Bee
 
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 p`XaaMt ekca sallaa dÜna dÜnada idlaasa   
 
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Indrajeeta
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 12:10 pm:    |  
 
 
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 kzÜr vaagaUna kahI Ôayada Jaalaa naahI.        maI maaJyaa kahI  Personal Problems  mauLo %yaalaa Ô> ek idvasa ÔÜna k$ Xaklao naahIÊ AaiNa tovha naomaka tÜ hI BayaMkr  Disturb  hÜta. Aata tÜ toca Gao}na basalaa Aaho. kI malaa %yaacaI kaLjaI naahI. tÜ AsaM samajatÜya kI maI %yaacaa
  Problem  CÜTa samajato AaiNa maI  %yaacyaakDo dula-xa kolaM AaiNa svatÁcyaaca  Problem  maQyao ÔsaUna raihlao.     Aat mhNatÜya kI ek tr caUk kolaIsa AaiNa vartI ho AsaM kaya baÜlatosaÆ     malaa Ôar  Frustration  AalaMya.     
 
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Moodi
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 12:24 pm:    |  
 
 
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 Md`jaIta maga varIla sava- T\yaulaIp Ana saayaÜcaoca mhNaNao yaÜgya vaaTtya malaa. jaÜ ima~ tuJaI BaavanaIk
Avasqaa jaaNau Xakt naahI Ana vartI tulaaca baÜlatÜyaÆ maga far kizNa Aaho. 
 
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Sayonara
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 12:35 pm:    |  
 
 
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 [Md`ijataÊ tulaa maagacyaa pÜsT maQyao mhTlyaap`maaNao tuJyaavar tulaa KrMca kaya hvaMya ho zrvaNyaacaI
vaoL AalaI Aaho. jar tulaa hI  relationship  AayauYyaBarakrta nakÜ Asaola tr svatÁcyaa DÜ@yaalaa tap doNyaacaI kahI garja Aaho kaMÆ ]Va tulaahI %yaacyaasaarKaca
manaisak ~asa vhayalaa laagalaa tr tU kuzo jaaXaIla AaiNa kÜNaakDo madt maagaXaIlaÆ  ek laxat zova kI AsaM  exploitation/abuse  kÉna  / caalavaUna GaoNaarI maaNasaM Asatat mhNaUnaca krNaarI maaNasaMhI janmaalaa yaotat.  maaJaM baÜlaNaM KUp  harsh  vaaTlaM Asaola tr KrMca  sorry .  
 
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Maitreyee
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 12:55 pm:    |  
 
 
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 Aga maulaIÊ iktI kaL AXaI rDt basaNaar AahosaÆ jara jarI  self respect  iXallak Asaola naa tr  dump this guy and start a new life... thats it ²² Aata AaNaKI kaya baÜlaNaar²     
 
 
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Pama
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 1:08 pm:    |  
 
