaazI Kca- krt hÜta tÜ na krta tÜ %yaacyaa icamaurDIsaazI Aaramaat do}
Xaklaa Asata² itcyaa barÜbarcao AanaMdacao xaNa %yaalaa AayauYyaBar purlao Asato. Aaja %yaalaa kaya imaLalaMÆ
malaa vaaTtM yaa ]dahrNaavaÉna p`%yaok Aa baabaaMnaI Aa%maprIxaNa krayacaI garja Aaho. malaa AsaMhI vaaTtM
kI ekvaoL eKadI sauivaQaa tumhI %yaaMnaa kmaI purvalaIt trI caalaola pNa tumacaa sahvaasa %yaaMcyaasaazI
Amaulya AsatÜ. maga tumhI %yaaMcyaaXaI kahI baÜlalaMca paihjao AsaMhI naahIÊ tumhI %yaaMnaa hvao tovha
]plabQa Aahat hI jaaNaIva %yaaMnaa hÜNaM ikMvaa kÉna doNaMhI Kup Aaho.
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Wakdya
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 7:56 am: |
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sa AgadI barÜbar² ekdaca navho tr p`%yahI Aa%mapirxaNa krNyaacaI garja Aaho² poXavao kuzo gaolaoÆ
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saÊ tuJa AgadI barÜbar Aaho. AgadI Asaca Jaala maaJa jaonvha maI Baartat prtuna jaa^ba krayalaa sauÉvaat
kolaI³ektr Aaplyaa doXaat pihlyaapasaunaca physical presence laa Kup mah%va idla jaat´ %yaat Aata software field maQao kama ksa vaaZt caalalaya ³AaiNa laÜk kmaI´ ho savaa-MMnaa maaihtIcaca JaalayaÊ tonvha malaa saarKaca
]XaIr hÜ} laagalaa. AaiNa jyaa karNaasaazI maI Baartat prtlao hÜto³maulaanca iXaxaNaÊ sanskarÊ %yaacyaasaazI
vaoL doNao vagaOro´ %yaacyaavarca gada yao} laagalaI. maaJaI Aa maaJyaaca GarI rhato pNa itnao sava-svaI
maaJyaa maulaaMMnaa AaiNa Gar saamBaaLava AXaI maaJaI Apoxaa naahI³itlaa pNa itcyaa vayaap`maaNao ivaEaantI
AaiNa manaap`maaNao jaIvana jagata Aalaca paihjao´Ê naÜkáyaa badlauna paihlyaa pNa kahI idvasaaMMnaI pihlao
pazo pncaavaÙa² XaovaTI zrvala kI baasa JaalaÊ Aata naÜkrIcaa sanyaasa Gyaayacaa.³naohmaI p`maaNao laÜkaMMnaI
]pdoXa kolao Aga tU evhZI iXakilasaÊ evhZ\yaa maÜz\yaa pÜsTvar kama krtosaÊ evhZo pOsao imaLvatosaÊ vaoD
laagalaya ka tulaaÆ [%yaadI [%yaadI. maI jaast kÜNaalaa kahI saangat basalao naahI pNa manaaXaI mhnTla
evaZI iXakilaya mhNaunaca malaa samajatya kI haca vaoL maaJyaa maulaaMMsaazI mah%vaacaa Aaho. pOsao kaya
iktI kmavaavao tovhZo kmaIca Aahot AaiNa kmaavalao kI caangalao pnQara vaYa-Ê mhNajao iXaxaNa AgadIca
kahI ÔukT gaola naahI´. kbaula kravaca laagaola kI ha inaNa-ya GaoNa AaiNa Amalaat AaNaNa tovhZ kahI saÜPp
naahI ³iXavaaya yaalaa jaÜiDdaracaIhI tovhZIca saaqa hvaIÊ Aaiqa-k pirisqatI hI baáyaapOkI hvaIÊ mhNajao
AgadI TaTa ibalaa- nakÜ pNa ]VacaI Ba`anthI nakÜ´. Kup idvasa laagatat tÜ pcavaayalaa AaiNa navaIna ÉTIna
basavaayalaa. pNa AapNa manaapasauna inaNa-ya Gaotlaa Asaola³kÜNaI jabardstInao Aaplyaalaa GarI basavalao
nasaola´ tr kÜNaIhI kahIhI mhNTlao trI Aaplyaalaa Ôrk pDU nayao. Aata maI maaJyaa maulaaMMnaahI Kup vaoL do} Xakto AaiNa svatÁlaahI² ho pNa mah%vaaca Aaho u should keep aside some time for urself, that will make u feel fresh and u can develop good relationships.
