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Dakshina
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| | Wednesday, June 25, 2003 - 9:51 am: | 
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BartamaQao saQyaa Infertility cao p`maaNa vaaZt AahoÊ AXaavaoLI maula d<ak GaoNao ha ek caaMgalaa pyaa-ya Aaho. tr tumhalaa kaya
vaaTtoÆ maula d<ak Gyaavao kI naahIÆ %yaacao Ôayado ikMvaa tÜTo..... savaa-Mgaanao AapaplaI mato maaMDa.iXavaaya
%yaacyaa AnauYaMgaanao AsalaolaI maihtIhI tumhI [qao ilahU Xakta.
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Sayonara
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| | Wednesday, June 25, 2003 - 12:32 pm: |
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jyaaMnaa kQaIca maulaM hÜNao Xa@ya naahI %yaaMcyaakrta ha ]paya na@kIca caaMgalaa Aaho.pNa baáyaaca naa
svat cao sa#ho maulaM hvao Asato %yaamauLo %yaaMnaa ha pyaa-ya pTNaara naahI. AaiNa pr@yaa maulaaMvar
svatcyaa maulaaMp`maaNao p`oma krNaM hI gaÜYThI saÜPpI naahI.%yaakirta KUp maÜzM mana laagatM
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Cool_gal
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| | Wednesday, June 25, 2003 - 1:40 pm: |
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maaJyaa naa%yaatca AXaI dÜna jaÜDpI Aahot jyaaMnaI maUla hÜNaar naahI ho maaiht AsaunahI %yaaMnaI kÜNaalaa
d<ak Gaotlao naahI....%yaaMnaa AnaokaMnaI Asao saucavauna paihlao pNa .....² AXaa laÜkaMnaa kaya krNaarÆ
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Mona
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| | Wednesday, June 25, 2003 - 1:55 pm: |
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Cool_gal, malaa vaaTto jar eKVa jaÜDPyaalaa maihtI Asauna kI %yaaMnaa maUla hÜNaar naahIÊ jar %yaaMnaI maUla d<ak
na GaoNyaacao zrvalao tr %yaat kahIhI gaOr naahI Most people do not / cannot have the ability to love and bring up someone else's baby unselfishly. ]gaIca laÜkaMna daKvaNyaa kirta maUla d<ak GaoNao AaiNa %yaa ibacaayaa- tan(acaI hyagayaI krNao %yaapo@Xaa
maUla d<ak Gao} nayao . Adoption is not easy. To come to terms with the fact that you can never create one of your own, but instead may have to bring up someone else's may not be very appealing to many, so no point in condoning such infertile couples who decide not to adopt.
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Beti
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| | Wednesday, June 25, 2003 - 3:18 pm: |
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malaa AaNaKI ek p`Xna ivacaaravaa vaaTtÜ... eKadI vya>I ³s~I Aqavaa puÉYa´ ekTI Aaho. Aaiqa-k XaarIirk
maanaisak dRYT\yaa baaLacao saMgaÜpna krNyaasa saxama Aaho... baaLacaI AavaDhI Aaho.. pNa %yaa vya>Ilaa
jaÜDIdar nakÜ Aaho. AXaa vya>Inao maUla d<ak Gyaavao kaÆ ik ha %yaa baaLacyaa AnaaqapNaacaa gaOrÔayada
GaoNao hÜlaÆ .. ha p`Xna AXaasaazI ivacaarlaa ik baaLalaa Aabaap dÜGaaMcyaahI p`omaacaI jaÉrI Asato.
pNa samaajat Anaok izkaNaI ivaQaur ikMvaa ivaQavaa maulaaMcao ]<ama saMgaÜpna krtanaa idsatat. ³GaTsÔÜiTt
daMp%yaat dusaáyaa palakacaa kahI naa kahI sahBaaga AsatÜ.. mhNaUna %yaaMcaa [qao ivacaar krt naahI´ pNa
itqao ekpalak%va dudO-vaanao yaoto. jaovha tumhI to svatÁ inavaDta tovha puZo jaa}na baaLalaa ha svatÁvar
Anyaaya vaaTU Xakola kaÆ tumhalaa kaya vaaTtoÆ ..