 
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 varcao sagaLo vaacalao.  [Mid`\jataÊ tuJaa    problem   baraca  serious   Aaho.varcao sagaLo sallao pTlao. pNa maI jara vaogaL\yaa p`karo maaMDto sagaLÊ spYT baÜlalao tr raga maanaU
nakÜ..  malaa vaaTt ha sagaLa p`kar f> tuJyaa ima~alaa kXaI madt kravaI yaa ba_la Aaho mhNat naahIyaa Ê tr
%yaaca barÜ bar ha p`Xna tuJyaa saazIhI ksaa saÜDvaavaa Asaa ivacaar krt hÜto.yaa ba_la var bayaa-ca  posts   maQao ilaihlayahI.tulaa AaQaI svatalaa kahI p`Xna ivacaarlao paihjaot.  1 tU yaa relation  maQao iktI AaiNa kXaI gauMtlaolaI AahosaÆtuJyaa  posts   va$na ho tr spYTca Aaho kI tU KUpca gauMtlaI Aahosa. pNa qaÜD  emotions  baajaUlaa zo}na ivacaar krÊ ik AapNa na@kI %yaalaa iktI AÜLKtÜÆ jar puZo %yaacyaabarÜbar AayauYya GalavaNyaacaa
ivacaar Asaola tr na@kI %yaacyaaba_la kaya vaaTtya yaacaa KÜlavar jaa}na ivacaar kr. tuJao  post   vaacaUna Asao vaaTto ik hI  long distance relationship  Aaho. tumhI barÜbar AsaNyaacao p`saMga far kmaI Aahot. yaa  relation   ica saurvaat tDjaÜDIvar hÜtoya kaÆ tÜ jar Aa<aaca tulaa [qak gaRiht Qart Asaola tr puZo kaya Æ var
baÜlalyaa gaolyaap`maaNao jar tuJa  emotional exploitation   hÜt Asaola AaiNa tU to hÜvaU dot AsaXaIla tr icaMtajanak baaba Aaho. Aaplyaalaa AavaDNaaáyaa vyai>laahI
AapNa ittkoca AavaDtÜ kaÊ ho kLayalaaca hvao. yaat savayaIcaa Baaga iktI AaiNa %yaalaa tuJyaa ba_la Krca
iktI vaaTtya to kLayalaaca hva.  2 tulaa tÜ kuzo rahtÜÊ kuNaalaa BaoTtÜÊ ksaa rahtÜ yaaba_la sava- maahIt Aaho kaÆ nasalyaasa maahIt k$na
Gaota yaola ka.Æ karNa tuJyaa mhNaNyaap`maaNao ha  sudden change   hÜta.AaiNa tU %yaalaa p`%yaxa BaoTt nasalyaamauLo kovaL tÜ saaMgatÜya %yaavar tU ivaXvaasa zovato Aahosa.³
ragavaU nakÜ yaat tÜ Kr baÜlat naahIyaa Asa mhNaayaca naahI malaaÊ pNa jao AapNa baiGatla naahI %yaavar
iktpt ivaXvaasa zovaavaaÆ ´hamau_a jara farca baÜcara Aaho pNa ivacaar kravaasa.  3 %yaacyaa Aa vaDIlaaMnaa %yaacyaa yaa badlaacaI ikMvaa svaBaavaacaI iktpt klpnaa AahoÆ %yaaMcyaaXaI
%yaacao  relations   kXao AahotÆ %yaaMnaa iktI va kaya fÜna krtÜ.Æ%yaacyaa GarI tuJyaaba_la maahIt Aaho kaÆ Asalyaasa kaya
mat AahoÆ maahIt Asaola tr tU %yaacyaa GarcyaaMXaI ka baÜlat naahI. maaJaI Ka~I Aaho to na@kIca yaa  situation laa  solve  krNyaat tuJaI madt krtIlaÊ XaovaTI %yaaMcyaa maulaacyaa AayauYyaacaa p`Xna Aaho²  3. Asa idsatya ik tuJyaa ima~alaa kuzUnatrI sahanauBaUtI gaÜLakrNyaacaI savaya JaalaIya. %yaanaI pihlaI
naÜkrI kasaÜDlaIÆ %yaalaa itqao kahI  problem  hÜta mhNaUna ik AaiNa kahIÆ tuJyaa mhNaNyaap`maaNao navaIna naÜkrIt laagalyaa pasaUna tÜ Asaa vaagatÜ.
ekakIpNaamauLo Asaa vaagatÜ ho pTla trI [%ko idvasa tÜ [tr ima~aMcyaat hÜtaÊ mhNajao tÜ maaNaUsaGaaNaa
na@kIca naahI. maI  psychologist  naahI pNa Asa vaaTtya %yaanaI ho sagaL mau_ama AÜZvaUna Gaotlaya AaiNa yaatUna baahor pDNyaacaI %yaacaI
[cCaca naahI.tuJyaakDUna %yaacao   emotional pampering   hÜtoya mhNaUna tÜ krvaUna GaotÜya. tulaa jara  emotional blackmail  kola ik tU lagaoca har maanaUna  sorry   mhNaUna maÜkLI hÜtosa AaiNa %yaacaa  ego  AjaUna baLavatÜ.Aa%maXai> gamaavalaolaI maaNasa kuzotrI Aapla Aist%va japNyaacaa p`ya%na krtat AaiNa
tuJaa tÜ  weak point   %yaalaa barÜbar maahIt AahoÊ %yaacaa tÜ puropUr fayada GaotÜya.%yaalaa  psychologist   caI garja tr AahocaÊ pNa %yaalaa ek gaÜYT zamapNao kLayalaa hÊ ikÊ  he cannot make use of you ³jara BaDk vaaTtya vaa@ya Ê pNa malaa hoca yaÜgya vaaTla.´  4. baakI ivacaarlaolyaa p`XnaaMcaI tÜ naIT ]<ar dot nasaola tr to ivaYya saÜDUnaca do tU. %yaacyaaXaI
tumacyaa  relation.  ba_la baÜla. tulaa kaya vaaTtÊ tuJao  plans   kaya Aahot AXaa AayauYyaatIla puZIla gaÜYTIMba_la baÜlaNyaacaa p`ya%na kr. %yaacaI hI ]<ar TÜlavaayalaa
laagalaaÊ tr spYTca ivacaar Ê maaJyaa ba_la kaya ivacaar kolaayasaÆtulaa  strong  vhavaca laagaola. varcyaa eka  post  maQao mhTlaya tsaÊ JaÜpNyaaca saÜMga GaoNaaáyaalaa ksa jaaga krNaar. p`omaanaI jaagaa hÜt nasaola tr baaladIBar
gaar paNaI AÜt.  maaJa mhnaNa AavaDla nasaola tr  sorry  pNa malaa Asa vaaTtya tÜ jaaNaUna ]majaUna krtÜya. %yaacao p`Xna Aahot Ê %yaacaI manaisqatI zIk naahI
ho pTtya Ê pNa tÜ %yaacaa baa} krtÜya Asa vaaTt.         
 