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varti na milanarya velabaddal vachala mhanun hi link deto ahe. http://economictimes.indiatimes.com/articleshow/628368.cms
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Sayonara
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 2:36 pm: |
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KrM Aaho sa. jaovha eKadI vya>I jaIva AÜtUna kama krt Asato tovha itlaa vaaTtM kI kMpnaIlaa AaplaI
garja Aaho pNa p`%yaxaat maa~ kuNaacaMca kuNaaiXavaaya ADt nasatM. AiBaEautIÊ yaÜgya inaNa-ya Aaho.
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Lalitas
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 3:02 pm: |
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hI ilaMk pha saMskaraMcyaa saMdBaa-t.... http://www.esakal.com/20040422/maiVishesh15.html
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Arch
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 3:14 pm: |
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hllaIcaI ipZI jaast practical Asato AaiNa AapNa jaast emotional AsatÜ Asa jaaNavala ka kuNaalaaÆ maaJyaa maulaaMva$na saaMgato. jaoMvha %yaaMcao AajaI AajaÜbaa [qao Asatat toMvha to %yaaMcyaat rmatat
pNa to prt India laa gaolao tr %yaaMcyaa AazvaNaI kaZt basat naahIt. to prt Aaplyaa ima~aMmaQyao AgadI CanapNao rmaUna
jaatat AaiNa AaplyaasaarKI varcaovar kaya pNa AgadI @vaicatca AazvaNa kaZtat. Asa kÜNaalaa jaaNavala Aaho
kaÆ
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Yogibear
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 3:19 pm: |
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Arch: Very good observation.... "out of sight is out of mind"....
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Athak
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 4:02 pm: |
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very true Arch hI ipZI practical va durdXaI- pNa Aaho AsahI mhNaayalaa hvaM Ê maaJyaa maulaacao admission tension %yaacyaa poxaa maIca jaast Gaotlao hÜto Ê pNa %yaanaoca ha p`Xna saÜDvalaa . AavaDIlaaMnaa kaLjaI AsaNaM
svaaBaaivak Aaho Ê to p`omaapÜTI Ê AaiNa yaa p`omaapÜTIca AapNa emotional hÜtM AsatÜ
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Aaca-Ê malaa pNa qaÜDo far Asaoca vaaTayacao. maI AaiNa MT XaojaarI XaojaarI rhayacaÜ tovha maI AaiNa maaJaa navara ho maaJyaa Baacyaacao³Aaya-k cao´ ivaXva ca
hÜtÜ. rÜja ca jaovaayalaaÊ KoLayalaaÊgaÜYTI eokayalaaÊ maaJyaa navaáyaaXaI dMgaa mastI krayalaaÊ JaÜpayalaa
AaiNa Aqaa-t Aa baabaaMnaI iXaxaa kolaI kI Aaya-k maaJyaaca kDo Asaayacaa. pNa maga AamhI dÜGaIhI dusarIkDo move Jaalyaavar malaa vaaTlao Aata ha AmacyaaXaI ittka attached raihla kI naahIÆÆ pNa prvaa %yaacaa phone Aalaa hÜta tovha maaJyaa navaáyaalaa tÜ saaMgat hÜtaÊ %yaanao dÜna KoLatlaI ku~I GaotlaI AahotÊ ekalaa
maaJao naava idlao Aaho AaiNa dusayaalaa maaJyaa navaáyaacaoÊ ho eokUna maaJaI jaama hhpv JaalaI pNa Aaya-k nao reason kaya idlao ho AXaI naava zovaayacao tr mhNao Ê 'B'coz both of u are not here with me in Chicago', but I want to call these names all the day!! ho eoklao AaiNa maaJaa gaOrsamaja dUr Jaalaa AaiNa ka^lar taz JaalaI .
