Bee
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malaa [qao jao Apoixat Aaho to AaQaI ilaihtÜ.
jaoMvha eKado maula AMgacao huXaar nasato ikMvaa huXaar AsaUna AaLXaIpNaa ikMvaa dula-xa krNyaacaI vaR<aI
mhNaa.. (a karNaaMmauLo AByaasaat kmaI pDto.. pirxaot caaMgalao gauNa pDt naahIt. toMvha palakaMnaI kuzlyaa
gaÜYTI Amalaat AaNaNyaacaa p`ya%na kravaa jaoNaok$na maulaaMcaI p`gatI hÜlaÊ to puZo jaatIla.
jaI maulao ]pjat huXaar AsatatÊ jyaaMnaa AByaasaacaI gaÜDI AsatoÊ XaaLotIla iXaxak maulaaMkDo barÜbar
laxa purvatat AaiNa AavaDIla Aaplyaa maulaaMcyaa AByaasaakDo jaatInao laxa dotatÊ AXyaa maulaaMcaI AByaasaat
p`gatI hÜNao kzINa naahI.
pNa ...
jaoMvha iXaxakÊ XaaLaÊ saMgatgauNa (aMcaa ABaavaÊ GarI AavaDIla svatÁca jaomatoma iXaklaolao mhNaUna
to kaya maulaaMcaa AByaasa GaoNaarÊ AaiNa maulao svatÁ Ô> hÜlaahÜ krNaarI AsatatÊ toMvha maa~ maulaaMcyaa
BaivaYyaacaa p`Xna ]Baa rahtÜ.
hllaI maaJyaabaabatIt Asaoca hÜt Aaho. maaJyaa Baavaacyaa maulaIkrIta maI Kup kLkLInao p`ya%na kolao.
kala inakala laagalaa AaiNa saaz T@@yaavar tI pasa JaalaI ho eokuNa kaLjaI vaaTayalaa laagalaI kI puZo
ksao hÜla. saQyaa tI AazvaIt Aaho. dUr rahUna Ô> fÜnavar Ôar kaya tr maaga-dXa-na krta yaotoÊ p`omaanaI
sallaa dotÜ yaotÜ. pNa p`%yaxaat maa~ maI kahIca k$ Xakt naahI. drvaoLosacyaa BaoTIt itlaa AByaasa ksaa
krayacaa ho saaMgaNaoÊ XaaLot jaa}na iXaxakaMXaI BaoTNao hoca Ô> maI Aajavar kolao. (avyaitir> AjaUnahI
kahI krta Aalao Asato pNa %yaasaazI maI itqao Asaayalaa paihjao mhNajao maaJao career baajaUlaa saarlao jaala. Aaivanaa pÜr vaaZto Aaho (acaI malaa satt KMtÊ kaLjaI vaaTt Asato. %yaacaoca
tr ho pirNaama naahI naa AsaohI vaaTto.
toMvha Aaplao maula svaavalaMbaI hÜ} Xakola. (asaazI kahI ]paya kuNaI kÉna paihlao Aahot kaÆ maaJyaasaar#yaaMnaa
%yaacaa Ôayada hÜla. Qanyavaad²
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Wakdya
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| | Tuesday, May 04, 2004 - 3:14 am: |
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Bee maula jar huYaar AsaolaÊ Kroca janmajaat Aa@klahuYaarI Asaola ina trIhI Xaalaoya pirxaot gauNa kmaI imaLt
AsatIla tr na@kI samajaavao kI maulaacaI huYaarI ivacaarXa>I AByaasa saÜDuna Anya ivaYayaat gauMtuna
pDlaI Aaho. %yaatuna %yaaMnaa A%yaMt hLuvaarpNao baahor kaZavao laagato. AByaasaacaI sa>I vaa Anya
tulanaa kÉna daKvauna ]laTpxaI maulaacyaa manaat Xaalaoya ina ekuNaca AByaasa va pirxaapwtIsaMdBaa-t WoYa
itTkara inamaa-Na hÜvau XaktÜ jyaatuna baahor pDNao %yaasa jaovha Xa@ya hÜto tovha AayauYyaacaI barIca
vaYao- ]laTuna gaolyaamauLo vaoL barIcaXaI inaGauna gaolaolaI Asato² maula ina %yaacyaa BaÜvatIcaI pirisqatI
yaa nausaar maulaasa Xaalaoya AByaasa krNao ksao AavaXyak Aaho to vaogavaogaL\yaa maagaa-M[ hLuvaar pNao
pTvauna dota yaoto. maa~ yaa p`ya%naat yaXa imaLNao sava-svaI dOvaacyaaca hatI Asato²
jaÜ p`Ena tumhalaa AahoÊ tÜca malaa doiKla Aaho. maulao huYaar naahIt Asao mhNavao vaa tI ekMdrItca Z
Aahot Asao mhNata yaot naahI. tI huYaar tr AahotÊ %yaaMcaI Aaklana Xa>I Xaabaut Aaho Ô> p`Ena Aaho
kI %yaaMnaI %yaa Xa>Icaa vaaprÊ AgadI pnnaasa T@ko jarI kolaa trI tI sa<ar eoMXaI T@@yaacyaa var
maak- imaLvau XaktIla AXaI isqatI Aaho² AsaÜ.