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Kishori
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 1:13 pm:    |  
 
 
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 maO~oyaIÊ AsaM naahI gaMÊ tuJaM mhNaNaM barÜbar Aaho... pNa p`%yaxaat qaÜDM AvaGaD jaatM to...   self respect caa p`Xna tovha yaotÜ jaovha AapNaca Ô> Aaplyaa kDUna saMvaad saaQat rahtÜ AaiNa plaIkDUna kahIca gaUMtvaNaUk
ikMvaa ]<ar imaLt naahI...  pNa [Md`jaIta naI inaNa-ya maa~ Gyaayalaa hvaa Aaho... tulaa maola maQaUna %yaalaa kahItrI vyavaisqat
ilahIta yaola kaÆ mana Ga+ tr krayalaa hvaMca Aaho... p`%yaok AvaGad inaNa-yacaI vaoL qaÜDI AvaGaD Asatoca
pNa maO~oyaI mhNato tsaa  inaQaa-r kr manaacaa AaiNa KMbaIr pNao saamaÜrI jaa p`saMgaalaa. pihlao kahI idvasa vaaT vaaTolaÊ pNa
jaovha GaDNaaáyaa gaÜTIt tulaa dusara khI pyaa-ya naahIÊ AaiNa tU jaaNaUnabaujaUna kuNaalaa ~asa dot
naahIsa ho manaaXaI zrva AaiNa maga maagao vaLUna pahU nakÜsa. qaÜDI kzÜr hÜ..  
 
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Pama
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 1:42 pm:    |  
 
 
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 Kr saaMgaU ka [Md`ijataÊ maI ilahINaar navhtoÊ pNa ilahItoca jaa} do. pNa maagaca sagaL tU vaacaUna baGaÊ
Asa vaaT\tya tUca %yaalaa AaiNa %yaacyaa svaBaavaalaa  defend   krto Aahosa. p`%yakacyaa  post  var tuJa ]<ar kaya Aaho vaacaUna baGa.. maI p`ya%na kolaa Ê pna maaJyaavar ]laTtÜ tÜÊ  %yaacaa  problem  maI naahI tr kÜNa samajaUna GaoNaar AaiNa Asaca kahIsa. Asa vaaTtya tulaaca yaatUna baahor pDayaca naahIÊ
%yaacyaa  emotions   naa kurvaaLt basalaI Aaho AaiNa tulaa tsa krNyaacaI savaya JaalyaamauLo AsaolaÊ tulaahI baahor pDavasa
vaaTt naahI yaatUna. tulaa %yaatca  secure  vaaTtya. pNa Aga maulaIÊ tU ho ivasarto Aahosa ik %yaacaa  ego  saaMBaaLNyaat tU tuJa Aist%va saMpvato Aahosa.  AgadI  practical .  saaMgaayaca tr Aajacyaa lagna Jaalaolyaa maulaI sauwa svataca Aist%va japtatÊ navaáyaavar p`oma jaIvatÜDUna
kola mhNajao Aaplyaalaa %yaanaI ksahI vaagavayalaa %yaalaa  liscence  naahIÊ AaiNa tuJyaa baabatIt tr AjaUna tÜ p`Xnaca Aalaolaa naahI. tovhaÊ maI %yaalaa vaaáyaavar saÜDUna
do AaiNa saMbaMQa tÜDUna Tak Asa mhNat naahIÊ pNa %yaalaa tuJyaa sahnaXai>cyaa mayaa-da kLU do. maI
tr ma*Naona %yaalaa tuJyaa ba_la jarahI vaaTt Asaola tr kuzlyaahI pirisqatIt tÜ tulaa saÜDNaar naahI.
%yaamauLo tU kzÜr vaagalaIsa tr kdaicat icaDolakahI idvasa pNa XaaMt hÜtIla. pNa jar %yaalaa tuJyaaba_la
kahI vaaTt nasaola tr tU iktIhI jaIva tÜDlaasa trI ]pyaÜga naahI.. inaNa-ya tulaaca Gyaayacaaya.  
 