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Arch
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 5:29 pm: |
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Deeps tumacaI AXaIca relations rahU dot. pNa maula XaaLa AaiNa [tr activities maQyao gauMtlaI na kI ima~ ho %yaaMca ivaXva hÜt. Aaya-kpoxaa maaJaI maulaM maÜzI Aahot. maaJao 2 idr [kDoca Asatat. pNa AamhI ekmaokaMpasaUna p`%yaokI
1000 maOlaaMvar rhatÜ. p`%yaokjaNa Aaplyaa sau+\yaa India laa jaayalaa zovatat %yaamauLo vaYaa-tUna jaomatoma 2 - 3 idvasa maulaM ek~ yaot AsatIla. %yaamauLo ikMvaa p`%yaokacyaa svaBaavaat AaiNa vayaat AMtr Asaola mhNaUna
pNa maI AaiNa maaJyaa cousins ca jao ekmaokaMXaI naat AjaUna raihla Aaho to %yaaMcyaat rahIla Asa vaaTt naahI. ivaYayaalaa Qa$na hÜt
nasaola tr maI delete krIna. pNa kaya saMvaad k$na naatI kXaI iTkvata yaotIla mhNaUna ho ilaihla Aaho.
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 5:35 pm: |
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saÊ tuJyaa posting va$na maI eka Baptist Priest ca ekda XaaLot parents ca lecture eoklaola Aazvala. vaDIla naohomaI office maQaUna ]iXara GarI yaayacao toMvha maulagaa vaiDlaaMnaa mhNaalaa " tumhalaa kama ksa krayaca to AjaUna jamala naahI kaÆ mhNaUna tumacaI teacher tumhalaa sagaL\yaaMnaMtr qaaMbavaUna kama pUNa- k$na Gaoto kaÆ "
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Ashwini
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| Thursday, April 22, 2004 - 6:02 pm: |
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varcaI sagaLI postings maI vaoLoABaavaI AjaUna vaacalaI naahItÊ savaDInaM vaacaIna. Aa<aa f> ek quick note saaMgaaivaXaI vaaTtoya. kahI repeat Jaalao Asalyaasa xamasva. Deeps, Aaplao Aaplyaa maulaaMXaI saMbaMQa AaiNa [tr Aaplyaa KUp javaLcyaa prMtu AaplaI svatÁcaI nasalaolyaa maulaaMXaI
saMbaMQa (a dÜna vaogaL\yaa gaÜYTI Aahot. maaJyaa lagnaapUvaI- maaJaI CÜTI BaacaI maaJaa jaIva kI p`aNa
hÜtI. tIsauwa maaJaM sagaLM eokayacaI. toMvha maaJaI vahInaI itlaa ragavalaI kI malaa vaaTayacaM evhZ\yaa
gaÜD maulaIlaa hI ragaavaU kXaI XaktoÆ malaa maulaM JaalaI kI maI %yaaMnaa kQaIca ragaavaNaar naahI [.