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Bee
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| | Tuesday, May 04, 2004 - 3:27 am: |
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AgadI barÜbar vaakD\yaa. tumhI jao mhNaalaat to pTla.. malaahI to jaaNavala. kI maulao huXaar AahotÊ Aaklana
Xa>I caaMgalaI Aahot. pNa ka kuNaasa zavaUk AByaasa krNyaacaI garja ikithI pTvaUna saaMigatlaI trI
%yaaMcyaa Qyaanaat yaot naahI. ek dÜna tasa AByaasa kolaa.. kI Jaalao. (atUna vaaT kXaI kaZavaI toca malaa
]magat naahI. tohI [t@yaa dUr rahUna tr AiQakca kzINa.
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Wakdya
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| | Tuesday, May 04, 2004 - 4:02 am: |
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yaa vyaitir>Ê XaaLotIla vaatavarNaÊ sahaQyaaMcaI va iXaxakaMcaI vaagaNaukÊ Anya vaoLap~katIla ADcaNaI
ina QaavapL yaa baabaI doiKla maulaacaa XaaLocyaa AByaasaatuna dula-xa hÜNyaasa vaa krNyaasa karNaIBaut
hÜ} Xaktat. %yaacaI tpiXalaat cacaa- kolyaasa tÜ ivaYaya baracasaa maulaaMcyaa maanaisak jaDNaGaDNaIkDo
vaLtÜ.
trIhI AgadI maÜja@yaa Xabdat mau_a maaMDayacaa Jaalaa tr maula mauLat dÜna karNaaMnaI AByaasaakDo dula-xa
krtoÊ ek mhNajao to huYaarca nasato mhNauna dusaro mhNajao to huYaar Asato pNa...
maula huYaar Aaho pNa dula-xa krto yaa krta punha dÜna karNao saMBavatat
ek mhNajao AByaasaacao AakYa-Na inamaa-Na hÜt naahI dusaro naomako ]laT kI AByaasaaba_la ina XaaLoba_la
Anaok karNaaMmauLo itTkara itrskar iBatI inamaa-Na hÜto.
yaatIla pihlaa mau_a AByaasaaba_la AakYa-Na jaovha nasato tovha inaiXcat samajaavao kI Anya baabaI maulaasa
jaast Baulavat Aahot.
dusaáyaa mau_\yaacaa ivacaar pÜsTcyaa saurvaatIsaca qaÜD@yaat kolaa Aaho.
yaaitla naomako karna kÜNato Aaho ho pirisqatI saapoxa vya>I vya>I maQyao tpiXalaat vaogavaogaLo
Asau Xakto maa~ mauL sau~ samaana Asato.
yaavarIla ]paya krNaoÊ KrÜKrca majasaar#yaa saamaanya vakubaacyaa maaNasaasa kzINa jaatat. pNa qaoMbao
qaoMbao tLo saacao ho jasao Kro tsaoca Aaplyaa p`ya%naat ksaur krayacaI naahI.