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Mona
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| | Wednesday, June 25, 2003 - 3:50 pm: |
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malaa vaaTto ja$r d<ak Gyaavao if one has the capability and capacity to love and nuture a child, why not ?
hM pNa Baartat tovhDI open minded society Aaho ka who will accept such a decision ? To some extent or the other, the single parent (who has taken the decision conciously, to be a single parent) will be ridiculed, I guess. Amaoirkot ho AgadI common Aaho. mau#ya mhNjao no one bothers. So its probably easier.
Ata %yaa Anaaqa maulaavar Anyaaya hÜla ka ekplak%vaacaaÊ ha vaogaLa mau_ Aaho In my opinion, the poor orphan is lucky to get at least one parent who will love him/her. What more can he/she ask for ? At least its better than being raised in an orphanage.
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Keya
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| | Wednesday, June 25, 2003 - 4:32 pm: |
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baoTIÊ maÜnaa mhNato %yaa p`maaNao jaÉr d<ak Gyaavao. AaiNa yaÜgya saMgaÜpna kolao tr %yaa baaLalaa
to vardanaca zrola. ijaqao janmada%yaa Aa[baapacao sauK imaLalao naahIÊ itqao eka saxama Aa[cao ikMvaa
baapacao sauKÊ AaQaar imaLtÜ ho ittkoca mah%vaacao Aaho. malaa naahI vaaTt %yaa baaLavar ekpalak%vaacaa
Anyaaya hÜ[la mhNaUna.
Aaplyaa kDo Baartat sauiXmata saona yaacaI sauÉvaat kolaI Aaho pNa sava- saamaanya laÜkaMpya-Mt pÜcaayalaa
vaoL laagaola.
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Bee
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| | Thursday, June 26, 2003 - 6:37 am: |
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Aamacyaa eka Xaojaaáyaanao Aaplyaa baihNaIcao maula d<ak Gaotlao. puZo caalaUna Jaalao Asao kI d<ak
GaoNaaáyaalaa Aaplyaa baihNaIcaa AaiNa itcyaa navaáyaacaa Aaplyaa maulaavar Asalaolaa jaIva AavaDlaa naahI.
AaiNa %yaapasaUna vaad sau$ Jaalao. toMvha javaLcyaa naatovaakaMcao maula d<ak GaoNao baro naahI Asao
zrvaavao kaÆ maula d<ak GaotlyaanaMtr Asao vaaTto kI Ô> Aaplaaca %yaavar h@k Asaavaa.
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Dakshina
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| | Thursday, June 26, 2003 - 7:36 am: |
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maula Aijabaat hÜ] na XakNaaáyaaMsaazI d<ak ha pyaa-ya izk AahoÊ pNa eKadM jaÜDpM jyaaMnaa maula
hÜNyacaI Xa@yaa AsaUnahI %yaaMnaI d<ak maulaacaa ivacar krNaM iktpt yaÜgya AahoÆ
iXavaaya XaovaTI AplaM to AaplaMÊ dusaáyaacaM to dusaáyaacaM ikMvaa d<ak GyaaÊ pNa pihlaM ek maula
trI AaplaMca hvaM AXaa vaa@yaaMnaa iktI mah%va VavaMÆ
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Bee
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| | Thursday, June 26, 2003 - 7:48 am: |
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pNa ek Aaplao ina ek d<ak jar Gaotlao tr puZo BaodBaava hÜ} XaktÜ. %yaamauLo tumacao ek pTlao kI lagna
Jaalyaavar jar maulao hÜt AsatIla tr d<ak Gyaayacaa ivacaar kXaalaaÆ pNa Storvi cao article vaacaUna pha %yaatUna kahI vaogaLoca ivacaar Aaplyaalaa jaaNavatIla.
