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Manalim
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 4:39 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Nuktich India trip zali. Kahi goshti far prakarshane janavlya, te mhanje aajkal baryach jananchi mule pardeshat asatat ani tyamule retire zale ki kay karayche ha far motha prashana aai-baba na padto?

Generally just retire zalelya parents chi tabyet pan changli aste ani kahitari karnyachi iccha pan aste pan kay karayche evdhya velache ha prashan asto. ani mag tyana bore vayla lagte.

So can anybody suggest any organizations or any work where they can spend their time constructively?

Manali

Mvelanka
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 4:53 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

iXavaaya ho bahutok palak sauiXaixatÊ p`iXaixatÊ ]ccaiXaixat Asatat.

Aasapasacyaa garjaUÊ hÜtk$ maulaaMcyaa %yaaMnaI iXakvaNyaa GyaavyaaÊ %yaaMnaa maaga-dXa-na kravao. Aaplyaa palyaalaa AapNa jasao naoTanao puZo AaNalao tsao %yaaMnaahI puZo yaayalaa madt maaga-dXa-na kravao.

to AgadI AanaMdanao krtIla AXaI hI gaÜYT AahoÊ Asao malaa vaaTto.

Dardi
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 5:01 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aata [qao malaa eka ihtgaujakr BaiganaIcaI Ôar AazvaNa yaot Aaho ²² %yaaMnaI irTayarmaoMT nantr Aaš vaDIlaaMnaa Ôula ibaJaI zovaayacao Ôar Cana³Æ´ Pla^na work out kolao hÜto²²:-) ref. ‘ ideal saMsaar’ BB

Yogibear
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 5:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Manalim: nice topic....

1. library join karne, jamlyaas marathi/english asavi mhanje maaybolit kinva awaadtyaa bhashet vachan hoil......
2. join some good social/regional orgnization/team in ur own area where they can walk in anytime and play their part.
3. Information center sarkhe sudha suru karta yeil jyaane lokanna havi asleli mahiti milavNe va upalabh karun dene....

Hemantp
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 5:11 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

4. Open an library for needy students. This involves some investment but slowly other people also will donate books to this library.

Manalim
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 7:38 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Thanks everyone for nice suggestions.

Anybody knows any social organizations in Pune?

Mazya aai cha asa anubhav ahe ki aajkal lok(atleast amchya society til janata) asha shikvanya kinva fukatcha sanskar varg yana kahi response det nahi. Actually tila khup stories, shlok, gani chan sangta yetat, but people r not interested and she haven't tried anywhere out of our society.

And I feel the work should be social as well as of their interest. Like gardening, teaching or playing with kids, some crafting, music(bhajan class, peti shikne) etc.

Now my father is a retired branch manager. So I am suggesting him to go to various places and arrange seminars and give them information about various saving options, life insurance, medical insurance etc. But I don't know who will help him to arrange such seminars?

I have generally observed if they don't have any specific hobby then the work related to their own field interests them.

Manali

Yogibear
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 7:42 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Manali: library can be extremely good source for arranging seminars like "saving for retirement", "easy saving plans", etc. For teaching and all, you mom can do honarary work for any 'KG' school where she could be visiting faculty, KG schools do allow it especially if the person can tell good stories to kids and encourage them to be good kids :-)

Navanava
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 7:52 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

1)Mala Punyatle barec lok mahityet je Rotary Club ce members ahet, khoop busy astat te lok. satat kahi na kahi challa asta. ani tyancha vayace lok pan tyanna bhettat. tyatun Rotary charity work vagaire kartat.

2) Majhya ghara javalchya RSS shakhet Peti/Tabla/Kathak va Yoga classes ghetat, varshik fee fakta Rs 50!

3)Mala barec vayaskar lok mahityet je techno phobic astat. tyanna pcs vagaire vaparta yet nahit ani confidence pan nasto (which is understandable). Sadha Internet/Email etc course kela tari pardeshi etc rahanarya mulan barobar emailing/chatting karta yeil.

Generally, retired kay ni working lok kay ni shiknare lok kay, its easier to get involved in some activity on a regular basis of you join an organisation rather than just doing it on your own.

Manalim
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 8:07 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Yogibear I liked your suggestions. I will ask my parents to look for such work.

Navanava I agree with you that it is better to get involved in some activity through some organization.

what is the procedure to get rotary club membership? they have any web site?

he Rss che classes kuthe ahet? we stay at kothrud.