p`%yaok maulaacyaa AajaubaajaucaI pirisqatI ivaiBanna Asalyaanao zÜkL ]paya saba GaÜDo baara T@ko yaa
nyaayaanao saaMgata yaoNaar naahIt trIhIÊ AnauBavaI palakaMnaI kahI AnauBavaacao baÜla eokvalyaasa baro
hÜla
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Wakdya
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| | Tuesday, May 04, 2004 - 4:10 am: |
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Bee maaNausa kÜNatIhI gaÜYT ivanaakarNa krt naahIÊ vyaavaharIk BaaYaot baÜlaayacao Jaalao tr garja pDto mhNauna
maaNausa hatpaya hlavatÜÊ Aqaa-t AByaasa ho xao~ doiKla yaa inayamaasa Apvaad naahI. Apvaad AsaitlahI
pNa maga to kuMBa raXaIcao XanaI ina gauÉ p`Qaana vya>I AsatIla kI jyaa garja nasatanaahI inarinaraL\yaa
ivaYayaaMcaa AByaasa krtatÊ pNa trIhI bayaa-cada %yaavaoLosa tsaa AByaasa krt rhaNyaacaI maanasaIk inakD
hI %yaaMcaI garja hÜvauna basalaolaI AsatoÊ AsaÜ. tr mau_a Asaa kI AByaasa krNao garjaocao Aaho ho maulaaMnaa
pTvauna ksao VayacaoÆ malaa ek Ka~I Aaho kI ekda garja inaiXcatpNao jaaNavalaI kI maulao doiKla QaDpDuna
kamaalaa laagatatÊ tr AByaasaalaa laagaNaar naahIt ho ksao Xa@ya AahoÆ
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Keshar
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| | Tuesday, May 04, 2004 - 10:36 pm: |
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baI p`Xna KrÜKrca gaimBar Aaho...karna ih ek T/aMgaiD samasyaa Aasato...kLtya pna valat naaih AXaI pna
pirisqait Asato...kaihvaolaa maulaaMA AByaasaca ma*tva ÊvaOgaoro sava- samajat Asat pNa trIhI kuzlyaatir
[tr p`laÜBanao ikMvaa
]gaaca Asalaoila Anaaimak iBaitÊ nunagand, %yaaMnaa AByaasaapsauna dur naot Aasato
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Ajjuka
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 2:54 am: |
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huXaarIcao maÜjamaap XaaLot imaLalaolyaa gauNaaMvar krNao ho barÜbar naahI. kovaL marks imaLvaNyaasaazIca QaDpD AsaU nayao. Xaalaoya AByaasa ha pUNa-pNao pazaMtravar AaQaarIt AsatÜ. AaiNa pazaMtr
mhNajao huXaarI naahI. jaastI icaMta krayacaI garja naahI. maulaacyaa savaa-MgaINa vaaZIkDo laxa Vayacaa
p`ya%na krNao jaast mah%vaacao. prIxaotlyaa gauNaaMcao AvaDMbar kolyaanao maulao f> prIxaaqaI- hÜtat.
maaJao naaTkasaar#yaa ivaYayaacao master's cao students malaa ho prIxaolaa AsaNaar Aaho kaÆ syllabus maQao Aaho kaÆ Asalao p`Xna ivacaartat tovha Aaplyaa XaOxaiNak payaaivaYayaI kNava AaiNa education system ivaYayaI caID AalyaaiXavaaya rhat naahI.
XaaLoya marks na imaLvaNaaáyaa maulaacaa typical paz\yapustkI AByaasaapoxaa vaogaLa interest AsaU XaktÜ. which is not bad either!
maulao jaastIt jaast gauNa ksao imaLvatIla prIxaot yaacaI icaMta krNyaapoxaa maUla p`%yaok gaÜYTIba_la
ivacaar krola AaiNa caUk barÜbar AaplaoAapNa zrvaola yaasaazI p`ya%na krNao garjaocao Aaho.
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Bee
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 3:13 am: |
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Ajjau@kaÊ kahItrI QaIr doNaaro vaacaayalaa imaLalao. Thanks for this posting!
tU mhNato Aahosa tXaI Kup maulao AaplyaakDo phayalaa imaLtatÊ jyaaMcao laxa ho AByaasaavyatIir> [tr
gaÜYTIMkDo AiQak vaLlaolao Asato. pNa AByaasa na kÉna puZo Asao krNyaasaarKo kaya Aaho hahI ek maÜza p`Xna
Aaho. AaplaI AavaDÊ CMd ha vaogaLa Baaga AaiNa education for better career ha vaogaLa Baaga Aaho.
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ajjuka, your thoughts do not seem practical. In real life, it is more important to earn the bread than to gain knowledge. I will give you my personal example. I was very much interested in physics and wanted to study astrophysics as my career. My father told me "It is also important to earn your living. You will have enough opportunity in your life to study astrophysics as a hobby."
I have never regretted that I studied engineering and not astrophysics.
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Ajjuka
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 2:03 pm: |
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UB,
Well thats the matter of choice. And not that every choice you made has to be correct and practical.