[... pNa p`%yaxaat vaoL AalaI kI kLtM jaÜpya-Mt maulaalaa iXast laavaayacaI paLI Aaplyaavar yaot naahI
tÜpya-Mt to maula Aaplyaalaa BayaMkr gaÜD [. [. vaaTtM pNa %yaalaa rÜja jaovaayalaa GaalaNaoÊ JaÜpvaNaoÊ
AaMGaÜL GaalaNaoÊ AByaasa GaoNao [. gaÜYTI krayalaa laagalyaa kI maga iXastIcaI AavaXyakta vaaTayalaa
laagato. maaJyaa BaacaIcyaa baabatIt yaa sagaL\yaa gaÜYTI maI pUvaI-hI kolaolyaa Aahot AaiNa toMvha to
krayalaa KUp majaa yaayacaI. pNa frk Asaa hÜta kI maI f> to kQaItrIÊ gaMmat mhNaUna krt hÜto prMtu
maulaM Jaalyaavar to rÜjaÊ idnaËmaacaa Baaga mhNaUna kravaM laagato toMvha tI Aaplyaa patience caI pirxaa zrto.
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AiXvanaIÊ hmmm barÜbar Asaava tuJao. malaahI Aaya-k laa MT ikMvaa NK nao fTka idlaa tr to ihMs~ vaaTtoÊ pNa MT hI mhNato kI kQaI kQaI %yaalaa kuzlyaa trI p`karo control kravaoca laagato mhNaUna ²
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Saee
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| Friday, April 23, 2004 - 4:59 am: |
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Aaca-Ê iktI inaragasa p`Xna lailataÊ ho maIhI vaacalaM hÜtM maQauramaQaoÊ pNa malaa %yaa Aacyaa Apoxaa itt@yaaXaa pTlyaa naahIt.
rÜja maÜz\yaa maaNasaaMcyaa payaa pDNao ikMvaa nausatMca nama` vaagaNao mhNajaoca saMskar kaÆ va. pu.
mhNatat tsaM maaNausa Aaplyaa Apoxaop`maaNao vaagat nasalaa kI tÜ ibaGaDlaa. AsaMca kahItrI %yaaMcyaabaabatIt
JaalaM AsaavaM. maaJyaa navaáyaacyaa ima~acaM Kup Cana ]dahrNa Aaho maaJyaapuZo. %yaacaa sahja ikMvaa caukuna doKIla pustkaMnaa
³kÜNa%yaahI gaÜYTIlaa´ paya laagalaa trI tÜ namaskar cama%kar kQaIca krt naahI. karNa mauLat tÜ Aaplyaa
payaaMnaaca kmaI laoKt naahI² maaJyaa XarIracaa tÜ ek mah%vaacaa ihssaa AahoÊ AapNa DÜkM eKaVa gaÜYTIlaa
laagalaM tr payaa pDtÜ kaÆ maga paya laagalaa tr ka AsaM kravaÆ tÜ mhNatÜ maaJaa paya laagalaa mhNauna
maI ivaVocaa Apmaana krtÜya AXaI kÜNatIhI kmaIpNaacaI Baavanaa maaJyaa manaat yaot naahI. ho Kupca laa^ijakla
AahoÊ bauQdIlaa pTNyaasaarKM AahoÊ pNa trIhI maI to JaTkna isvakaÉ Xaklao naahI. barM tÜ naastIk naahI
ikMvaa p`%yaok baaba Xaas~aQaaravar Gaasauna baGaNyaacaa A+ahasa naahI. GarI vaoL pDlaI tr dovaaMcaI Cana
manaapasauna sauMdr pujaa krtÜÊ gaNaptIcyaa idvasaat hÝsaonao AarasaÊ AartI krtÜ. Aalaa svaOpakapasauna
Gar AavarNyaapya-Mt to Baacyaalaa Cana saaMBaaLNyaapya-Mt madt krtÜ. AgadI maaJyaa GarI Aalyaavar malaahI
maI krt Asalaolyaa sagaL\yaa gaÜYTIt madt krtÜ. kuNaacyaahI GarI jaaAÜÊ baakIcao sagaLo gaPpa maart Asatanaa
ha maa~ Aavajau-na Garat madtIsaazI ivacaarola. maga ho saMskarat QarayacaM kI naahIÆ kdaicat yaaca pzDItlaM
%yaaMcyaahI maulaacaM vaagaNaM Asaola jao %yaaMcyaa Apoxaopoxaa vaogaLM Asaola. AsaÜ. pNa kahI mhNaaÊ ho sagaLM vaacatanaa ikMvaa ihrIrInao baÜlatanaa manaavar dDpNa yaotM. jao Ajauna
Aabaabaa Jaalao naahIt to maaJaM mhNaNaM samajau XaktIla. baÜlaayalaa kaya jaatMya hÜÊ p`%yaxaat vaoL
yaola tovha kaya idvao laavaNaar dovaca jaaNao...