Madhura
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 10:22 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Mazi ek maitrin phavala vel hota mhanun 'Sasoon' chya anathasramat jaun tithlya sanchalkanna bhetali ani tya nantar ti tithe jaun tya lahaan mulanna volunterily goshti sangayche , shlok shikvayche , khel shikvayche ashi kame karit ase.

Society madhe lok uplabdha nastil tar,ase kahi anathasram punyat sapdu shaktil.Ani senior lokanna he kaam sahaj jamu shakel ase vatte;savadi nusaar hi karta yeil.

Arch
Monday, July 08, 2002 - 10:35 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maQauraÊ maIpNa hoca saucavaNaar hÜto. maaJaI Aaš general hospital maQyao jaato. puYkLda admit Asalaolyaa laÜkaMnaa %yaaMcyaa naatovaaškaMnaa BaoTayalaa vaoL nasatÜ. %yaaMnaa ekTopNa vaaTto. AXaavaoLI Asao volunteers Aalao kI %yaaMnaa KUp AanaMd vaaTtÜ. CÜT\yaa maulaaMcyaa ward maQyao gaaNaI iXakvaNaoÊ gaÜYTI vaacaNao (asaazI AXaa govt. hospitals maQyao KUp jaÉrt Asato.

Zakki
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 12:58 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aro pNa² %yaa Aaš vaiDlaaMnaa kahI choice Vala kI naahIÆ maI retire Jaalyaavar duparI JaÜpNaoÊ sakaL saMQyaakaL ifrayalaa jaaNaoÊ [tr saovaainavaR<a laÜkaMXaI fÜna va$na gaPpa maarNaoÊ jamalyaasa Garkamaalaa hatBaar laavaNao yaa kamaat majaot vaoL Gaalavat hÜtÜ ina AjaUnahI Aaho. malaa ‘Aata kaya k$’ ha p`Xnaca yaot naahI. %yaa sauKI saMsaaracyaa BB var jaÜ tÜ Aaplaa svaaqaI-pNaoÊ Aaš baabaaMnaI ‘Aamacyaasaaiz’ yaÐva kravao ina %yaÐva kravao Asao ilaihtahot² tumhI kXaalaa fukTcao sallao dotahatÆ tumhalaa AamhI kahI saaMigatlao tr eokNaar Aahat kaÆ (a (aÊ Balatca²

Radha_t
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 4:42 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Ja@kI AajaÜbaa pTla .. .. Aata tumhIca baÜlalaat mhNaUna ... naahI tr ..

janahÜ T\yaubalaašT Gyaa

Manya
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 2:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

barÜbar Aaho zakki ca mhNaNaÊ jyaanaI [tko vaYa- saMsaar kolaaÊ evaZo AnauBava paizXaI baaMQalaoÊ %yaaMnaI AapNa ekidvasa retire hÜNaar ho jaaNala Asaolaca AaiNa %yaasaazI %yaaMnaI kahI plans zrvalao Asaitlaca. AapNa Ô> evaZ\ca phayaca kI %yaanaa jao hva to %yaaMnaa Ôarsaa ~asa na Gaota imaLu Xakola.

Yogibear
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 2:26 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Manalim: ‘tu tIqa maI’ ha ica~pT baGaÊ retired laÜkaMcyaa Baavanaa AitXaya sauroK irtInao va> kolyaa Aahot. :-)

Zakki: wah! kya baat hai....

Arch
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 2:33 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

(a bb var manaailanao [traMcyaa klpnaa ivacaarlyaa hÜ%yaa. AaiNa p`%yaokanao Aapaplyaa AnauBavaanao %yaa saucavalyaa hÜ%yaa. %yaacaa Aqa- itnao AašvaiDlaaMvar %yaa laadlyaa nhva%yaa. dusaáyaaMcao ivacaar eokNa (alaasauQda sau&pNaa mhNatat.

Manalim
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 3:21 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

"Tu Tithe Me" ha picture me baghitla ahe. pan tyatil situation thodi vegli ahe, mulani tyanchya bhavnancha vichar na karta tyanchi vibhagni kelyane tyana vegle rahayla laglyane kase vatle he mainly ahe.