I can give you my example...
I grew up listening to 'abhyaas kar ga. itaka changle doke diley devane..' I was never interested in the memory games at SSC and HSC. It took me a while to figure out what I want to do with my life (there are not many people who can guide you for something that is a bit out of the box...) everybody tried to tell me the similar things that your father told you. Thankfully my parents were not so typical and 'Choukatitale' about my career so they let me persue dreams. AND I DO NOT REGRET THAT EITHER. Many S/W professionals and IT people tell me that they wish they had followed their dreams.
I am happy with what I am doing so I can work better. I am happy so people around me are. No discontent and that kind of negative things are around me. In short I am living a very nice life. Earning is not a problem either. Financial security is not everything in life. I am the only one in my field with my qualifications. At the of 27 I started teaching at Pune University as a visiting faculty and my students are Master's student. mala maze dhol vajavayache nahiyet pan mi typical option nivadala asata tar jagatalya kotyavadhi engineers paiki ek banale asate.
So my thoughts are based on my own experiences and you can not call them impractical since practical is a relative term.
Bee,
aavad kinwa chhand yaatunahi career hou shakate. ho ani pot hi bharu shakate. arthaat te career engineer kinwa IT peksha less glamourous asu shakate. Pan career mhanaje IT, Business Administration, Medical evadhech nahi. Tumhi ji goshta changli karu shakata ani tumhala je karayachi aavad aahe te karana ani tyaamadhe jastit 'Better' banat jana, var pochayacha prayatn karana he mahatvache aahe.
ajun ek ase aahe ki shalet shikavale janare vishay he itake kantalavane asatat ki ekhada sensitive soul tya pathantaracha atirek sahan nahi karu shakat.
ek gammat sangate.. shalet asatana Maths ani Languages maze aavadate subjects hote. Itihaas, Bhoogol shatru. Pan Itihaasamadhe kaay maja asate he mala tevha koni sangitlech nahi. sanavalya paath karane mhanajech itihaas. kali kasadaar jamin ani pike yanche pathantar mhanaje bhugol.bas itakech mahit hote mala. Itihaas itaka interesting hou shakato he History of Theatre shikalyavar kalale mala. ata history ani biographies are my favorite things. aamhi doghe lavakarach Indology cha 1 varshacha course hi join karatoy TMV la punyat. kahi varshaat mazya dokyat doctorate karayache aahe tehi Indo-Europian history shi related...aso.. tevha let everybody explore with her what she wants to do. Go with the flow. marks milavane he sagale nahiye.
try your brother to keep talking to her about everything. Keep an open environment at home. Tichya manatalya pratyek prashanchi ukal karayacha prayatn karayala sang. mulicha jatila, lahan tondi motha ghaas, ghodi zali ani bolanyachi reet nahi etc etc gosthi talayala sang. mag bagh ti apanahun aapali jababdari olakhun vagayala lagel ani tila have tya goshtiche career karu shakel ani yashasvi hoil..
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Swati2
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 2:05 pm: |
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well said ajjuka. baI baáyaacada Aa vaDIlaÊ iXaxak prIxaotIla maaka-Mnaa mah%va dotanaa maulaaMnaa kXaacaI AavaD Aaho yaacaa
ivacaarca krt naahIt. tuj,yaa putNaIlaa kaya AavaDto. puZo kaya krayalaa AavaDola to ivacaar. to saaQya
krNyaasaazI kaya kravao laagaola %yaacaI klpnaa do. kuzlyaahI xao~at yaXasvaI hÜNyaasaazI kYTalaa pyaa-ya
naahI ho pTva.
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Anjali28
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 2:38 pm: |
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Ajjukaa,
gr8 posting .. I agree with what you are saying.. personally I have suffered from this rat-race and 'career options'. To me, money is imp but more than that, your happiness, and your development as a person and your knowledge are more imp. As you say, you can earn thr' your hobby and if you are creative enough you can make your profession glamorous and people will follow you. One good example of this is Sanjeev Kapoor.
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Yogibear
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 2:41 pm: |
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Anjali28: Aren't you forgetting something!!! If only all can become "Sanjeev Kapoor"...!!!
No one likes this so called 'rat-race' and 'career options' and not everybody has luxury of choosing them either...
Well, I guess the topic is diverting....