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Kishori
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 1:51 pm:    |  
 
 
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 tuJaM mhNaNaM barÜbar Aaho pmaa...   %yaa dÜGaanaIÊ svatÁ saazIÊ svatÁ caM naatM jaaNaUna GaoNyaa saazI qaÜDa vaoL Vayalaa hvaa Aaho..... 
 
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Atul
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 4:37 pm:    |  
 
 
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 [nd`ijataÊ   sorry to say, maaJyaa mato caUk tuJaI Aaho. tulaa kuzo qaaMbaayacao to kLt naaihyao. 
 
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Vaikharee
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 4:41 pm:    |  
 
 
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 [Md`jaItaÊ tÜ tulaa ho sagaLM saaMgatÜ yaapilakDo kahI sabaL puravaa Aaho ka kI %yaalaa Krca kahI ~asa
Aaho yaacaaÆ kXaavaÉna tÜ tulaa kovaL KoLvat naahIyaoÆ AaiNa tU tuJyaa GarI baÜlalaI naahIyaosa ha inaNa-ya
kÜNaacaaÆ tuJaa svatÁcaa kI %yaanao saucavalaolaaÆ ekUNaca tU mhNatosa kI tU KUp gauMtlaI Aahosa pNa tÜhI
tuMtlaa Aaho AsaM maanaayalaa kahI jaagaa Aaho kaÆ kovaL tÜ tulaa saarKa ~asa dotÜ yaavaÉna %yaalaa tuJyaaba_la
kahI vaaTto Asao Aijabaat isaw hÜt naahI. AaiNa %yaacyaatlaa ha badla hÜNyaapuvaI- tÜ kQaI Aalaa hÜta
ka BaartatÆ %yaalaa AmaorIkot jaa}na jaomaotoma dIDok vaYa- JaalaM AahoÊ [t@yaat naÜkrI badlaayacaM karNa
kaya saaMigatlaM %yaanaoÆ AaiNa tulaa to pTlaM kaÆ tÜ maaNaUsa tuJyaa AÜLKIcaa nasata ikMvaa samajaa tuJyaa
baihNaIcaa ima~ Asata tr tU kaya ivacaar kolaa Asatasa tÜ svatÁcyaa baabatIt kÉna paihlaa Aahosa kaÆ     [tkM vaaTola to sahna krayalaa kovaL tuJaM p`oma tulaa Baaga paDt Asaola tr %yaa p`omaat Krca kahI Aqa-
Aaho ka tuJyaa AayauYyaacyaa dRYTInaoÆ dubaLM krtM to p`oma AsatM kaÆ GaratlyaaMpasaUna lapvaUna zovaUna
[tko svatÁcao hala kÉna Gyaayalaa Baaga paDtM to p`oma AsatM kaÆ AayauYyaatlyaa eka AtIva sauMdr BaavanaocaMÊ
GaTnaocaM tuJyaa AayauYyaatlaM ho $p tulaa trI pTtM kaÆ     tU trI nakÜ ka samajaUna Gyaayalaa AsaM tU mhNatosaÊ %yaalaa tr kQaIca vaaTt naahI tuJyaa sauKduÁKat sahBaagaI
vhavaMsaM. [tkM Aa%makoMd`It naatM janmaBar japNaM Xa@yahI naahI AaiNa kÜNaI kÉhI nayao. yaatUna baahor
pDayacaM ka ikMvaa ksaM pDayacaM [tkahI ivacaar krNyaacaI garja vaaTU nayao. %yaalaa spYT Xabdat jaaNaIva
do AaiNa yaa gauM%yaatuna baahor pD. hvao tr %yaacyaa GarcyaaMnaa ekda saaMga %yaaMcyaa maulaanao tulaa
iktI ~asa idlaa AaiNa tÜ Aata saMpvat Aahosa AaiNa yaapuZo %yaaMcyaa maulaacaI jabaabadarI %yaaMnaI GyaavaI
mhNaUna.     tuJyaaba_la sahanauBaUtI vaaTto mhNaUnaca AitXaya kzÜr Xabdat pNa KrM to ilahIlaM Aaho. tovha Ìpyaa raga
maanaU nakÜ. 
 