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saÊ tU mhNatosa tohI Krca Aaho. jaavao %yaacyaa vanXaa tonvha kLo² pNa tumhI Aatapasauna yaa ivaYayaat
[nTrosT Gaotaya AaiNa kaya p`XNa AsatatÊ [trancao kaya AnauBava Aahot ho jaaNauna Gaotaya hI Kup caangalaI
gaÜYT Aaho. AaiNa AiXvanaI mhNato tohI KÜT naahI. Aaplyaa maulaaMMnaa iXast laavaayacaI tI pNa %yaaMMnaa
~asa na hÜta iknvaa %yaaMMcaa gaOrsamaja na hÜtaÊ hI gaÜYT saÜPpI naahIca. AaiNa Aaplyaa naatovaakaMMivaYayaI
%yaaMMnaa p`oma vaaTNa ho sahvaasaavar Avalambauna Aaho. jar ka tumhI caar vaYaa-nao ekda AajaIAajaÜbaankDo
jaat Asaala tr to ApoixathI naahI. Aaplao idvasa AazvaaÊ AapNa Aaplyaa AajaIbarÜbar iktI idvasa raihlaÜyaÊ
iktI gaÜYTI AajaIAajaÜbaaMMnaI Aaplyaalaa iXakvalyaatÊ iktI gamatI mhNaa p`vaasaÊ saNaÊ sau+\yaa AapNa
%yaaMMcyaa barÜbar GaalavalyaatÊ tovhZ\yaa Aajakalacyaa maulaaMMcyaa naXaIbaatca naahIt maga ksaa va ka
%yaaMMnaa laLa laagaNaarÆ malaa Aazvatya ekda Amaoirkot prtt Asatanaa Aamacyaa barÜbar ek jaÜDp hÜtÊ %yaaMMcaa
maulagaa jaomatoma savvaa vaYaa-caa AsaolaÊ tIna maihnao Baartat AjaÜbaanbarÜbar raihlyaavar %yaalaa %yaaMMcaI
[tkI AazvaNa yaot hÜtI kI ivamaanaatÊ eArpÜT- vartI idsaNaaáyaa p`%yaok mhataáyaa maaNasaacyaa tÜ maagao
maagao Qaavat hÜta AaiNa Aabaa Aabaa Asa mhNat hÜta. AaplaI maula p`i@Tkla AsatIlahI AaplyaapoxaaÊ manaanao
AaplyaaevhZI Baavanaap`Qaana nasatIlahI. yaathI maaNasaamaaNasaat Ôrk AahoÊ kahI jaNa sahjair%yaa Baavanaa
p`dXa-na k$ Xaktat AaiNa kahIjaNaaMMnaa p`ya%na kÉnahI to jamat naahI. pu$Yaancyaa baabatIt ho Kr Aaho.