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Sayonara
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| | Thursday, June 26, 2003 - 7:56 am: |
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BaodBaava na@kIca hÜvaU XaktÜ.pNa AsahI pah Nyaat yaotM kI jyaa jaÜDPyaaMnaa maula hÜt naahI to XaovaTI
maula d<ak Gaotat AaiNa naMtr %yaaMnaa svatca maula pNa hÜtM Ê maga %yaaMcyaakDUna kahI vaogaLI treatment %yaa d<ak maulaalaa idlaI jaat naahI kaM Æ
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Ajjuka
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| | Thursday, June 26, 2003 - 11:43 am: |
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mool honyachi shakyata asunahi dattak mulacha vichar karane yat kahihi ayogya nahi. aaple ni dusaryache ase jar satat manat yenar asel tar matra dattak ghene ayogya aahe. arthat 2 paiki 1 dattak ni 1 swatache ase asatana doghanchyat kahi bhedabhaav na thevane he avaghad jari asale tari ashakya mulich nahi.
mool dattak ghetalyanantar mool zaleli anek jodapi, dattak mulacha paayagoon mhanun tya pahilyache laad karatana disatat. andhashraddha sodun dya pan tya dattak mulachi nakkich aabaal hot nahi ya babtit.
2-3 mahinyache kuthalehi lahan mool uchalun ghetalyavar aaplyala tyachyabaddal fakta maayaach vatate. shabda cliche aahet pan feeling khare aahe. he tar kshanabharache asate mag je mool ase 2-3 mahinyapasun aaple aahe mag bhale tyala janm apan dila naselahi, tya mulabaddal te aaple nahi asa vichar kasa hou shakato? jar tumhi manapasun tya pillavar prem kele asel tar ha bhedabhaav tumachya manat yeuch shakat nahi. 'koni navate mhanun tula aanala ata aamacha swatacha diva/panati aamhala milali ata tuzi garaj nahi' ashya bhavanetun vaganare jodape he swatachya tari mulavar kitapat khare prem karu shakatil yachi shanka aahe.
baki 1 dattak ni 1 swatache ya nirnayabaddal je mala vatate te mool 1 ki 2 ya BB shi jast susangat aslyane mi tithe lihite.
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Storvi
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| | Friday, June 27, 2003 - 12:01 am: |
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mala he ughad karaycha navhta, for the sake of the child pan... majhya bhavane mulgi dattak ghetli ahe. they are all happy so are my parents. Infact Vaibhavi la adopt kelya nantar tyanni jangi party deun saglyanna apli mulgi dakhavli.. ti anathalayat day 1 pasun aslya mule ashakta ani malnourished hoti. pan nantar proper care mule ata tuntunit zali ahe, mazhya dusrya bhachya sarkhich aji la bilagte.. ani tyachya sarkhich aji ata US la ali tevha radun gndhal ghatla... ticha tichya kaka var (mhanje majhya dusrya bhavavar) atonat jeev ahe. ani mazha bhacha tar tila he lok ghevun ale tevha pasun tila premane vagavto. tila sambhalayla alelya baine tila haat lavlela hyala avdat nase hyala vataycha ki hi apli bahin ahe ani gharatlyanni sodun itar konihi tila uchlu dekhil naye 
he ithe sangyancha uddesh: dattak ghenar asal tar anath mula ghyavit..
tyanna tyachi garaj asate. ani tya drushtine punyat ek scheme chalu zaliye tyapasun savadhahi raha.