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Arch
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 5:02 pm:    |  
 
 
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  sagaL\yaaMcao  responses  maI vaacalao naahIt. [Md`aijatacaI  postings  vaacalaI. [Md`jaIta malaa tulaa evaZca ivacaarayaca Aaho kIÊ     1. tuJa AaiNa %yaaca naat Ô> ima~%vaacaca Aaho ka AaiNa tsaca rhaNaar Aaho kaÆ  2. tU %yaacyaaXaI lagna k$ [cCIto Aahosa kaÆ     pihlyaa p`XNaaca ]<ar hÜ Asaola tr tulaa %yaacyaasaazI evaZa vaoLÊ svat : caI maanasaIk CLvaNaUk AaiNa pOXaacaa Apvyak krNyaacaI garja naahI.     dusaáyaa p`XNaaca ]<ar hÜ Asaola tr tU %yaacaa prt ivacaar krNa XahaNapNaaca hÜla karNa manaanao etka
kmakuvatÊ [tr kXaacaIca AavaD ikMvaa  social skills  nasaNaaáyaa maaNasaaXaI saMsaar krNyaacaI [cCa kXaasaazIÆ svat : laa du.ÁKI k$na GaoNyaasaazIÆ tU tuJaI  posting  naIT vaacalaIsa tr ha tuJaa ima~ malaa trI saMpUNa-  manipulative  vaaTtÜ.     spYT ilaihlyaabadala xamasva. 
 
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Sayonara
 
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 |  | Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 10:50 pm:    |  
 
 
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 [Md`ijataÊ tuJyaa ima~alaa tuJyaa Aa^ifsacaaÊ Garcaa fÜna naMbar maaiht Aaho kaMÆ ³AsaNyaacaI Xa@yataca
jaast´. samajaa nasaola tr tr Aaz idvasa %yaacyaaXaI saMpk- zovaU nakÜsa. karNa jar naohmaI tU ka^la krt
AsaXaIla tr kahItrI sababa XaÜQa kI tU kuzotrI baahor jaato Aahosa AaiNa  touch  maQyao rhaNaM Xa@ya naahI mhNaUna. Aqaa-t ho ]paya tulaa svatÁlaa kravaosao vaaTt AsatIla trca Anyaqaa
  ignore . 
 
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 pmaaÊ AaiNa [tr sava-Ê tumacao AaBaar maanavaot ittko kmaI Aahot. malaa pmaacaI  Post  savaa-t jaast  Appropriate  vaaTlaI.     1. pmaa Aamacao  Relation  tDjaÜDIvar sau$ Jaalaolao naahI. pNa jaovha jaovha garja pDlaI tovha tovha maIca tDjaÜD kolaI Aaho ho
KrM Aaho. maJyaa  Emotions  laa baajaUla zovaayacaa maI svatÁ baraca p`ya%na kolaa pNa tÜ to p`ya%na naohmaI AsaÔla hÜtat. %yaalaa
hI maI AavaDto ho malaa caaMgalaM maahItI AahoÊ karNa to malaa baáyaaca vaoLolaa %yaacyaa baÜlaNyaatUna
jaaNavatM AaiNa baáyaaca ÌtItUnahI.     2. tÜ kuzo rhtÜÊ tÜ kÜNa%yaa xaNaI kuzo AsatÜ ho sava- malaa maaihtI AahoÊ %yaacyaa sava-M ima~aMcao ÔÜna
naM. p<aoÊ  office  caa p<a ÔÜna naM. sava- maahItI Aaho. ho KrM Aaho kI maI tÜ jao saaMgatÜ %yaavar ivaXvaasa zovatoÊ
karNa malaa dusara kÜNataca  Source  naahI %yaacaI maahItI kaZayalaa. tÜ KÜTM baÜlat naahI yaacaI malaa Ka~I AahoÊ karNa %yaacyaabarÜbar jao
GaDtM toca tÜ malaa saaMgatÜ.     3. %yaacyaa GarcyaaMnaa %yaacyaa badlalaolyaa svaBaavaaba_la iktpt maaihtI Aaho ho malaa maaihtI naahIÊ
pNa malaa vaaTto kI to yaa baabatIt AnaiBaD\nya Asaavaot. karNa maulaM Xa@yatÜ Aplyaa  Family  laa Asalyaa gaÜYTI saaMgat naahIt. tÜ %yaacyaa GarI vaarMvaar ÔÜna krtÜ. p`%yaok vaoLI maaJyaaAQaI %yaacao
GarI baÜLNao Jaalaolao Asato. %yaacyaa GarI Aamacyaaba_la maaiht naahIÊ to saaMgaNyaacaI javaabdarI %yaacaI
Aaho AsaM malaa vaaTtM. maI maaJyaaGarI tÜ [qao kyamacaa prt Aalaa kI saaMgaNaar Aaho. pNa ho hI ittkMca
KrM Aaho kI maI kaya AaiNa %yaacao Aa -  vaDIla kaya AamhI Ôartr %yaacyaaXaI ÔÜnavar baÜlaU XaktÜ Ajauna kahI k$ Xakt naahI.     4. %yaanao pihlaI naÜkrI Aqaa-tca  Better Prospectus  saazI saÜDlaI. pihlyaa naÜkrIt %yaalaa kahI  probelm  navhta.     tu mhNatosa to malaa AgadI 100 %  pTtM Aaho. maI hLUhLU  Strong  hÜNyaacaa p`ya%na krto Aaho.     kdaicat tumhI sagaLo mhNata %yaap`maaNao tÜ %yaacyaa pirisqaqaIcaa baa} krt hI AsaolaÊ pNa %yaalaa ho
kÜNa saaMgaNaarÆ     maI pNa yaa  Relationship  maQaUna baahor pDNyaacaa p`ya%na krto AahoÊ jamaola tr na@kIca pNa ~asa KUp hÜla. karNa XaovaTI AapNa
jyaa maaNasaasaazI [tka jaIva Takt hÜtÜÊ %yaalaa AapNa %yaacyaa AayauYyaatUna inaGaUna gaolaÜya yaacaI
jarahI KMt vaaTlaI naahItr AapNa caUikcyaa maaNasaavar p`oma kolaM hI sala iktI baÜcaarI Aaho yaacaI klpnaa
Aaho malaa.     ekUNaca Aa<aa Asao idsato kI malaa KrMca inaNa-ya GaoNyaacaI vaoL AalaI Aaho.  And with the help of you all I will surely  be strong       
 