%yaat Aaplyaa samaajaat pu$YaanaI Baavanaap`Qaana AsaNa mhNajao baalapNaa samajatat. ho saaÔ caukIca
Aaho. %yaamauLo %yaaMMnaa ~asaca hÜtÜ. anyway coming to the point, it's an art to develop good relations with kids and make them understand the importance of discipline. sanvaadacaa Ajauna ek majaodar AnauBava... maI AaiNa maaJaI maulagaI dÜna vaYaa-puvaI- AimataBacaa Xa>I ip@car phat hÜtÜ AaiNa %yaatlaI raKIcaI
QaDpD pahuna maI maulaIlaa saangat hÜtoÊ Asaca hÜt Aamaca Aayaanca QaD navaáyaacaIhI baajaU Gaota yaot
naahI AaiNa maulaacaIhIÊ saÊcnDivaca hÜt² tr tI kaya mhNaalaI³ivacaar krNyaasaarKI gaÜYT Aaho´ mammaI
pNa tumhI maulaacaIca baajaU GaotlaI paihjao karNa tumhI Aamhalaa day one pasaUna AÜLKtaÊ AaiNa baabaalaa tU AÜLKayalaa laagalaIsa tonvha he was almost 28 yrs old.
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Lalitas
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| Friday, April 23, 2004 - 8:19 am: |
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saÊ sakaLcyaa maaQaurI maQaIla ilaMk ba_la qaÜDosao... %yaa baa ivacaartahot kI saMskar ekcasaarKo AsaunahI ekaca GaraMtIla maulaoM eksaarKI kaM inaGat naahIMtÆ
malaa ha mau_a mah%vaacaa vaaTlaa mhNaUna maI ilaMk idlaI hÜtI...
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Saee
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| Friday, April 23, 2004 - 9:04 am: |
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KrMca kIÊ ekaca GaTnaot maI vaogaL\yaaca mau_\yaacaa ivacaar kolaa... yaa kÜD\yaacaM ]<ar malaa saucaNaM AvaGaDca Aaho. pNa p`%yaok vya>I janmatÁca vaogaLI nasato kaÆ jarI tI ekaca vaatavarNaat vaaZlaI trI p`%yaokjaNa svatÁcaa
svaBaava Gao}na janmaalaa yaotÜ. jasaa caohramaÜhra vaogaLa tsaMca vaagaNaMhI vaogaLM AsaNaar. ekjaNa
AasaarKa tr ekjaNa baabaaMsaarKa AsaMhI ZÜbaL karNa dota yaolaÊ karNa itqaohI dÜGaaMcao svaBaava vaogaLo
Asatatca. qaÜDasaa bauQdIcaahI saMbaMQa AsaU XaktÜ. eKadM BaavaMD ska^lar Asaola tr eKadM AtIsaumaarhI
AsatM. ekjaNa AtI BaÜLM tr eKadM AtIAagaa} AsatM jaovha p`%yaxaat Aabaabaa Kupca saalasa Asatat² iXavaaya
tI %yaaMcyaa caYmyaatuna jagaakDo kXaI baGatatÊ saMgatI kXaa AahotÊ GaratlaM AgadI XaojaarcaMhI vaatavarNa
ksaM Aaho yaa sagaL\yaaca baabaI mah%vaacyaa naahIt kaÆ maga eksaarKMca vaaZvalaMÊ iXakvalaM trI p`%yaokjaNa
Aapaplyaa kuvatInausaarca to GaoNaar. %yaamauLo p`%yaok vaoLI Aabaabaaca kmaI pDlao ikMvaa cauklao ha
inakYahI laagaU pDlaaca paihjao AsaM naahI.
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Milindaa
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| Friday, April 23, 2004 - 12:42 pm: |
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AS, an interesting point of view ...
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Yogibear
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| Friday, April 23, 2004 - 1:13 pm: |
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Saee: tu saMgatI caa Baaga ivasarilasa bahuda²²² lahaNapNaI tumhalaa AsalaolaI saMgat tumhalaa GaDvaNyaat ek
maÜza vaaTa zÉ Xakto... naahI kaÆ
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Keshar
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| Friday, April 23, 2004 - 10:13 pm: |
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yogi tuza mhanan 100 % barobar aahe....sangati,mitra,maitrini,shejar...asha samjashi related anek gosti tumhala ghadvanyat barach motha vata uchalatat...