Majhya bhau-bhavjayine don varsha papers gola kele, adoption sathi. pan punyat itkya katkati... ki sagle papers asoonahi kaam hot navhta ka tar tyanna donation swaroopi 15/20 hajar rupaye have hote. ata madhyam vargiya lokanna mula hotatach ki tyanchya kade nehmich ase paise astat kay? pan adoption kartay tar evdha paisa deta yet nasel tar tumhi mulala kase sambhalnar asa ulatpakshi prashna tyanna kela gela. shivay punya "demand" cha problem ahe mhane. mhnaje kay tar 6month to yr old babies, tyatunahi girl child la farach "demand" ahe .. tevha "saboor". mala itki ghruna ali hya prakarachi. ek tar bharatat, dattak ghenare ahet ani mula nahit hi paristhiti durdaivane ajun ali nahiye, pan he lok paisyan sathi mulanna changli ghara milu det nahit. bara mula mhanje kay kanda batata ahe "demand and supply" chya goshti karayla? are ya lokanna anathlayache head karta kon?
so anyways kantalun te nashik chya anathalayat gele. tithe mulila dattak ghetahet yachach anand tyanna far hota. tyalokanni processing fee shivay kahi magitle nahi. mag 3 mahine probation mhanoon tila dada barobar pathavle. vishesh mhanje tyakalat vahinila muktangan shalene mahina bhar adoption sathi "maternity" leave dili. mala itka abhiman vatla tyadiwashi .. vatla koni kahi mhano Bharatat ajun tari asha ahe... tevha dada-vahininna mul sambhalnyat madat vhavi mhanoon aai dada kade jaun rahili. he inspection la alelya mansanni pahila ani behadda khush zale... ata amhala kahi kalji nahi mhanale.. nantar probation nantar adoption procedure surekh paar paDli. amchyakadchya kunihi yacha nishedh kela nahi...
aso mahiti milavi mhanoon me he post kela... nahi tar vaibhavila apan dattak-kanya ahot yachi janeev hou naye mhanoon amhi te asa jag-jahir karat nahi.
pan hi mahiti, first hand info. chi konala madat hoil, samajala madat hoil, ya sathi me ithe takli.
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Nirakar
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| | Friday, June 27, 2003 - 4:58 am: |
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Storvi as usual good posting.
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vatla koni kahi mhano Bharatat ajun tari asha ahe >>>> Yes, I am very much optimistic.
Aaplyaalaa maaihtI nasato pNa Anaok patL\yaaMvar [tko CÜTo CÜTo ga`up kama kirt Aahot kI %yaaMcyaakDo
pahUna Kup huÉp yaotÜ. snaohalaya hI AXaIca ek saMsqaa Aaho. maayabaÜlaIcao Anaok saBaasad Kup caaMgalao
kama kirt Aahot.
Aata sagaLIkDo kaLo AaiNa paMZro AsaNaarca. iXavaaya Aaplyaalaa sagaL\yaa gaÜYTIMsaazI sarkarkDo baGaNyaacaI
savaya JaalaIyao. kuzo kahI Jaalao kI Va raijanaamaa² ikMvaa maga sagaLo rajakarNaI vaaT Aahot.
maI [qao sarkarcyaa naakto-pNaacao samaqa-na kirt naahIyaoÊ pNa baáyaaca gaÜYTI AapNa svatÁ puZakar Gao}na
sahja saaQya k$ XaktÜ. naakto-pNaa jaovaZa naÜkrXaahIt AaiNa sarkarmaQao Aaho tovaZaca tÜ samaajaamaQaohI
Aaho.
aso. I was bit offline.
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Storvi
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| | Friday, June 27, 2003 - 5:40 pm: |
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ani mazya post madhye thodi mahiti mazya emotional attachment to the subject mule tainted ahe....
punyat je paise magitle te konache khise garam karnyasathi naahit .. te dattak company lach paise jatat ani tya mule jyanna shakya ahe tyanni te denyas harkat nasavi....
ani dusre ase.. ki amhi te jag-jahir karat naslo tari vishesh lapvunahi thevat nahi... yachihi nond asavi. baryach psychologists cha mhanna asata ki mulanna velich sangava ki tyanna dattak ghetla ahe tyatun tyanchya dev. la madat hote...
shivay ashya mulanna vadhavnya sathi aai-vadilanche monthly meetings ani tyatun tips vagaire dilya jatat, maze dada-vahini tyannahi regularly janyacha prayatna karat astat.... hya kahi goshti tips mhanoon changlya vatlya mhanoon sangte ahe...