 
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 saayaÜ cyaa mhNaNyaap`maaNao maI ha 8 idvasa ÔÜna na krNyaacaa p`yaÜga k$na pahto. baGaU kaya hÜtMya to.
     pNa t%puvaI- maI %yaalaa  Mail  k$na sava- kahI saivastr saaMgaIna. iXavaaya maI to 8 idvasa kXaasaazI GaotI Aaho to hI saaMgaona.  tU pNa ivacaar kr Asao saaMgaona. 
 
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Sayonara
 
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 |  | Monday, September 19, 2005 - 6:14 am:    |  
 
 
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 [Md`ijataÊ tuJyaakDUna kahI sToPsa ]calaNyaahI tyaarI baGaUna barM vaaTlaM. tulaa (acaa ~asa na@kIca hÜla
pNa %yaatUna JaalaMca tr kahI caaMgalaMhI inaYpÙa hÜla AXaI AaXaa kÉyaat. tulaa XauBaocCa. 
 
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Anurag_bh
 
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 indrajeeta tumi kaahi steps uchalatay baghun kharach khup ananda zaala... baghaa prayatna karun, tumhala nakki yash yeil.   mi madhyantari ek mail tumhala takali hoti.. ti milali ka tumhala?
 
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  Sorry     AnauragaÊ     maI baroca idvasa Jaalao  Mails  caok k$na. AajahI kdaicat jamaNaar naahI.  jaovha  Check  krIna tovha  Reply  ja$r krIna. 
 
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Moodi
 
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 |  | Monday, September 19, 2005 - 10:50 am:    |  
 
 
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 Md`jaIta Aata tu kahI caaMgalao inaNa-ya Gyaayalaa tyaar Aaho ho baGauna malaa AanaMd vaaTlaa.  best luck . pNa tu jar tuJyaa Aatapya-Mtcyaa pÜsT\sa caok krXaIla tr tuJyaa svatcyaaca to laxaat yaola kI tu p`%yaok
vaoLa   clipart   maQyao f>  sad expression  ca vaaprlao Aahosa. Kro tr AXaanao AaplaIhI manaÜvaR<aI tXaIca banat jaato.     tu jaovaZa tuJyaa AayauYyaaivaYayaI sakara%mak dRYTIkÜna zovaXaIla tovaZoca tuJao manahI KMbaIr banaola.
  yaa sava- dDpNaaMcao AÜJao Aata JaugaaÉna tuJyaasaazI jagaayalaa sauÉvaat krÊ mhNajao XaaMt manaanao ivacaar
kÉ XakXaIla kI Aatapya-Mt tulaa %yaacyaakDuna iktI sakara%mak p`itsaad imaLalaaya to.  kamaat mana gauMtva Ana [tr CMdhI jaÜpasa. maayabaÜlaIkr tuJaoca Aahot Ana maayabaÜlaIhI tuJaIca Aaho.
inaraXa hÜvau nakÜsa. Ana laxat zova   prevention is always better than cure .      best luck again.  
 
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 Qanyavaad maUDIÊ  mala KrMca KUp barM vaaTlaM tuJaI  Post  vacaUna....  Aata maI hI Asaaca ivacaar krayalaa laagalaoya kI puZo jaa}na KUp duÁK hÜNyaapoxaa Aa<aaca kaya to
hÜ}na jaa} do. mhNajao inadana Káyaa naa%yaacaI AÜLK trI hÜla. jar yaatUna kahI  Negetive  JaalaM tr malaa %yaacaa KUp ~asa hÜNaar AahoÊ pNa izk AahoÊ kahI gaÜYTIMnaa AaplyaakDo [laaja nasatÜ AaiNa
]<ar pNa.   Dont worry I am happy now .     
 