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Keshar, Yogibear u r absolutely right. It makes lot of difference, who come in ur contact, at what time and directly/indirectly there is "The Influence"! U may not know at that time or the person who influences u (one way or the other) may not know too. Again as Saee said, the capacity of everyone to grasp the 'sanskar' done by parents and to obey it, is different. Everyone's nature is different, one may accept everything told by parents or teachers easily, one may want to know reasons behind all the rules/discipline, one can be so aggressive that he/she will set her own rules after some experiences/incidents. This world is full of various personalities, that's why it is so interesting! I would like to share one more parenting experience. It's about fights between mom and dad. We both(me and my husband) argue regularly on some or the other silly topic (since we were in college) and our kids r kind of used to it. Argument does not turn into big fight or personal-attacks, in front of kids. Kids don't feel anything about it, as they see their parents in usual mood again. But one of my friends, was very particular about it(she was grown up in such a family where her father used to listen to whatever her mother says, no arguments!) As she did not see such fights in her childhood she used to restrict her husband not to fight/argue in front of their child, and he did not follow that, then she used to get scared. What will happen to my child, what will she think about parents? etc etc. I think this is not a healthy situation. Kids should know that just like them, we also fight sometimes. There is nothing abnormal in that. Because each child thinks that his/her parents are the ideal parents/couple in the world(just like they think that their father is the strongest person on the earth.)
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Keshar
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| Monday, April 26, 2004 - 9:04 pm: |
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abhishruti..tuza mhanan ekaparine yogya aahe..pan kadhitari..choti arguments..khup moth vadalhi nirman karatat...tyavela kahrokharch atmabhan rahil aas nahi..ekhadi khup sensitive gost hi patakan bolali jate ...tevha choti fight kiwa tatvik matabhed itparyant gadi thick aahe...pan gadicha chukalela track aani badalte sawarop motha parinamhi ghadvu shakte...
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Gurudasb
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| Tuesday, April 27, 2004 - 3:42 am: |
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EautIÊ tuJao mhNaNao barÜbar Aaho. prMtu Ê Because each child .....on the earth. ha mau_a pÝgaMDavasqaa sauÉ JaalaI ik qaÜDo svatM~ ivacaar sauÉ hÜ]na vyai>ma%vaat qaÜDa badla hÜt
jaa]na ideal parents ih saMklpnaa badlau pahto . AaiNa mhNaunaca yaa kaLat maulaanaa ima~vat ivacaaranaI ivaXvaasaat Gao]na
%yaaMcyaabarÜbar vaagalao paihjao.kuMpNaavar ]Bao AsaNyaacaa ha kaL AsatÜ.manaÜvyaaparacyaa dRiYTnao ih
paca saha vaYao- Ôar mah%vaacaI Asatat. gauMta hÜt rhatÜ vyai>ma%vaat naaihtr.
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Saee
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| Tuesday, April 27, 2004 - 4:56 am: |
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yaÜgaIÊ maIdoKIla saMgatIcaa ]llaoK kolaaya naa...
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Keshar, ur point of limiting the arguments and not to stretch it beyond certain limits should be considered seriously by all the parents community. Sometimes there r chances of crossing the limit and as far as possible u should avoid that or if u think u can't control urself then it is better not to fight in front of kids. My point was, to make them understand that it is OK to argue sometimes or there r opinion differences between mom and dad. What I mean to say is they should understand that both have their own separate identity, they just don't say 'yes' for everything. It is better to make them understand this concept as early as possible. gauÉkakaÊ sallyaaba_la Qanyavaad. tumhI saaingatlaolaI gaÜYT kayama laxaat zovaayacaa p`ya%na krIna. yaat
maaJaI sauwa pirxaaca Aaho.
