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Wakdya
Tuesday, January 07, 2003 - 3:43 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ho Asao ilaihNao ivaica~ AahoÊ pNaÊ samaÜrcao ivarÜiQa laÜk jar Aaplya kahI naaD\yaa AÜLKuna AavaLt Asaitla tr %yaa ]laT %yaa laÜkaMcao saÜ^F,T pÜ^[MT ³iBatIcyaa jaagaa´ AÜLKuna vaoLosa XaÜQauna kaZuna vaa inamaa-Na kÉna %yaaMcyaa naaD\yaa AavaLNyaacaa p`ya%na krNyaasa Aaplao maQyamavaiga-ya paMZrpoXao ijavana AaD yaoto..
idnaoXaÊ malaa Ôar vaašT vaaTlao tumacaI hikkt vaacauna.. pNa QaIr Qara ina dovaavar mhNajaoca Aaplyaa hatuna Jaalaolyaa caaMgalyaa kamaacyaa Ôlaavar ivaXvaasa zovaa yaovhDoca saaMgau XaktÜ. caukunahI sauDacaa ivacaar manaat AaNau nakaÊ karNa %yaanao p`XNa AiQakca icaGaLtat


Mastani
Tuesday, January 07, 2003 - 6:46 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

dinesh he sagaLa pachawaNa kharokhar kaTheeN aahe ! tumche manodhiarya kaayam asech rahude..aNi tumhala shubhechchhaa !

Rangya
Monday, February 24, 2003 - 8:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Dinesh,

This is my frank opinion ... Whatever happended to you was really bad ..But there is someting you got to understand... You have to make system work your way ...If don't know how to play games ..find out some of your good friend who knows and work it out ...I bet this issue will go down in toilet in six months ...Please do not mis-understand my opinion ... It's a fact ... If salmaan,sanjay and all these dumb heads can get away ..sure you can ...All you need is right person to handle it ... Here is question for you ... How did your wife manage to keep you in lock-up ??? ... Sorry but She understand the system better than you ...



Banyabapu
Monday, February 24, 2003 - 9:13 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

How did your wife manage to keep you in lock-up ??? >> Laws are heavily in womens favour (justified) so even a small report (may be false) against husband/in-laws puts them behind bar without questioning. True you have to act smartly to avoid this. My friend had a similar problem, his wife one evening suddenly went away to her parents house without informing or saying anything. My friend judged what has happened and simply put this as an report in local police station stating that she has gone away and kept on updating it with what happened next, that way he smarted out any possible move by the girl to lock him up. They are now divorced and he said he tried to patch but the laws are so tricky that if his wife acts same again he might be in trouble, because in India once you forgive her and bring her back, next time if she goes away and registers a complaint you might end up in lock up as her previous act will not be taken into consideration at all as you have "forgiven" her and this is "new" case!!, and he was awry of this as he had seen ample cases of her eratic behaviour in past.

As Dinesh has said above he was out of country when this was unfolding and so was caught unware, I guess. I feel extremely sorry for him and ... don't know what to add.

Wachak
Tuesday, February 25, 2003 - 11:02 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

banyabapu,

what rangya says is correct. The police and judiciary is so corrupt that the provisions of law and truth etc. really does not matter.

Dinesh, what is your current status ? Are all the cases against you closed ? Are you still trying to get the custody ? please hire a good lawyer who has experience of managing such type of work and he would take up the job on turnkey basis. You will be required to spend some money though. and yes, the lawyer should be chosen carefully.

Since i am in the same field, I know some good lawyers in Nasik / Poona who can handle this stuff. I you want, I can find out somebody from Bombay.





Nrn
Tuesday, April 22, 2003 - 4:59 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

hi dinesh,
firstly i have to appreciate the courage that u have.i know it may sound a bit callous but reading this story made me remember once again ki dista tasa sagla nasta.suddenly the problems i thought to be so big in my life r appearing negligible.i hope that u continue to retain ur self confidence which is the basic thing needed for survival in tough times.
secondly i know what i ask may seem repeatative but i have to ask.will it not be possible for u to continue to meet ur child.i know ki te bacchu la survatila thoda confusing hoil ,maybe even upset him.but in long run i think it will be beneficial for all.this i think because ur meeting him will help to develop ur relationship with the child.moreever it can also be the stabilising factor.karan children r actually more perspective then we think.he obviously is aware of all that is going on around him.and unfortunately it is going to leave some mark on him.if u continue to keep on meeting him ,this will assure him abt ur love for him and simultaneosly he may also start thinking of u as the stablity which he needs.with so many people going in and out of his life due to his mothers behaviour he maybe in need of a stable factor which keeps on assuring him that there is someone who loves him irrespective of what happens in his life. mala asa vatataki today if u stay away from him won't he ask u tommorrow y u gave up fighting for him when he needed u so badly?i know this is going to be like chota tondi motha ghaas.but if it is permissible for u to be in touch with the bacchu ,i feel u should be.it will do 1000 times more good then bad because u r the only stable loving person he will have in these turbulent times he is facing.
may god be with u.