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Anjali28
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 2:54 pm: |
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Yogi that's why I am saying "If you are creative enough" .. What you are saying is may be true.. but I don't know how many people suffers because of this the way I have suffered.. I was talking about my own experience. maajhaa yaa sagalyaa prakaaraa mule khup nukasaan jhaala.. aani mala vaatata, yaa anubhavaamule Bee laa tyaachyaa putanila samajaavun saangane sope jail. to jo paryant mhanat naahee kee yaa discussion cha mala upyog hot naahee to paryant ..
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User
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 4:05 pm: |
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i think bharatachya purushapradhan sanskrutit, mulanni (purushanni) dreams follow karane wagaire jast avaghad ahe mulinpeksha. karan ajunahi purushache mojamaap artharjanachya takatiwar hote. ulatpakshi muli sahajpane fine arts, homescience, drama etc. chakoribaherachya avadi career mhanun jast mokalepanane nivadu shakataat karan their career is not necessarily expected to lead to great earnings. so although i agree with ajjuka ieally, nidan purushanna tari apalya avadiche career nivadayala milane he sadhyasthitit avaghad ahe.
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Keshar
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| | Wednesday, May 05, 2004 - 7:11 pm: |
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mazya mate don prakar aahet mansala je havay te achieve karnyache....khupda ekach dheya thevun tyavar pravas karne aani jivanatalya anubhavatatun dheyakade pravas karne he
mazach udharan dete...1oth la atishaya uttam marks...around 90% ...12th la ati apekshamule parinam ulte houn faqt 62%
aata science la 62 mhanje ekach marg Bsc or some graduation...Bsc karatana te microbio madhe karayche tharavle..pan Fy chya markanantar....to chance gela(65% have hote
mala 64 hote)...mag mala tevha achanak shodh lagala ki mala pranishastra jamte...aavdate tyavelela asalela chem chi demand sodun mi to vishay ghetala aani 69% milawale....Msc hatachi admin sodavi lagali(gharguti karana mule)....ek varsha chaak
bahrpur bhatakanti,drawing ,natak ase kele
mag don varsha garaj aani craze mhanun computer kele ...comp prof mhanun job hi kela...mag MBA chi entrance dili..MBA comp kele....Karat astana Mkt changale vatayala lagale...second specializtion tyat kele...
aata mi unsurala to kahi kadachit uttam marg nahi aahe karana mi aadhi ch tharavle aste ki mala he he karayche tar karane kadachit sope zale aste..pan nashibacha hi bhag asto,baki hi factors asatat....tevha exp karat rahil tar kalat ki aapan kay karu shakto...
tevha praytekachach kal kay he tya vyakatila kiwa itaranahi patakan kalech aas nahi ...pan prayatana matra satat karayala have...
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Bee
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| | Thursday, May 06, 2004 - 12:03 am: |
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sagaL\yaaMcao postings Kup AavaDlao. cacaa- jarI vaogaL\yaa ivaYayaaMvar hÜt Aaho trI tI malaa [qao vaacaayalaa AavaDlaI. Ô>
KoLImaoLIcao vaatavarNa AsaU Va [tkIca ivanaMtI.
svaatIÊ [t@yaa lahana vayaat AapNa puZo kaya krayacao Aaho ho saaMgaNao %yaaMnaa jamat naahI. tI AaplaI
AXaIca kahItrI ]<aro dotat jaNaU to sava- Xa@yaca Aaho. maaJaI putNaI mhNato maI Income Tax Officer hÜNaar Aaho. %yaasaazI tr maga Kup saara AByaasa Aalaa AaiNa itqao baÜMba pDto 
Aaplao CMd ho career hÜ] XakNao [tko saÜpo naahI. %yaat p`%yaokalaaca yaXa imaLto Asao naahI. toMvha manaat nasatanaa doKIla
AmaukTmauk pdvaI Gao]na manaat nasalaolaI naÜkrI kravaIca laagato.
BA, BCOM (a fields doKIla Kup Cana Aahot. pNa puZo koXar mhNato %yaap`maaNao Aaplao iXaxaNa qaaMbaUna jamat naahI. ho to
k$na phavao laagato. bayaa-cada Aaplyaalaa kaya jamatoÊ AapNa kaya k$ XaktÜ (acaI Aaplyaalaa maaihtI nasato.
sagaL\yaaMnaaca yaÜgya maaga-dXa-naÊ p`orNaa imaLtatca Asao naahI. maI var mhMTlao Aaho kI ijaqao GaradarcaI
pirisqatI AgadI jaomatoma Asato AXyaavaoLI maulaaMnaa svaavalaMbaI AsaNao AavaXyak Aaho.
