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Anupriya
Thursday, May 29, 2003 - 7:13 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa Asao vaaTto ik AayauYya mhNajao " imala jaayao tÜ ima+IÊKÜ jaayao tÜ saÜnaa hO " hoca lagnaabaabatIt hI Aaho.yaa BB vairla AnauBava AaNaI mato vaacauna kÜNaI lagna krNyaacaa vaa na krNyaacaa inaNa-ya tr Gaotlaolaa naaihya naaÆ

Adityaranade
Friday, May 30, 2003 - 11:59 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Jojo-good post!
On happiness let me quote a sentence from J. Krishnamurti (even at the cost of diverting a bit too much..:-))

" Happiness based on achievenment, fulfillment of dreams and ambitions can never be eternal..Because this kind of happiness is always based on comparison..and when old comparisons die, new ones will arise.True happiness is achieved only when one breaks away the shackles of comparison;of present to the past and the future; comparison of yourself with others.That is when we will become free in the true sense of the word.Free of the baggage of the past that we alwyas seem to carry in one way or another"
(From "The first and last freedom")

Manya
Sunday, June 01, 2003 - 9:33 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

BaOtaD
tUlaa va.pU. cyaa stories ba_la kaya problem Aaho to kLt naahIÊ AsaÜ ha BB %yaa discussion saazI yaÜgya naahI. pNa tuJyaa ( 29 May 2003 12.36pm ) posting var maaJa mat...

ijavanaat sagaL\yaaca gaÜYTI Aaplyaa Apoxaop`maaNao GaDt naahIt pNa %yaa isvakaravyaa laagatat. sagaL\yaaca gaÜYTI badlata yaot naahIt (Its a fact) .. sagaL\yaanaaca AadXa- AaiNa %yaaMcyaa klpnao saarKa rajakumaar / rajakumaarI jaÜDIdar mhNauna imaLtoca Asa naahI . maga tuJyaa mhNyaap`maaNao vaogaL vhayaca ikMvaa kuZt basaayaca .. ha kahI maaga- yaÜgya Aaho Asa malaa vaaTt naahI. pNa Aip`ya sa%ya pcavaNa ho ih saÜp nasatÊ ( ijavanaaitla sa%ya isvakarayalaa iXaka Asaa ]pdoYa krNa maa~ saÜp Asat ) mhNaunaca maga kaih saaQyaa saMklpnaaMcaI jaÜD do]na AayauYya sauKI krta yaot. (alaa jar t%va&ana ikMvaa KÜTarDopNaa mhNaayaca tr maga ijavana kzINa hܚla. AayauYyaÊ kaya imaLvala AaiNa kaya gamaavala (acaa jamaaKca- maaDNyaatca inaGauna jaašla

Aata AaiNa qaÜDXaI so called pholosophy
svatÁ saazI mhNauna sagaLoca ijava ijavana jagatatÊ pNa AapNa so called sausaMskRt maaNasa mhNaUna dusaáyaaMsaazI naahItrI Aaplyaa javaLcyaaMsaazI qaÜD jagalaÜ tr var jaatanaa qaÜD samaaQaana trI Asaola Asa malaa vaaTt.


Cool_gal
Wednesday, July 09, 2003 - 6:41 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaahI [qao kaih saaMgaavaosao vaaTto..
lagnaanaMtr AayauYya KrÜKrca badlato.. maaJyaat trI Kup caaMgalaa frk pDlaa Aaho... AaQaI maI CÜT\yaa CÜT\yaa gaÜYTIMvaÉna Kup ~agaa kÉna Gaot Asao... tsaoca saarKo evaZ\yaa tovaZ\yaalaa Aašlaa ~asa dot Asao..
pNa Aata laxaat yaoto kI %yaaMnaI p`saMgaI svatacao mana maaÉna Aaplao ksao laaD kolao... Aata maI hI Aaš hÜNaar Aaho..tovha malaa ho p`kYaa-nao jaaNavato..
lagnaamauLo maaJyaa ivacaarat AaiNa AacaarathI Kupca frk pDlaa Aaho... hI sauQaarNaa hÜNyaamaagao va sauPt caaMgalao gauNa baahor yaoNyaamaagao lagnaca karNaIBaUt Aaho Asao vaaTto²
AaiNa yaasaazI dovaacao AaBaarca maanaavaosao vaaTtat......


Ajitv
Tuesday, August 05, 2003 - 9:57 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaze kahi mahinyanpurvich lagna zale aahe. arranged marriage. kahi goshti baddal cha maazaa anubhav saangato.

1. mulinna bhatayala suruwaat karaNyaaadhi kahi goshti maazya manaat fix hotya. eg. mulila nokari asawi. aNi ti tichya aawadichi asawi. paishya sathi nahi. paN mulila swatache ase kahi sthaan asawe mhaNun. mi puNyachya baher aahe. tyamuLe mulichi nokari ashi asawi ki tila ethe alyawar lawakarat lawakar nokari miLel.
2. mulichya manaat barobarichi bhavana asawi aNi vyavaharachi jaNiv asawi. mhaNaje navara mhaNel tech barobar ase na hotaa doghanchya sallyane ghar chalate.
3. swabhav gappishta asawa. mi swataha jaraa shaant swabhavachaa aahe. mulagi tashich miLali tar gharaat nusati shantatach rahil :-).

4. mi mazya bayakola dusarya bhetit ho mhaNun sangitale. tya bheTit mi jenvha tilaa tichya apeksha wicharalya tenvha tine mala saangitale ki mala tu sagaLyaat aadhi mitra mhaNun apekshit aahes. to point mazya drushtine sagaLyat mahatwachaa hotaa.
5. lagnanantar (ajun paryant tari) aamhi aamachi mate ekamekanwar purN paNe kadhich ladali nahit. ofcourse kahi babatit problem hoto, paN ekada ekhadi gosht tharalyawar mag tyachyawar ugach barobar-waait charchaa hot nahi.

mazya mate jo paryant navara-bayako ekamekanna mitra mhaNun wagawat aahet aNi jo paryant ego problem yet nahi to paryant sansaar changalaa hoto.

ofcourse, routine cha, jababdaricha kantaLa yeNe vagaire swabhawik aahech. paN tase hot asel tar te routine badalata yeil ki nahi aNi kase badalata yeil he doghanni ekamekanshi charchaa karun tharavaNe garajeche aahe.

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