Wachak
Wednesday, July 23, 2003 - 9:37 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Dinesh:

tumche lagn tharale maayboliwarchyaa eka mulishii ase eka mitrakadun samajale. Abhinandan !! Ithech tumhi tumchi vyatha pahilyanda mandali aani ithech tumhala tumchya prashnanchi uttare pan milali he baghun bare watle.
tumchi legal battle sampli ka?
Tumchyaa mulacha taabaa tumhala milala ka?
ithe aapli pudhchi anandi kahanii lihun ya bb cha samarop kara.



Mona
Wednesday, July 30, 2003 - 2:19 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Dinesh, my hearftfealt sympathies.... and now, congratulations too~
vaacak cao varcao posting jar genuine Asaola tr I am really happy for you. I too will be interetsed in knowing the "happy ending" to your sad begining at Maayboli :-)
jamalao tr detail maQao ilaha .

Bhaitad
Wednesday, July 30, 2003 - 2:27 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Mi Dinesh che sagale posting vachale, mala vatate hyat 'Tya' mulichi baju konich mandali nahi kinva vicharat ghetali nahi. Keval Dinesh ni sangitale mhanun tumhi ase mat ka banavata aaha ki 'Ti' mulilach kahi problem asel?

Champak
Saturday, February 28, 2004 - 5:57 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Some Questions or doubts:-
Dinesh is CA as he told.
He says he want to write some stories about his Medical Proession . How if he is CA ?

He was CA at the age of 22 :- As i know, CA is 7 years after 12TH so atleast 26 .

His wife can manage the police and he not? His brother in law is a Brother of former minister. This is unbelivable, former minister cant HANDLE police. Even i can do so!!

I have doubt about the reality of this story. May be this is one of the STORY written by Dinesh. Then hatts off to him as he got the best respons from Audiance .

Also second Happy part is also not posted here, enhances the possibility of Fake Story by Dinesh.

Good luck for his career as a Author of suspense stories.

Bhaitad
Monday, March 01, 2004 - 6:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I agree with you. I have same doubts.

Asami
Monday, March 01, 2004 - 8:44 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

As i know, CA is 7 years after 12TH so atleast 26 >> I do not want to comment upon validaty of the story though it is possible to be a CA at the age of 22. I know at least 2 such examples.. In fact one of them had completed CA at the age of 21.

He says he want to write some stories about his Medical Proession>> I think the word "his" is omnipresent in original post :-)

Savyasachi
Tuesday, March 02, 2004 - 10:10 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

CA 12 + 7 ahe koni sangitla? vattel te bolu naka !
te kay engg ahe kay? 12+4 official + min 3 for KTs? :-)
maze tar 3 4 mitra ahet jyanni SY TY la asatana articalship purna keli, 20 vya varshi bcom zale ani 21 22 vya varshi CA, pahilya fatkyat pratyek pariksha pass houn.
(vicharach karavat nahi ki mi itka hushar asto tar 21 vya varshich engg zalo asto..:-) )

Wakdya
Tuesday, March 02, 2004 - 11:07 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