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Manya
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| | Sunday, June 29, 2003 - 4:46 am: |
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maula d<ak GaoNa ho Ôarca mahana kaya- Aaho. pNa maI qaÜDsaa vaogaLa ivacaar maaMD\tÜya.. ( vaadacaa p`Xnaca naaihyaoÊ pNa maaJyaa mau_\yaaMvarih ivacaar kÉna baGaa )
lahana maula mhMTlaÊ Aapla svatÁca AsaÜ vaa d<ak AsaÜ %yaat emotional attachment Aailaca. infact %yaasaazIca tr ha KTaTÜp AsatÜ..
pNa (attachment) mhMTla kI magaÊ kt-vyaÊ baMQanaÊ Apoxaa ho sagaL Aalaca kI..maga maula svatÁca AsaÜ vaa d<ak AsaÜ..
kaih vaoLa mhatarpNaI AaQaar imaLavaa mhNauna maula d<ak GaotlaI jaatatÊ Aqaa-t (at vaaT kaihca naahI
karNa janma idlaolyaa maulaaMkDUnaih ihca Apoxaa Asato.. ( AXaI Apoxaa ka baaLgaavaI . . ih Ôar AadXa-vaadI t%vao AsalaI trI p`%yaxaat AiXa Apoxaa baáyaacada
na baÜlaUna daKvata Asatoca.. punha ekda... (at malaa caUkIca Asa kaihca vaaTt naahI )
pNa jyaavaoLI d<ak Gaotlaolyaa maulaalaa tI gaÜYT kLtoÊ toMvha nakLtÊ .... pNa eka ]pkarcaa baÜjaa
%yaacyaa DÜ@yaavar pDtÜÊ palakaMcaI Apoxaa nasalaI trI %yaaMnaa AaQaar doNaÊ %yaaMcyaa [cCo p`maaNao inaNa-ya
GaoNyaaca nakLt baMQana %yaacyaavar yaot. jar maulaalaa d<ak Asalyaaca kLUca idla naahI tr ha p`Xna
raht naahI.. pNa ho iktpt yaÜgya to palakaMnaI zrvaayaca
(a poxaa malaa vaaTt eKaVa Anaaqa maulaacyaa iXaxaNaacaa Kca- ]calaNa caaMgala... %yaat emotional attachment nasaNaar naa ]pkaracaa baÜjaa. palakaMnaaih kaih caaMgala kaya- kolyaaca samaQaanaÊ AaiNa AXaa p`karo
maula d<ak GaoNyaat svatÁca maula Aaho ikMvaa naahIÊ maulaacyaa saaMgaÜpnaacaI kuvatÊ %yaalaa dota
yaola [tka vaoL Aaho kI naahI ho isaw krNa (for single parent) Asaa p`Xna yaot naahI.
kaihMcao (avar Asa mhNaNa Asaola kI nausato iXaxaNaasazI pOsao do]na maula d<ak Gaotla Asa mhNata
yaoNaar naahIÊ maulaalaa palakaMcao p`omaÊ maayaa mamata hiva Asato.... AsaÜ... malaa ha pyaa-ya jaast
yaÜgya vaaTtÜ....
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Nirakar
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| | Tuesday, July 01, 2003 - 9:08 pm: |
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Manya, tuza shevatacha para mala manya nahi. Mala vatate, mullanna madat havi mhanun lok tyanna dattak ghet nahi tar, APALI MATRUTVACI/PITRUTVACHI tahan bhagwayala dattak ghetat... Hyat mala tari swatahacha vichar jast vatato tya mula/muli peksha.