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Kishori
 
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 |  | Tuesday, September 20, 2005 - 7:34 am:    |  
 
 
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 namaskar [Md`jaIta...     kXaI AahosaÆ svatÁ caI kaLjaI Gao AaiNa naIT rha... jao hÜla to caaMgalaM ca hÜ[la... kaLjaI k$ nakÜsa..
kahI vaoLolaa gaÜYTI qaÜD\yaa saÜDUna idlaolyaa baáyaa Asatat... kaL hoca ]<ama AÝYaQa Aaho... 
 
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 namaskar ikXaÜrIÊ     maI izk Aaho. AaiNa tU mhNatosa to KrMca AahoÊ kQaI kQaI gaÜYTI saÜDUna idlaolyaa baáyaa Asatat.  baGaU iktpt jamatMya to. 
 
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Kishori
 
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 |  | Tuesday, September 20, 2005 - 7:51 am:    |  
 
 
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 tulaa Aamacyaa sagaL\yaaM kDUna XauBaoC\Ca... [qao yaot rha AaiNaÊ KuXaalaI kLvat rha... tu  software maQao Aahosa ka gaMÆ 
 
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Ruma
 
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 |  | Tuesday, September 20, 2005 - 7:53 am:    |  
 
 
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 vaa [nd`jaIta.. tUlaa saavarlaola pahUna Krca KUp Cana vaTtoya...  kQaI kQaI dusayaa-Mcyaa barÜbar Aaplaa ivacaar krNao hI KUp mah%vaacao Asato.. baroca vaoLolaa AapNaca
Aaplyaalaa ga`uhIt Qa$na AsatÜ... 
 
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Pama
 
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 |  | Wednesday, September 21, 2005 - 3:25 pm:    |  
 
 
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 [d`ijataÊ calaa tU kahItrI inaNa-ya Gaoto Aahosa ho ekUna bar vaaTla.  all the best . 
 
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 namaskar maMDLIÊ     baáyaaca idvasaaMnaI BaoTtoya tumha savaa-Mnaa.  tumacyaa sagaL\yaaMcaI malaa KUp madt JaalaI. %yaap`maaNao gaolyaa maihnyaat maI yaa sava- gaÜYTIMcaa
KUp  Seriously  ivacaar k$na khI inaNa-ya Gaotlao AaiNa to AMmalaat AaNaNyaacaa p`ya%na doiKla kolaaÊ AgadI pirNaamaaMcaI
klpnaa na krta... ivacaar kolaa kI Ôar tr kaya hÜ[la tr hI  Relationship Break  hÜ[la [tkca. maaJyaasaazI ho KrMca KUp AvaGaD hÜtM. pNa to krNaM AgadI garjaocaM hÜtM.     kaya kaya GaDlaM ho saivastr saaMgat basat naahI pNa maI AXarXaÁ ]sanaM ka kaya mhNatat tsalaM Avasaana
AaNaUna eko idvaXaI %yaacyaa samaÜr yaa sagaL\yaa gaÜYTI maaMDlyaaÊ AaiNa %yaalaa daKvaUna idlaM kI tÜ
ksaa vaagatÜya.  I told him that it is abusive to me  AaiNa malaa %yaacaa ~asa hÜtÜyaÊ yaapuZo %yaanao saMyamaanao vaagalaM pihjao Anyaqaa inarÜp GaoNaM yaÜgya
rahIla. %yaap`maaNao KrMtr AamhI inarÜp hI Gaotlaa hÜta ekmaokaMcaa.     pNa naMtr %yalaa bahutok to Dacat rahIlaM Aatlyaa Aat.  maga %yaanao malaa AapNahÜ]naca fÜna kolaa AamhI 3 / 4 vaoLolaa saivastr baÜlalaÜ.  Aata sava-M kahI izk Aaho. tovhapsaUna %yaanao maaJyaavar ibalakUla icaDicaD kolaI naahI. inadana Aa<aapya-Mt
trI sava-M  vyavaisqat sauÉ Aaho³ Touch Wood)    AaiNa tumha sagaL\yaaMcao AgadI manaapasaUna AaBaar.   
 
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Sayonara
 
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 |  | Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 12:14 pm:    |  
 
 
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 [Md`ijataÊ AiBanaMdna. barM JaalaM [qao yao}na ho saaMigatlaMsa to. tumhaMlaa dÜGaaMnaahI puZcyaa AayauYyaakrta
XauBaocCa. 
 