about his Medical Proession >>>>>>

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caMpkÊ vairla ilaMkvarIla pÜsTcyaa AKorIsa Asalaolao maUL vaa@ya jara punha baGa ro² AXaa gaÜYTI kovaL gaÜYTIsaar#yaa AaXayaÉpanao na vaacata tpiXalaat vaacaavyaa laagatat² qaMD DÜ@yaanaoÊ puva-ga`h na zovata²
saamaanya maaNausa svatÁcyaa AayauYyaaBaÜvatI GaDNaaáyaa GaTnaaMcyaa ivaXvaatunaca varIla gaÜYTIMcao pirxaNa krtÜ ina %yaamauLo ik%yaokvaoLosa vaašD AMgalanao yaa baabaI baiGatlyaa jaat naahIt ina maga nasa%yaa XaMka kuXaMka yaot rhatat²
ivamaanatLavarcyaa ATkocaI baatmaI
vat-maanap~at vaacalyaacao malaa pusaTsao smarto Aaho²
AXaa vya>I Asau Xaktat ho hI malaa maanya Aaho
kayaVacao 498 A klama vaaprNyaacaI QamakI ikMvaa to klamaca Xas~asaarKo DÜ@yaat saazvauna zovauna saasarcyaa maMDiLMXaI vaagaNaaáyaa navaivavaaiht is~yaa Aahot²
idnaoXanao saaMigatlaolaI gaÜYT kovaL ek kqaa Aaho Asao xaNaBar jarI gaRhIt Qarlao trI %yaa kqaotIla vya>IMpoxaa AiQak Ëur vya>I Aahot² pirNaamasvaÉp ]Qvast JaalaolaI vaa hÜvau GaatlaolaI kÝiTMibak ijavanao Aahot²
malaa f> ek XaMka Aaho kI idnaoXa yaaMcaa [qao kahIca iÔDba^k ka Aalaolaa naahIyaoÆ


Dineshvs
Wednesday, March 10, 2004 - 3:52 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

pihlyaap`qama maI yaa baIbaI var yao} XaklaÜ naahI yaaba_la idlagaIr. ha ivaYaya jaunaa Jaalaa hÜta AaiNa baroca idvasa šqao XaaMtta hÜtI mhNaunahI Asaola kdaicat. tr Aata prt sau$ hÜ} Va.

kosa AjaunahI caalau AahoÊ pNa maaJyaasaazI ho ÉTIna Jaalaoya. Aaplyaa pÜilasa Ka%yaatlaa AaiNa %yaahuna jaast nyaayavyavasqaotlaa Ba`YTacaar AgadI ikLsavaaNyaa patLIvar pÜhÜcalaa Aaho. yaaba_la malaa saMQaI imaLola tsao ilaihNaar AahocaÊ pNa to kayaVacyaa caÝkTIt rahuna ilahavao laagaola. Aqaa-t kuNaalaa KajagaIir%yaa ilahavaosao vaaTlao tr Aqaa-tca svaagat Aaho.

maI ho ilaihlyaapasauna malaa št@yaa maaybaÜilakraMcao p`oma imaLalao AahoÊ kI %yaacyaa ]llaoK krNao doKIla %yaaMcyaa p`omaacaa Apmaana hܚla. maI KrÜKrca BaÉna pavalaÜ Aaho. %yaamauLo Aata yaa jaKmaa ³maayabaÜilakraMcyaa p`omaL ÔuMkrInao´ Barlyaa Aahot.

mauLat maI ho ilaihlaolao Aaho to XaMBar T@ko sa%ya pNa sa%ya %yaahunahI ivadark Aaho. var ilaihlyaap`maaNao saMQaI imaLtaca tumacyaasamaÜr maaMDonaca.

maaJaa janma 1963 saalacaa. %yaavaolaI Dbala p`ÜmaÜXana imaLt Asao. %yaamauLo malaa qaoT pihlaIcyaa pirxaolaa basauna dusarIt Gaatlao hÜto. %yaamauLo 14 vyaa vaYaI- dhavaI puNa- Jaalao. %yaanaMtr 5 vaYaa-naI pdvaIQar JaalaÜ.

%yaavaoLosaca p`vaoXa pirxaa do}naÊ C.A. caI AaiT-klaiXap sauÉ krta yaot AsaoÊ pNa vayaacaI 18 vaYao- puNa- na JaalyaanaÊ malaa jara qaaMbaavao laagalao. maga B.Com. cao XaovaTcao vaYa- AaiNa AaiT-klaiXap ekdmaca kolao. tIna vaYaa-cyaa Aat šMTr puNa- kolao. maga TaTa kMpnaIt puNa- vaoL naÜkrI kÉna 1985 maQao C.A. puNa- kolao. %yaavaoLI Aqaa-tca maI Ô> baavaIsa vaYaa-Mcaa hÜtÜ.

malaa yaa xao~acaI ibalakula AavaD naahI. kovaL ija_ mhNauna maI ho puNa- kolao. ka^laojacyaa pihlyaa idvaXaI Aamhalaa Aamacyaa p`aQyaaipkonao ivacaarlao hÜto ka^masa- ka GaotlaotÊ toMvha savaa-naI C.A. vhayacao Aaho Asao saaMigatlao. %yaavar %yaa Cd\maIpNao hsauna mhNaalyaa hÜ%yaaÊ Aata mhNataya Kro pNa tumha XaMBar jaNaatlaa eKad dusaraca hÜvaU Xakola. %yaavaoLI maI manaat mhNaalaÜ hÜtÜÊ jar tÜ eKadca Asaola tr tÜ maIca Asaona. C.A. AvaGaD Aaho ho Kro pNa AXa@ya na@kIca naahI.