Infact Dattak ghyayla mulinna ka magani asate he mahiti aahe na?
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Manya
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| | Friday, July 04, 2003 - 12:49 pm: |
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nirakar
tumhI maaJa post inaT vaacala nasaava.. maI dusaáyaa para cyaa sauÉvaaitlaaca ilahlaya kI emotinal attahcment ( jyaalaa tumhI maatR%vaacaI / iptR%vaacaI thana mhNaa ) saazI ha KTaTÜp AsatÜ... pNa tsa jar Asaola tr maga maula d<ak ikMvaa svatÁca AsaNa (at kaih Ôarsaa
Ôrk naahI... jar maula AsaNyaamaagao svatÁcyaa thana / Baavanaa purvaNyaacaa ikMvaa BaivaYyaacaI saÜya krNyaacaa hotU Asaola.. tr to iktpt yaÜgya Aaho.
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Beti
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| | Saturday, July 05, 2003 - 4:15 am: |
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manyaa vaa%salya palak AaiNa baaL dÜGaaMcaIhI garja Aaho. thana Ô> Aa baapalaa nasato baaLalaahI Asato.
tovha baaL AaplyaaGarI AaNaUna %yaacaM saMgaÜpna krNaM ho ]<ama. pNa second best mhNaUna kahI practical ADcaNaI Asalyaasa tuJaa ]paya pTtÜ. kahI na krNyaapoxaa [tko trI kolaolao caaMgalao.
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Manalim
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| | Wednesday, July 09, 2003 - 7:53 pm: |
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hi,
vishay & postings chan ahet. mazya group madhe ithe saglyana pahila mulga ahe ani ata dusari mulgich havi ahe. tevha asha veles dattak ghyayala kay harkat ahe?
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Manalim
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| | Wednesday, July 09, 2003 - 8:00 pm: |
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ithe baryach janani mhantle ahe ki ek aple ani ek dattak asel tar bhedbhav hou shakto. pan barech vela donhi mule sakkhi astil tari barechda aai cha mulga ani babanchi mulgi ladki aste ani tyamule thoda bhedbhav hotoch ki. pan ti donhi sakkhi mula aslyane koni tyacha far issue karat nahi evdhech. tyamule keval dattak ahe ani ase zale tar far issue karnyachi garaj nahi it is natural. donhi mule sarkhich avdane shakya nahi.
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Yogibear
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| | Wednesday, July 09, 2003 - 8:51 pm: |
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Manalim: dattak ghetalelyaa mula barobar bhedbhav hoto tevhaa tyacha issue hoto pan tyaala karaN sudhdhaa tasech aahe. Raktachaa haak haa maanlelyaa hakka pekshaa jashtaa asto naahi kaa!!!
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Storvi
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| | Wednesday, July 09, 2003 - 9:29 pm: |
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Yogi, I don't think so... tasa asta tar anek nati maitri chi bandhana kodmalalun padli asti....
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Yogibear
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| | Wednesday, July 09, 2003 - 11:23 pm: |
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Storvi: maanalaolyaa naa%yaaM maQao AaiNa r>acyaa naa%yaaM maQao jaovha h@,k,a caI BaaYaa yaoto tovha kaya
hÜto ho vaogaLo saaMgayalaa nakܲ
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I am very much in favour of adoption but I am going to put another side on this story.
Manya, what you say is not wrong but I am not completely agree, why? You suggested about accepting responsibility of education, that is very good idea but as someone said, it does not show an "emotional attachment" like as for parents. I DO NOT consider this option as full support which you will give to your child, giving money is not going to make that child's "life", unless he/she has family. But if the child is orphan then along with the money for his/her well being and education, he/she needs emotional support from someone to "shape" up his/her life, still as beti said, something is better than nothing.