AsaÜ.. cacaa- [qaoca qaaMbavaa Asao maI mhNaNaar naahI. p`%yaokacao vaogavaogaLo ivacaar vaacaUna navao
kahItrI laxaat yaoto AaiNa %yaacaa Kroca ]pyaÜga hÜtÜ.. Aaja naahItr puZo kQaItrI na@kIca.
User.. AgadI barÜbar baÜlalaat AapNa
Ajjuka tu mhNato Aahosa to sagaLo pTto. tuJao career AgadI vaogaL\yaa field maQalao Aaho. tulaa maaga- imaLalaa.. yaXahI imaLto Aaho. pNa (a field maQao p`%yaokalaaca saMQaI naahI p`aPt hÜt.. AaiNa tulaa IT field glamorous waaTate
AaNaiK ek vaogaLa Qaagaa (a ivaYayaaXaI inagaDIt Aaho. Aata puNao mauMba hI Xahro maÜzI Aahot. AkÜlyaasaar#yaa
lahana Xahrat career mhNaUna naahIca. sarkarI naÜkrI imaLalaI tr zIk naahItr vaNavaNa BaTkavao laagato. malaa AajahI (acao
vaaT vaaTto kI ijaqao AapNa vaaZlaÜ iXaklaÜ itqao AapNa kayamacao rahU XakNaar naahI. Aaplao ibaha-D
ho pr@yaa gaavaI AsaNaar Aaho. tr AXyaa lahana Xahrat vaaZlaolyaa maulaa maulaIMnaa tr AByaasa iXaxaNa
ho krNao Aalaoca.
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Yog
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| | Thursday, May 06, 2004 - 1:31 am: |
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Bee,
AaplaI samasyaa va kLkL hI kaihXaI p`aitinaQaIk Aaho... AgadI mauMba puNao saar#yaa Xahrat doiKla hI
samasyaa Aaho.. ]laT ikithI AByaasa kolaa trI p`caMD competition Asalyaanao jaastca AvaGaD Aaho...
pOsaa ho sava- kahI nasalao trI pOXyaanao baroca kahI krta yaoto.. kovaL ekT\yaanao CMd jaÜpasat jagaNao
AvaGaD Aaho %yaaca barÜbar ijaqao ija_ Aaho itqao vaya vaa pirisqatI AaDvaI yaot naahI hohI Kro Aaho..
but with globalization of almost everything, many fields have gained stature and commercial value rt from learning bharatnaatyam dance to purusing MBA..., anything and everything... pNa %yaasaazI jyaa vayaat AByaasa krayalaa hvaa %yaa vayaat krayalaaca hvaa.. kuzlyaahI field maiQala yaXa ho %yaa field maiQala yaÜgya va ]%ËUYT iXa@XaNaavar AvalaMbaUna Aaho ho nakarta yaoNaar naahI.. kovaL CMd vaa AavaDIcyaa
maagaavar maaNaUsa Ô> eka zravaIk patLIvarca pÜcaU XaktÜ.... [qao vaOya>Ik ]dahrNao ikvvaa AnauBava
doNyaapo@Xaa ima evhDoca mhNaIna kI jyaa vayaat maUla GaDt Asat %yaa vayaat %yaacyaa GaDNaIlaa pÜXak vaatavarNa
Garat AsaNao AavaXyak Aaho... tumacaI hLhL samajaU XaktÜ pNa there is really no other alternative.. someone somewhere will have to deovote time or may be sacrifice his/her carreer for the child... i know baÜlaNao saÜpo Aaho pNa [tkI kLkL Aaho tr ka naahI..Æ if u staying in India even for 2-3 yrs is going to make things better and put it on the right course then i will say its worth it!!!!!!
ho maaJao vaOya>Ik mat AahoÊ pNa XaovaTI whatever is right should be done...
Aaplyaa puiZla ipZIsaazI AapNa evhDo trI inaXcaIt k$ XaktÜ.... AapNa jar [qao IT field maQao Asaala tr ]laT Aaja india laa jaaNao Aaplyaalaa tsao AvaGaD naahI... i am sure it can be worked out..
career Aaja Aaho ]Va naahI pNa Aaja jao saÝskar va iXaxaNa yaÜgya vaoLI dota yaola to ]Va dota yaoNaar naahI...
best wishes and if i can be of any help, do email me!!!!!