%yaanaMtrih C.S. saMgaNaikya pdivaka vaOgaro caalauca Asato. iXaxaNaalaa Ô> saurvaat AsatoÊ XaovaT nasatÜÊ hoca Kro naahI ka.

maaJao sava- laoKna šqaoca Aaho. maaJyaatlaa laoKk jaagavaayalaaÊ Da^. XaridnaI DhaNaukr AaiNa Aqaa-t tumhI sagaLo jabaabadar Aahat. toMvha yaa p`omaacyaa AÜJyaatca malaa rhayalaa AavaDola. kayamacao.


Ek_mulagi
Wednesday, March 10, 2004 - 5:34 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

idnaoXa Aaja ha BB paihlaa AaiNa sauÙa Jaalao.štko idvasa tumacyaa recipes Ê kqaa vaacauna hÜto. kaya ilahuÊ keep up the fight, Good luck.

Keshar
Wednesday, March 10, 2004 - 11:51 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

dinesh! tumhi shradhawan asal tar jya kashavar shradha asel tyavar shradha thevha marg nakkich nighel
jya visahyachi avad nahi tyat tumhi JIDDINE YASH MILWALE he kharch kautakspad aahe!


Dineshvs
Friday, March 12, 2004 - 2:03 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

šqao nrm nao maulaacyaa BaoiTivaYayaI ilaihlao Aaho. kuzlaa ipta maulaalaa BaoTlyaaiXavaaya rahu Xakola Æ pNa štr kuzlaaca maaga- ³mhNajao kÜNaI maQyasqa vaOgaro´ nasalyaanao malaa kÜTa-t Aja- krNyaaiXavaaya ga%yaMtr navhto.
saup`Ima kÜTa-nao idlaolyaa inaNa-yaanausaarÊ maulaalaa BaoTNyaacaa h@k ha maulaBaut h@k AahoÊ AaiNa tÜ kÜNaIhI kuNaalaaih naakaÉ Xakt naahI.

Aata Asaa inaNa-ya Asaola tr kÜNaalaahI vaaTola ik %yaat kaya maÜzosaoÊ kra kI Aja-. pNa laÜkhÜ AapNa jagaatlyaa savaa-t maÜz\yaa laÜkXaaih doXaacao naagairk AahÜt. %yaamauLo kuzlyaahI Ajaa-var dÜnhI baajaucao mhNaNao eokunaca sanmaananaIya nyaayaaiQaXa inaNa-ya do} Xaktat.
Aata %yaasaazI vaogaLI p`Üisajar AalaI.
dÜnhI baajauMcao laoKI inavaodna AalaoÊ %yaavar Aaxaop AalaoÊ maga saunaavaNaIÊ ]laTtpasaaNaIÊ %yaanaMtr vaiklaaMcao vaadivavaadÊ %yaanaMtr kÜTa-caa inaNa-ya.

yaa p`%yaokalaa ikmaana dÜna to tIna tarKaÊ
%yaa tarKaMdrmyaana ikmaana dÜna maihnyaaMcao AMtr.
yaat maaNasaacaI AayauYya saMpuna jaato.

XaovaTI kayaÊ tr sa%yamaova jayato. !!!
Ait Jaalao ina hsau AalaoÊ yaa patLIvar pÜcalaÜya maI.


Giriraj
Friday, March 12, 2004 - 6:54 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

idnaoXaÊmaI kaya baÜlaavaoÆ
yaa sagaL\yaa p`krat tumhI jao maanaisak saMtulana zovalao AahoÊto KrÜKrca kÝtukaspd Aaho|nyaqaa pirxaa AvaGaD gaolaI mhNaUnahI htaXa hÜNaaro AamhI²

jaolamaQalyaa AnauBavaaba_la maI nai@kca saMgaU XaktÜ kI ho sagaLo Asaoca Asato.tumaI jao ilaihlaya to [tkM detail ektr svaanauBavaanao ilahU XaktÜ ikMvaa jyaanao to jaIvana pihlaolao Asato tÜca.maI lahanpNaapasaUna jaolacyaa vaatavarNaatca vaaZlaÜ Aaho.trIhI kahI details Aamacya vaiDlaaMnaI AamcyaapáyaMt pÜcaU idlao navhto Asao vaaTto.Aamhalaa kayamaca kOVaMpasaUna laaMbaca zovaNyaacaa %yaaMcaa kla Asao.