When this BB was started, it gave a good food to my brain for a while to think over, so I just searched around and I found few things -
1. An American NGO conducted study in 150 US families which have adopted children, some had their own child and they adopted another just as they could support one more, or say a Noble cause. Now, my point or understanding was, as I mentioned before, child needs someone to shape their life but the study turned out to be very different, they proved that no matter what kind of up bringing the children get, their genetic make up rocks over ther social make up, with a bit of difference. SoI think, you need to take this point into consideration, say the child you are going to adopt is some gangster's child (whihc of course, you don't know), what do you think about his mentality when he/she is grown up? What if your child is caught shop lifting very on and often or even if your child ends up in fights punching in opponents face bleeding his nose almost every week in school, what if your child stats liking more violence and starts putting it in practice and antisocial activities for girls (if girl is in picture), how will you cope up with this, as afterall its "your child" and you didn't teach him/her to do that as it is "not in your blood" (so in my understanding there is where khandaan and khandaan ka khun comes into picture) I tried to think a lot but I could not come to any concrete conclusion (lack of experience 
2. To the best of my knowledge, in India, adoption agencies are not allowed to disclose parentage of child (if they know it) and if you adopt child, some or the other day, you gonna tell him/her that you are not his/her biological parents and then the quest for finding biological parents starts for a child. In Sweden, national telly airs one program in which they find out biological parents of the adopted children. In my understanding, this meeting with biological parents leads to more turbulence in their life rather than peace. From where I see it, it is very much possible that you have raised the child in completely different society and/or culture than where he/she comes from, even he/she speaks completely different language than biological parents. So if his/her quest for biological parents succeedes, how will "you" cope with that situation? If you have adopted child as "support in later age", how will you overcome with probable fear that your child will leave you or his/her attachment for you will reduce. On the other hand, if this does not occur, how will you help the child with going easily with life after the turbulence rushes in his/her life?
I am writing this after a long discussions with one South Korean girl adopted by a Swede couple and one malayli girl adopted by Norwegian couple. Both of them were fortunate enough to find out their biological parents and then appears what I said before. Honestly,its really hard to stand in front of them without tears in your eyes if you listen to the stories, it is not easy world for them.
I guess, it needs a lot of thinking on this point, isn't it?
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Manya
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| | Friday, July 11, 2003 - 5:52 pm: |
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Prasad
with respect to your 1st point....
do you have any reference about the so called "criminal genes"............
>>> As you mention...
their genetic make up rocks over ther social make up, with a bit of difference. SoI think, you need to take this point into consideration, .....................is "not in your blood" (so in my understanding there is where khandaan and khandaan ka khun comes into picture).
The only example I remember is of XYY "super males"... in which case the individual shows more agressive chr and some time may get involve into criminal activities, but there are such examples that these "males" were turned in to good army officers..... and have made good use of their genetic content...
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No Manya, though I am referring what you correctly understood, I gave that just as an example. There may be many other things we can point out. The idea of super males you have pointed out is correct, even I have heard about it but the study I told about (I am not getting that link now) was conducted by some scientific group with the help of some NGO.
I don't know if I answered your point.
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Manya,
More explanation on your query.
To make a note, there is no strong evidence that genetic make up is the "only" one affecting this but nurturing also makes the difference. At the same time, they have found out few genes/deficiencies which are genetically controlled and inherited.
More explanation is available in book/report Genetics of Criminal and Antisocial behaviour by Ciba Foundation. ISBN 0-471-95719-4
So the study conducted can not be completely called as wrong but genetics does play a role.
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Manya
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| | Monday, July 21, 2003 - 3:32 pm: |
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Thanks prasad
.....will check it out
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Nitinb
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Dear Storvi!!
Mala storvi che mhanane ekdam barobar vatale...
Mee ethe nava aahe..pan ha vishay ani etar postings farch chhan aahet..
Nitin
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