Zakki, tumche mhanane barobar ahe. pan sarvanach asha tarhene enjoy karne jamat nahi ani kahi zale tari after 2 month bore hote. he maze personal opinion ahech pan me mazya parents shi, mazya in-laws shi, tasech mazya maitrinin chya parents barobar bolun nighalele conclusion ahe.

and even some of them are working but since childers r away from home, they feel emotinally v alone. and i think every person has emotional need to love somebody and to get some love back. so they find it difficult to cope with those emotions. mhanje mazya eka maitrininchi aai ti usa la alyavar 1yr aajari hoti, mainly because she couldn't vent out her emotions and still she is feeling so lonely though she is busy in her work. tevha jar tyani asha organization madhe jaun konavarti/ kashavarti tari manapasun prem karun kahi kam kele tar nakkich vel pan jail ani asa tras pan nahi honar.

ani he sagle tyanchya choice nech tyani karayche ahe rathter i belive they really want to do something but yet unclear what to do and have some inertia. kahi KG madhe aai-baba lahan mulana nevun thevtat tase tar koni aai-baba na kuthlya organization che kam karayla nahi sangat ahe. mhanunach tar bharpur options tyana suchvayche tyatle tyana avdel te select kartil.

S_ravi
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 3:23 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Manali,

zakki mahanatoy tyatali cheshta sodali tari tujhya aai-babana je awadel tech tyana karu dyawe. Arthatach tu tyanchyashi bolali asashilach pan te doghe swatahach firale wa yawishayi choukashi keli tar tyana kay jamu shakate te tyana kalel. Tyanchi tabyet,awadichya kamache swarup, tyasathi divasatil dyawa laganara vel ya vishyi tyanach tharawayache aahe.

RSS chya upakramanchi mahiti tyana shaniwar pethe madhil tyanchya karalayat ,"Motibaug", milu shakate.

S_ravi
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 3:27 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Manali,

Madhale posting me vachnyapurvich bakichyani aani tujhahi posting kele aahe.

Navanava
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 4:57 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Manali, I think only Rotary Club of Katraj is online. Here's the website link. Kothrud madhe pan Rotary Club chi branch ahe pun te online nahiye.

http://members.tripod.com/~RotaryKatraj/newindex.htm

As S ravi said, hya pattyavar kivha phone number varun RSS kadun javalchya shakhechi mahiti milu shakel.This is their mukhya sanstha in Maharashtra.

Motibaug,
309, Shaniwar Peth,
Pune-411030


S_ravi
Tuesday, July 09, 2002 - 5:58 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

manaalaIÊ
fÜna naM 020 4458080 Aaho.
puNyaacaa esaTIDI kÜD 020 Aaho AaiNa sarva naMbar saat AakDI Aahot.

Wakdya
Wednesday, July 10, 2002 - 3:50 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

manaaila Ôarca kizna p`XNa AahoÊ ina Ja@kI saahobaaMcaI pÜsT vaacauna tr %yaatlao gaa.imBaya- Ajauna vaaZlaolao vaaTlao.. karNa yaa p`XNaacaI dusarI baajaU tI mhNajao irTayarmaoMT naMtr maI kaya krNaar AahoÆ .. AhÜ ima kovhDa dcaklaÜ yaa p`XNaala..

Manya
Wednesday, July 10, 2002 - 1:20 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

vaakD\yaaÊ tuJyaa kuMDlaIt evaZ\yaat retirement caa yaÜga naahI naa² maga qaMD Gao kI....
sorry for TP ...

S_ravi
Thursday, July 11, 2002 - 6:36 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

manaalaIÊ
tuJao Aa[ baabaa rÜjacao popr vaacatca AsatIla. %yaamaQyao CÜT\yaa CÜT\yaa baatmyaaMmaQyao %yaaMcyaa AavaDIcyaa eKaVa ]pËmaacaI maaihtI imaLU Xakto.

S_ravi
Friday, July 12, 2002 - 1:28 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

manaalaIÊ

EaImatI ivajayaataš lavaaTo yaaMcaI ‘maanavya’ naavaacaI saMsqaa Aaho. itqao eDsaga`st maulao AaiNa maihlaa yaasaMbaMQaI kama gaolao 5 vaXao- sau$ Aaho. %yaaMcaa pta

maanavyaÊ 46­2Ê EaImaMgala saÜsaayatIÊ pÝD rstaÊ puNao­38.
fÜna naM. 5422282

tuJyaa GarajavaL Asalyaamaulao ho saucavalao.

Manalim
Friday, July 12, 2002 - 8:13 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Thanks everybody. I will convey this suggestions to my parents as well as to my friends parents.



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