%yaamaULo baabaa caMpkÊkuNaaivaYayaI kahI saMXaya vya> krtaMnaa AaplaM &ana %yaa ivaYayaabaabat iktI Aaho ho ekda tpasaUna baGaavao Êha ek p`omaL sallaa²

AaiNa idnaoXaÊmalaa vaaTto kI sagaLa kcara ek idvasa jaLUna jaašla AaiNa saÜnaoca tovhZo iXallak raihla AaiNa tohI AiQak JaLaLInao²

maaJyaa Anaok XauBaocCaÊ%yaa JaLaLIsaazI²


Sayonara
Saturday, March 13, 2004 - 7:50 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

idnaoXaÊ maaJyaahI XauBaocCa (atUna sauKÉp baahor pDala (akrta. AaiNa tumacao navaIna vaOvaaihk AayauYya sauKacao AaiNa samaRiwcao jaavao (akrta.

Dineshvs
Monday, March 15, 2004 - 1:01 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maI Ô> yaa p`krNaacaa inakala kQaI laagatÜya yaacaI vaaT baGatÜyaÊ yaatuna Anaok gaÜYTI baahor yaoNaar AahotÊ AaiNa malaaih maÜkLopNaI ilaihta yaošla.

XaMka GaoNyaalaa kaihca hrkt naahI. mauLat sagaLoca XaMkaspd Aaho yaa p`krNaat.

pNa Ô> šqao iktI maaMDayacao yaalaa mayaa-da AahotÊ mhNauna XaMka jar malaa KajagaIir%yaa ivacaarlyaa tr malaa maÜkLopNaI ]<ar ilaihta yaošla. naahI ka Æ


Shravan
Friday, March 26, 2004 - 9:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Dinesh, khalil post tumhala awadali tar mala tumhala madat karayala avadel.
Mazya bajuchya eka Mulachi divorce chi case mi javalun baghitali aahe. Tyachi bayako lagnanantar eka mahinyat tya mulala sodun geli. Arthat tyat tya mulacha sagala dosh hota. Tya mulache tyachya vahini barobarache sambadh tyala karan hote. but in this case badluckily result was aginst that Girl. Ya case madhye mulachya lokaNni khoti letters tya mulibaddal banvun vagaire tasech kaahi high court che results magavun (Mubai court and Aurangabad court) result tyanchya manasarakha lavun ghetala. Yya lokaNni System madhale kachche duve herun system vakavun dakhavali. Irespective of MuliNchya bajuche kayade vagaire. Tya case chi ek special case mhanun court daptari Nond zali aahe. To program motha zala (Special case mhanun nondavinyacha - mothe Judge vagaire upasthit hote). Though I hate all these things from my bottom of heart for that poor girl but this result or the clues(High court results) which were refered in this case can help you. I don't know on which step your case is. But if you feel necessary I can help you with keen details of this case.
Good luck for your future life.


Bittu
Friday, March 26, 2004 - 10:20 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message


idnaoXa Aajaca vaacalaI tumacaI vyaqaa. tumacao laoKna vacauna tumhI caaMgalaoca pircayaacao AahatÊ pna Aaja tumacaI AaNaKI ek baajau phayalaa imaLlaI. tumhalaa tumacyaa maulaacaa tabaa lavakr imaLÜÊ maaJyaa XauBaocCa tumacyaa barÜbar Aahot


Wachak
Wednesday, March 31, 2004 - 6:53 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

champak aani bhaitad he akach wyaktiche ID aahet

Dineshvs
Tuesday, April 06, 2004 - 10:07 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Asaonaa ka Æ malaa kuzlaahI AaDpDda zovaayacaa naahIÊ jyaanaa zovaayacaa Aaho %yaanaa zovau Va kI.

Shailesh_vasant
Sunday, May 02, 2004 - 5:44 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

read the article about help line for victimised husbands from IPC48a

Shailesh_vasant
Sunday, May 02, 2004 - 5:57 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

sangyabalya.org is motion against 498a. you may contact on
victimsof498a@rediffmail.com

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