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yaÜgaÊ maaJyaa manaat prt jaaNyaacao ivacaarca GaÜLt Aaho. pNa itqao jaaNao mhNajao maI kahI maaJyaa GarI
AsaNaar naahI. Ôrk Ô> [tkaca kI BaoTI AiQak vaaZtIla.. kQaIhI jaata yaola. [qalyaasaarKo vaYaa-tUna
ekda Asao hÜNaar naahI. pNa tu laxaat GaotlaolaI Baavanaa AgadI barÜbar Aaho. (at jar tr Kup Aahot.. saha
maihnyaatUna ekda jaaNao maI Aata krNaar Aaho. baGauyaa iktpt Ôrk pDtÜ.
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Yog
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| | Thursday, May 06, 2004 - 2:50 am: |
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Bee,
At least you will be more accessible, available and approachable.... thats still better isn't it...??? AaiNa saha maihnyaanaI jaavaUna iktI Ôrk pDtÜ ho AjamaavaNyaacaa vaoL hatI Asaola tr tsaohI k$na baGata
yalaca...
with due respect to everyone's experience and feelings i see need to "Act" here than to talk about this... karNa eKaVacaa AnauBava tuJyaa Baavaacyaa maulaIcyaa baabatIt applicable hÜlaca Asao naahI... ivaXaoYatha mauilacyaa Aacyaa absency mauLo ha p`XNa AtIXaya naajaUk Aaho and needs more personal touch... Asao malaa vaaTto...
kiQa kiQa samaajaaitla AXaa inakDIcyaa va naajaUk samasyaa paihlyaa kI AapNa iktI svaaqaI- AayauYya jagat
AsatÜ yaacaI baÜca laagato... mhNaUnaca Xa@ya Asaola ittko krNao evhDoca Aaplyaa hatI Asato hoca Kro²²
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Ajjuka
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| | Thursday, May 06, 2004 - 2:57 am: |
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baI AaiNa [tr baáyaaca jaNaaMina maaJyaa kahI baÜlaNyaacaa Aqa- qaÜDasaa cauikcaa Gaotlaolaa idsatÜya.
AByaasalaa pyaa-ya naahIca. jasao var kuNaItrI mhNaalao kI kahIhI kolao trI kYTalaa pyaa-ya naahI ho 100
% Kro Aaho. maaJa rÜK Xaalaoya GaÜkMp+I var AaQaarIt AByaasaakDo Aaho. yaa GaÜkMp+I maQaUna marks poxaa kahIhI inaGaU Xakt naahI. AaiNa marks imaLvaNyaatca sava- kahI naahIyao. mauLat kuzlaahI ivaYaya kLNao mah%vaacao. to Jaalao kI maga Xaalaoya
patLIvar AhÜra~ maohnat Gao}na krNyaasaarKa AByaasa ]rtÜca kuzo...
yaÜga cyaa mhNaNyaatlaa tuJaI kLkL Asaola tr tUca itqao rahUna ha itZa saÜDvaU XaktÜsa h Baaga pTlaa.
tsaoca kuzlyaahI xao~atIla yaXa ho %yaa %yaa training var AvalaMbaUna Asato pNa eka point naMtr tumhalaa kÜNa train krto yaapoxaa available training caa tumhI ksaa vaapr k$na Gaota ho jaast mah%vaacao zrto. AaiNa ho kLNyaasaazI mauLat maulaacaI thinking capacity caaMgalaI Asaayalaa hvaI. marks, admission, syllabus, exam evaZ\yaaca caËat jar maulaacao payaaBaUt iXaxaNa isaimat Asaola tr maUla ivacaar k$ Xakt naahI.
baakI personal experiences do}na maaJao ZÜla baDvaNyaat kahIhI interest naahIyao. caakÜirbaw AayauYyaaca jagalao pahIjao ho mat KÜDUna kaZNyaasaazI to maaMDlao hÜto.
Aqaa-t caakÜrI maÜDNao ho mah%vaacaoca Aaho ho maI maanat naahI. jao krala to puNa- manaapasaUna AaiNa
100 % efforts nao kolao gaolao pahIjao Asao malaa vaaTto AaiNa vaar saaMigatlaoyaa caËatUnaca jar maUla jaat Asaola
tr %yaacao kYTacao gaiNat ho eka gaÜYTIlaa [qao 10 $. doNyaapo@Xaa dusaáyaa dukanaat 7 $. do}na GaotlaolaI
barI AXyaa p`karcao rhaNaar. pOsao vaacavaayalaa ho gaiNat izk Aaho pNa kYT vaacavaayalaa.... AsaÜ.. kdaicat
ivaYayaaMtr hÜtoya tovha qaaMbaNao baro...