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Zelam
 
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 |  | Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 12:48 pm:    |  
 
 
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 [Md`jaIta Krca barM vaaTlaM eokUna. 
 
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Kishori
 
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 |  | Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 6:32 pm:    |  
 
 
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 namaskar [Md`jaItaÊ     barM JaalaM kI [qao yao}na tU saaMigatlasa...  tulaa dIpavailacyaa hadI-k XauBaocCaÊ  hI idvaaLI tuJyaasaazI KUp kahI caaMgalaM Gao}na yaovaÜ.....  tumacyaa naa%yaasaazI hI XauBaocCa....     jamaola tXaI [qao yao}na BaoTt rha.....     
 
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Meghdhara
 
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 |  | Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 6:59 pm:    |  
 
 
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 ka kuNaasa za}kÆ malaa [d`jaIta hI cacaa- KÜTM baÜlauna saMpvato Aaho AsaM vaaTtya..  JaolamaÊ ikXaÜrIÊ saayaÜ tumhalaa Krca ho %yaacaM badlaNaM pTlaMÆ [tko idvasa satt icaDicaD krNaara [Md\tjaItacyaa
ek samajavaNyaavaÉna badlaU XaktÜÆ malaa A^bjaD- vaaTtya..     kI [Md`jaIta tu svatacaI fsavaNaUk caalauca zovalaI Aahosa.. PlaIja BaavanaIk AaiNa pyaa-yaanao vyavaharIk
AayauXyaacaI maosa kÉna Gao} nakÜsa..     gauMtNaÊ gaurfTNaM AaiNa ADkNaM yaatlaa frk jaaNaUna Gao..     ha sallaa naahI kaLjaI vaaTlaI tuJaI mhNaUna..     maoGaa 
 
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Pama
 
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 |  | Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 8:32 pm:    |  
 
 
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 maoGaaÊ maaJyaahI manaat Aala AgadI hoca. maI baÜlalao naahIÊtU spYTpNao baÜlalaIsa ho AavaDla. Krca malaahI
ho farsa pTt naahI ik [tko idvasa Asaa vaagaNaara eka samajaavaNyaat par badlaU XaktÜÊ tsa Krca Asaola
tr dovaca pavalaa²² naahItr kÜNa kÜNaacaI fsavaNaUk krtyaÆÆ 
 
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Maitreyee
 
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 |  | Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 9:43 pm:    |  
 
 
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 ditto megha ani pama !anyway, indrajitasamajadarÊ sa&ana [ [ AahoÊ AaiNa hI sagaLI cacaa- AaQaI JaalaIca Aaho tovh itnao jao zrvalaya to
kahI ivacaar k$na ca kolao Asaavao² good luck ! 
 
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Sayonara
 
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 |  | Thursday, November 03, 2005 - 11:43 pm:    |  
 
 
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 maoGaQaaraÊ pmaa AaiNa maO~oyaIÊ tumacyaa XaMka yaÜgyaca Aahot. pNa %yaatUnahI kahI caaMgalaM inaYpÙa
JaalaMca Asaola AsaM mhNaUyaat. 
 
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 tumha sagaL\yaaMcaI kLkL malaa kLtoya.  maoGaQaara tu tuJaM mat AgadI spYTpNao maaMDlaolaM baGaUna tr malaa KUp barM vaaTla.     maI svatÁlaa Ôsavatoya kI kaya AsaM Krtr malaahI vaaTlaM.  %yaamauLo jaÜpya-Mt tI Baavanaa maaJyaa manaat hÜtI tÜpya-Mt maI [qao khIca ilaihlaM naahI. pNa malaa
jaovha Ka~I pTlaI tovhaca maI [qao maJaM mhNaNaM pÜsT kolaM.     xaNaÜxaNaI icaDNaaáyaa maaNasaat Jaalaolaa badla  Accept  krayalaa malaahI ]iXarca laagalaa.     maI AsaMhI mhNat naahI kI ha badla puNa-pNao AgadI  100%  Jaalaaya.  pNa inadana gaolaolyaa eka maihnyaat trI tÜ malaa  Drastically  jaaNavalaaya.     1 maihnaa maI %yaacyaatlaa badla  notice  kolaaya. mhNaUnaca maagacyaa pÜsT maQao vaa@yaM TaklaM hÜtM kI  inadana Aa<aa yaa GaDIlaa trI sava-M kahI saurLIt Aaho.     XaovaTI jao vhayacaM Asaola to caUkt naahIÊ baGaU kaya hÜtya to.  
 
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Zelam
 
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 |  | Friday, November 04, 2005 - 12:46 pm:    |  
 
 
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 Md`jaItaÊ %yaacyaatIla badla kayama rahUdo hI [Ca.   Best of luck  
 
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