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Saee
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| Tuesday, April 27, 2004 - 7:43 am: |
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yaa sagaL\yaacaa ivacaar krtanaa Aaplyaa AabaabaaMcao ekmaokaMXaI iktI sauMdr saMbaMQa hÜto ho p`kYaa-nao
jaaNavatM... maI kQaIca AabaabaaMnaa vaad Gaalatanaa paihlaM naahIÊ dÜGaaMcaohI svaBaava ivaÉQd hÜto
trIhI. Aaja baabaa saaMgatat kI itcaM malaa ho pTt navhtM ikMvaa maaJaM itlaa ho pTayacaM naahI pNa ho
Aamhalaa kQaIca idsalaM naahI. AgadI kakakakuÊ Aa%yaakaka yaaMcyaathI kurbaurIdoKIla eoklyaa naahIt. mau#ya
mhNajao Aamha maulaaMcyaa baabatIt p`%yaokacaM QaÜrNa ekca Asao. jao Aa mhNaola toca baabaaÊ ikMvaa jao
baabaa mhNatIla toca Aa. matBaod tr AsatIlaca pNa to AamacyaasamaÜr idsalao naahIt. ekmaokaMXaI tr naahIca
pNa naatovaakÊ XaojaarIÊ ima~maMDLI yaaMcyaaXaIhI kQaI matBaod idsalao naahIt. kÜNaahIba_la vaaT baÜlalaotÊ
tÜMDavar caaMgalaM AaiNa maaGaarI iTka AsaM duTPpI QaÜrNaÊ kQaI KÜT\yaa sababaI saaMigatlyaat AsaM kahIca
Aazvat naahI. maaJyaa XaaLotlyaa maOi~NaIMcyaa GarIhI AXaaca p`karcaM vaatavarNa AsaayacaM. yaalaa Apvaad
hÜtoca pNa tulanaonao farca kmaI. jao Aaja Aijabaat AazvathI naahIt. savaa-t mah%vaacaM mhNajao maulaaMsamaÜr
AsaM vaagaayacaM AsaM zrvauna to vaagalao AsatIla hI Xa@yata pTt naahIÊ jao tovha hÜtM to sagaLM naOsaiga-k
hÜtM AsaM Aaja ivacaar krtanaa jaaNavatM. malaa vaaTtM Aaplyaa ipZIcyaa bahutok sava-ca GaraMmaQao hoca
vaatavarNa Asaola. sagaL\yaa maOi~NaIMcaI GarM sagaL\yaaMcyaa AavaiDlaaMnaa maahIt Asat. %yaamauLo inaQaa-stpNao
ekmaokaMkDo @vaicat GarM laaMba AsalaI trI ibanaid@kt KoLayalaa AByaasaalaa jaata yao. ]XaIr Jaalaa tr
palak GarI yao}na saÜDuna jaat. dÜnhI vaoLa ek~ jaovaNaoÊ zrlaolyaa AByaasa AaiNa KoLNyaacyaa vaoLaÊ inayamaIt
ek~ ifrayalaa jaaNaoÊ gaÜYTI saaMgaNaoÊ jaovatanaa AajaÜbaaMkDuna Aamacyaa XaaLocyaaÊ Aacyaa kamaaMcyaaÊ
baabaaMcyaa Aa^ifsacyaa caÝkXaaÊ %yaavar eki~t cacaa-Ê matoÊ caaMgalao ica~pTÊ p`dXa-naMÊ pustkKrodIÊ
cahacyaa vaoLI sakaLI baatmyaaMvar baÜlaNao yaa sagaL\yaa gaÜYTI sahjapNao vhayacyaa. ho %yaavaoLI Aijabaat
vaogaLM vaaTlaM naahI pNa Aaja farca ivaXaoYa AaiNa kÝtukaspd vaaTtMya. Kupca holdI vaatavarNa hÜtM to.
ho sagaLM AapNa maulaM Asatanaa AaplyaaXaI AabaabaaMcaa ksaa XabdXaÁ sausaMvaad hÜta yaacaa ivacaar krtanaa
jaaNavalaM mhNauna tumacyaaXaI f> XaoAr krtoya. malaa [traMcao kahI vaogaLo AnauBava AsatIla tr tohI
eokayacaI ]%saukta Aaho.
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