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Wakdya
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Xaalaoya pirxaatIla maaka-Mvar huYaarIcao maÜjamaap na@kIca puNa-tÁ AvalaMbauna naahI pNa trIhI i@laYT
vaa naavaDto ivaYaya doiKla AByaasaayacaI xamata %yaatunaca dRgaÜccar hÜt Asato jaI BaavaI AayauYyaatIla
kÜNa%yaahI xao~at ]pyaÜgaI pDNaar Asato. %yaamauLo Xaalaoya ijavanaatIla maaka-Mnaa kmaI laoKuna caalaNaar
naahI %yaacabarÜbar %yaaMcao Avaastva AvaDMbar stÜma doiKla maajavaayalaa nakÜ maa~ AXaa vaoLosa maulaasa
kahI Anya CMd ]pyau> AavaDI Aahot kI naahIt to baGaunaÊ nasalyaasa %yaa jaaiNavapuva-k inamaa-Na kÉna
%yaa jaÜpasalyaa pahIjaot.
maaJaI lahanagaI BaatuklaI KoLtanaa yaovhDI tllaIna hÜtat tovha %yaaMcaI ekaga` hÜNyaaica xamata Aaho
ho na@kI Jaalyaavar p`Ena kovaL ]rtÜ tÜ Asaa kI %yaaMcyaa naavaD%yaa mhNajao AByaasaabaabatIt AiXaca ekaga`ta
%yaaMnaa saaQata yaoNyaasaMbaMQaI %yaaMnaa maaga-dXa-na krNao²
Aamacyaa prInao AamhI saÜpa ]pdoXa kolaa tÜ mhNajao AByaasa ho doiKla ek kama Aaho Asao pTvauna idlaoÊ
jar GaaratIla Anya p`%yaok maÜzI vya>I kahInaa kahI kama krIt Aaho tr maulaaMcao pNa kahI kt-vya AsaNaar
Aaho naaÆ toca to mhNajao qaÜDa AByaasa doiKla kraÊ kama samajauna² sagaL\yaaMcyaa baabatIt ho inadana
]pyaÜgaI pDola Asao naahIÊ pNa maulaaMnaa AByaasaasa P`vavaR<a krNyaacaa ha doiKla ek ]paya yaovhDoca²
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Yog
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Wakdya,
very well said...
Ajjuka,
caakÜrIbaQd AayauYya jagaavao Asao kuNaIca mhNat naahIyao.. pNa caaMgalao iXa@XaNaÊ caaMgalyaa djaa-cyaa
XaaLa va ivaVaipzat p`vaoXa imaLavaa va puZo %yaatUna caaMgalaI career saMiQa imaLavaI yaasaazI Aajakala caaMgalao marks imaLvaNao ho ittkoca garjaocao Jaalao Aaho... whether its rt or wrong is beyond the discussion of this BB.. maak-sa imaLvaNyaat sava- kahI nasalao trI %yaavar baroca kahI AvalaMbaUna Aaho... AaiNa caakÜrI maÜDNyaaca
vaya ho bahuda mahaivaValayaat gaolyaa naMtrca Asat jaovha AaplaI svatalaa Aaplyaa ktu-%vaacaI samaja
AalaolaI Asato...
I do not aggree with your thought of Xaalaoya patLIvar AhÜra~ maohonat GaovaUna krNyaasaarKa AByaasa ]rtÜca kuzo.. Not sure which schools you talking abt or which system you referring to but even in our times those who had exceptional intellect still had to work hard to get competitive marks.. and things have just got more competitive now... kuzlyaahI xao~at maohnatIlaa pyaa-ya vaa shortcut naahI AgadI ikithI huXaarI AMgaI AsalaI tirhI... available training caa vaapr vagaOro Ôar Ôar puZcyaa gaÜiXT Aahot... [qao Xaalaoya patLIvar basics laa mah%va doNao AavaXyak vaaTto... gaOrsamaja nasaavaa..
nyways, not to divert from this BB's topic and concern, I think all parents face this situation with their kids, one way or other... here the main problem seems to be: lack of personal touch/attention and guidance and presence of an individual around Bee's niece.... which ONLY he/his family can solve the best!!!
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